We have had the discussion of what makes you ATF you favorite, but what I want to know is...

1.Does you ATF know that they are your ATF? Have you actually told them?

2. When seeing someone new, do you hope that that person will have the talent and qualities to become your new ATF?

3. If you find a new ATF would you tell the previous ATF that they are no longer your ATF?

I look forward to your thoughts

I have alot of undercover ATF's but I can't tell them cause I don't think that is professional. To think bout it, I probably wouldn't even want to know if they consider me there ATF.. You already kinda just know!  xoxo SAbrina

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1. I kinda agree with Sabrina on that point . . . you don't TALK about it.  Plus, I think there are two different kinds of ATFs, one that stems from the physical chemistry and the other from intellectual chemistry.

2. Not necessarily.  Variety is just the spice of life.

3. Absolutely not.

I don't tell her in that term.  She knows by the way I treat her.  I only see someone new if something has happened with the current ATF, and yes, I do look for one who might qualify. I see only two or at most three ladies to avoid complications and have a backup if one retires.
I would never tell an ATF that she's history.  They know that as well.

OK I am in Denver but I believe that the question cuts across regional boundaries.  I will typically have more than one favorite and alternate seeing them as time and money and mood dictate.  

There are some ladies I can be very candid with, and some gals to whom I would never mention another ASP.  I have also had the good fortune of having my top 2 ladies (at one time) really dig each other and this made for some historic 3somes.

If I find a new favorite (I don't like the term ATF), she will know it by the frequency that I visit her and how generous I am with her over and above the going rate.  My all time all time fave, whom I don't see anymore (boo-hoo) had me 39 times in a 10 month period.  I also like to give my faves small gifts when I visit.  

When I see a new gal, I never worry about the future, only if that session will be all that I expect.  If so, or if there is great chemisty from both players, then there will be encores.

Be Safe!
Southern Boy
Denver

My post is in no way related to any situation I am in. More just questions that run through my mind as I read everyone talking about ATF's.I am fairly new at this hobby thing and have only seen a few providers. Two of which I really enjoy spending time with for two totally different reasons. I do not know if it would ever be possible to pick one person as My All Time favorite. Each lady is so unique and I enjoy each of them for who they are and what they are about. I guess my ATF is whoever I am spending time with at that moment.

I have also had the good fortune of having my top 2 ladies (at one time) - WOW you are fortunate indeed, another cause of my envy