And I am discovering that Phoenix had some very special people, both female and male.
Manae is a friend in need, and a community comes to the aide of a friend.
Yesterday I posted a link to Sirr's photos and Tina's lovely prayer on the national board, and couldn't believe the negative reactions. Yes this is an adult site; frankly, I don't see how the posting of a child's picture under these circumstances is at all inappropriate. My only hope was to bring situation of a friend whose world had been turned upside down to the group of people most likely to understand and sympathize with her plight, I guess I hoped for too much.
This vent is primarily in reaction to the national board, and not Phoenix, but I want my views to be known. I think most guys know this already, but if you haven’t figured this out already, the ladies we visit to fulfill our fantasies are real, living, breathing women!!! They have lives outside of our sessions, and many, many are moms. They are doing the best they can by their kids, and their families are no more, no less likely to be dysfunctional than yours or mine. Their job may cause difficulties, hardships, and absence from their kids, just like any other, and is NOT a failure on their part.
I hope that my Mom never reads this, because it was not her situation at all, and she is so conventional and a Christian, so she would never understand what I’m about to say. However, given the love she has given me, as an adult I would be willing and able to accept any life and career changes she may have have to chosen in order to provide for my me and my sister. My Dad was a career Army officer, and served 2 tours in Viet Nam, so yes there was some doubt at times.
I know my friend Mane’s Sirr William was her world, and I make no apology for bringing her situation to the attention to those, who one would expect, would appreciate most.
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