Some sites have a verified label. I had one provider tell me getting verified for eros.com was a PITA. I didn't ask. She looked like her pictures and is well reviewed. I signed up for a SD site and they accepted a homemade video as verification. Pics look like the video = good enough?

I'm not going to write something that ends up coaching somebody on how to write a fake ad. I wonder what they're up to? Simple trolling? Collecting data on hobbyists?

I'm looking at a provider with no reviews and a body that's TGTBT. Thinking I could call and ask her point blank if it's really her. Let her know I would walk and it would be a wasted appointment in the best case. I'm good with pictures that are close enough.

and well establish web sites for advertising I would stay with .

You can do a Google such as well to see more info about the person .