I have to agree with you on this one. While the intent may be to help it is obviously coming across very misconstrued. While I don't agree that all hobbyist act in this manner I don't doubt for a minute there are those that cross the line in this way. "Do they feel empowered or due recognition because they pay for a service ?" Who really knows, but on the outside looking in maybe they feel valued, & that their opinion is actually worth something (whatever that may be in the community) that maybe their work, or home life isn't providing.


"Our lips are suppossed to be sealed, and the web should be for connecting & and sharing info to play safe & find good women ..and men to play with." Absolutely agree.

Well, you know the rest.

Some guys are addicts, some are sociopaths, and some are poor or financially challenged to where they are looking for charity.

Best thing is just ignore them. I had a friend who got a lot of the same plus requests for anal and stuff she wasn't into.

If you have an open method for people to contact you, you'll get some looser emails as well. Goes with the territory.

I have to agree with the ladies here. This goes back to my post a few months back.

1)Guys are always looking for deals. If they find an old ad that has rates lower than now or you had a special running, they will try to get a cheaper rate. It's the ladies choice whether to honer that rate.

2)Guys think they know how to help you. But everyone works differently. It's the ladies job.

3)And lastly. IT'S THE LADIES JOB!!! It's they're business, let them run it there way. If someone doesn't want to do something, don't fricking do it, charge as much as you want & see me for cheap...j/k, lmao. It's like any other business out there, "supply & demand".

Now, I'm gonna step off my soapbox.
Thank you.

If it is any consolation, it happens to every business owner in every field. People who have never owned and run a business in their lives are suddenly business and marketing experts.