thank you ! I did recieve a nice pm from someone who said it seemed to make  me look  a little insecure by my post  the truth is I am.... I am mature 50+ and it might be a woman thing  but its hard on your spirit and confidence when someone  hurts  your feeling I feel good about myself and almost all my clients  are happy ones yet it just takes one to make you second  guess yourself ....so if your a harsh reviewer  and I know it I will pass everytime....

I read most reviews especially if I know the provider and if the hobbiest  then contacts me  and I have read a recent  review where he  in my opinion  was very hard on the woman  for, weight  old pics  appearance ..... whatever ...it makes me second guess if I want to take that risk  they might even say she was very nice but.......and then go  on to rip  her a new one ......I do understand you must be  honest but somethings are just way over  the top  like floppy tits a huge ass  I just find this  to be unkind and then it puts me on alert .....so i pass  up the date  afraid of him finding that I might not be perfect in his eyes.....I lose the date and he never knows why......please remember the ladies also are human  and can be hurt by cruel comment  especially if she really was a nice person as they said......

I undersand your dilemma. I truly believe a lot of these situations can be avoided if providers keep their photos updated regularly and did everything in their power to ensure that their pictures currently and realistically represent what they look like. In other words: Don't overglam photos. Airbrushing is ok when used sparingly, but some of these photogs really go overboard. Also, i don't think most guys mind if there is a bit of weight gain in the neighborhood of about 10 pounds. More than that and there is a risk that certain hobbyist would point this out in their review.

Some people just can't be pleased and I pass on them them too. I may even tell them I don't think I'll make them happy bc they seem to be kinda harsh in their reviews, in hopes they think about that in the future when reviewing. I always have recent pics and even video clips. The only 2 bad reviews I have were pp I had a feeling I shouldn't play with after reading their reviews and guess what, one even still tries to book with me again. Geesh
Anyways have a great weekend!

If a girl has 10 positive reviews and one "off the charts" negative- common sense tells you the reviewer was probably an asshole and disregard and go see her.  

But there are several girls who post regularly on BP who wildly mislead in both appearance and service and deserve the harsh reviews.   One chick from India who regularly posts on BP has been frequently blasted for posting old pics of her when she was 75 lbs lighter.   Then she up sells like crazy and provides horrible service.  She deserves whatever nastiness comes her way.  

For the honest provider who really tries to satisfy her clients, yes, it's a shame when she gets slammed by some jerk.   But for every one of these, there are probably 5 are scammers.   One girl told me that 99% of the game was just to get the client over there so the pics of models taken from adult sites serve their purpose.  

I still do not want to put myself out there to someone who has critical reviews as a pattern ....too many great guys out there to waste my time on someone that cannot be made happy .....it makes you second guess yourself and then a hot 28 yr old come bye and makes you feel beautiful  you just have to know your  not going to  a prefect fit  for everyone but I do agree the scammers need to be called out

Good for you, Victoria.

You ladies should never let anyone tear you down or second guess yourself. I like what you said "....so if your a harsh reviewer  and I know it I will pass every time.... ", it's your option who to see & who to not see, just like us guys. And if we don't get along, shit happens. I'm from the old school where, if you can't say something nice about someone, don't say anything at all. I can find something nice in everybody I meet. Would I see them again? Hell no, but I'm not gonna break then down by calling then names.

Now on the other hand, misrepresentation is not cool, but everyone does it. Fast food uses hot people selling they're product, clothing uses hot people selling the product. The ladies are just making themselves look sell able. Yes, some may over do it, but most just want to look better. Don't we all dislike something about ourselves? Except maybe me......j/k.....lmao.

And here's a little tip guys. Victoria and all the ladies on this and other boards who are active, are actually helping us, less fortunate guys, out by asking these questions. We need to listen and learn from what they're saying. It may pay off some day.

Vampatolia