What about the TER "White List"? My understanding is that the lady can use that to vouch for you. We've heard time and again how important our reviews are - but how many ladies take the time to white list a client? If our reviews are important to you, doesn't it make sense to put forth a little effort to give a thumbs up to a gentleman?
I was in the same situation as greatsex ... wrote a few reviews, then decided to pay for membership and didn't review for quite a while. But then I realized how important it is not only for the ladies, but for the guys who are looking for information. And so I'm back into the review mode. It does take some effort, but it's worth it.
I would never expect nor ask for a discount for an honest review. But I do expect a well written, honest review to be posted - even if it is "inconsistent" with previous reviews.
write reviews for the hobbiest as well as the providers. I cannot tell you how many guys say "I do not do reviews because I do not kiss and tell" or I do not want it to come back and haunt me,or I am afraid to leave a trail...I do understand their concern for safty. I know reviews take time,effort, and care and just wanted to say thanks> A well repected provider recently had a date with a well known TER reviewer she went to alot of preparation to make sure she did her homework and created a wonderful evening at the end of the date he said" gee that was awesome but I do not want to do a review and share it other because it was so special"{He did finally post it} I had the same thing happen Two great dates in a row he said I only post the great experiences because it does take time and effort,I for one would like to see more of you guys posting.Victoria
I agree with everything in your message, Victoria. I must say for years, I did reveiews of every woman I dated. Its a LOT of work. I then decided to 'pay the 2 bucks' to subscribe to TER and not review. What I eventually found - it was harder to date new women due to the lack of current reviews. I've now gone back to reviewing - BUT IT'S A LOT OF WORK. Perhaps our providers could offer a TER DISCOUNT for those who review...Just a thought.
In response to greatsex4u, I think you have a good point , IT IS A LOT OF WORK ....If you write a review though it would be tough to give a discount becuse the review cannot be bought by favors it must be honest in order to work for the Members. however if she knows you do write reviews she now knows what you enjoy.and what to expect this makes for a better date. a good provider does her homework first. So I would hope that you would be rewarded by the quality of service you get by being a repected TER reviewer......Victoria PS love your handle
Good job Victoria, I have seen numberous men and they remain silent, which is fine,, but it sure makes us all jump for joy when we get a review,, it is just like Christmas opening up a review/present from a satisfied gentleman! We can never get enough love!! I agree thanks for your efforts!
Well then the next time we get together I'll take the time to do the review. The guys in Phoenix don't have any idea how lucky they really are to have you available in their city. Looking good as always Victoria.
writing honest reviews...I just wish that more would write the ones that aren't so flattering!
I've heard too many times that "I didn't want to hurt her feelings" or "I don't want to get slammed on the boards"
Your all kidding yourself if you think that some aren't being asked to write reviews or even given discounts to write them.
It's up to the Gent and he shouldn't feel like he has to....He should receive a wonderful and special date all the time, Special effort should be given whether he writes reviews or not. Is that not what he's paying for?
TER is suppose to be a honest review board!
I respect those that don't write reviews as well as Thank those that do! It really is appreciated!
Terri
What about the TER "White List"? My understanding is that the lady can use that to vouch for you. We've heard time and again how important our reviews are - but how many ladies take the time to white list a client? If our reviews are important to you, doesn't it make sense to put forth a little effort to give a thumbs up to a gentleman?
I was in the same situation as greatsex ... wrote a few reviews, then decided to pay for membership and didn't review for quite a while. But then I realized how important it is not only for the ladies, but for the guys who are looking for information. And so I'm back into the review mode. It does take some effort, but it's worth it.
I would never expect nor ask for a discount for an honest review. But I do expect a well written, honest review to be posted - even if it is "inconsistent" with previous reviews.
I would use the whitelist, but I have a lot of unanswered questions that need to be answered before I go jumping on the whitelist bandwagon...
I don't ask my gents to tell me their TER handles, But occasionally I will get a gent who wants me to use his TER handle as his "verification" to bypass the 2 provider reference requirement. I will not allow that. ANY person, VIP or not can view TER reviews and pick a "handle" to pretend to be. So, My question is... Is whitelist information viewable by the guys? Can VIP gents search handles for whitelist info? If thats the case, It's just as crappy of a verification as a plain ol' TER handle itself....
Also, One reason I know that a few ladies are not whitelisting men is because their lawyers have advised against it as "admission" of reviews when this is all fantasy right??
passing this information on to the rest of us...or to the attorney that is watching our backs on the yahoo group!
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