Was just thinking about this the other day. The bottom line I arrived at is that, for me at least, an encounter approaching perfection can vary depending on my mood and interest on any given day. Don't know about others here, but I find I have a list of ladies I enjoy spending time with who offer slightly different experiences from each other. Some are newer to the business and bring that honest passion and intimacy without the need for acting or staged involvement but often times these ladies may not have the experience and/or comfort level with certain activities and forms of play yet. Some of the more seasoned professionals bring a wealth of experience to their play and are better skilled but perhaps have lost some of the honest intimacy that may have once existed. It really has become more of a job for them and for all of their best efforts, it shows through. However, from a play perspective, they can really knock your socks off. Sometimes, I want the encounter to be soft, gentle and passionate and at other times, wild, woolly, and bouncing off the walls, carries the day. It is a true professional, in my opinion, who can bring all of the above to a session to meet my desires of the moment. The good news is that THEY DO EXIST out there. The challenge is to find them first.

So unfortunately Malissa, I cannot offer a simple answer for you on this one. My suggestion would be for the ladies to do what is fun and comfortable for them and to just be themselves. No one can be all things, to all people, all of the time so just be true to yourself in the process, enjoy any given moment in time and if things "click", both parties will know it.

But of course, if some lady wants to leave me with the feeling of being my true SO, knock my socks off physically in every encounter and PAY ME for the experience - now THAT would be perfection!  LOL  I call that the Love Me - Fuck Me - Pay Me model.................. anyone want to sign up?

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The session must be at least two hours long.  Foreplay is very important and the girl should allow for an extended period of touching and caressing and kissing and a bit of conversation about the wonders of nature.  The main event should leave me totally drained and with a bit of a headache and has to be followed by more touching (I love my hands on a woman's body!!!)

I should leave intellectually stimulated, physically drained, with a headache and a great thirst for water.

Starts with the perfect woman of course.  For me, slim, long flowing hair, perfume, open minded, likes all her inputs to be explored, kidless, juicy and tight, orgasmic from sex and has a higher sex drive than me !!   Is that to much to ask ?