Aren't these traits one in the same?? Iso very long or very wide tongue for great dfk.

I do what I can, but I only wish I had what Gene Simmons has!

MJ~ You sure do what you can, and you do it oh so well!  Gene's might be a wee bit longer, but YOU make up for that with exhuberance, technique and willingness!
Plus, you're much more my type (LOL), that's for SURE!  Have a great weekend, and Party Hearty on Super Sunday!

Actually,I don't believe that trait and that skill are either coincident or exclusive. There are sooo many more factors invovled in that skill than just one trait.

I made the post to find someone with a trait I love; not to debate it!! Opinions are like noses,....

I beg to differ.
You began the post with a question which is, by definition an invitation to debate. Then you asked for info.