When a provider is listed at a higher donation than another provider, it does not mean the lower-donation lady is worse in bed, is any less classier, takes more appointments to catch up, etc. It depends on each (individual) lady.

I used to be a $400 to $450 provider when I was with an agency and when I first started as an independent. Yes, when I first started this business I had a body comparable to a 25 year-old at the time. Yes, I still have a body that is lovely. Why did I lower my donation fee? Well, because I could. I also wanted to be fair to everyone and not have to run specials all the time or have some men think they are getting a better deal than someone else. Do I offer extended hours sometimes to regulars? Of course, that's just being polite and using good business sense, as long as they don't start taking me for granted. Believe me when I say that I always have business. Slow? Not me. What's slow? Each lady has her own perception of what is slow. I actually have to turn some friends away because I don't take a lot of clients in a week and especially not in one day. And . . . I do tend to get friends who want to spend two or three hours with me because I truly am a courtesan-type provider. So . . . am I making less money than high-end providers? I doubt it, unless they see clients every day for two hours or more.

I really like what I do but it is only part time for me. I have two other businesses I own and also a retirement I get each month. So . . . do I need the money? Probably not? Am I a taxpaying citizen? You bet your sweet ass. I'm protected.

Is the additional cash flow nice? Of course it is. Does it mean that I'm an older provider who has lost her looks? Of course not. Does this mean that higher-end providers don't want to associate with me because they think I might be trash (chuckle, chuckle)? I've heard that some providers say they won't hang out with low-donation girls because they think they are not up to their level. Oh, please. These people need to get off their high horses. Gossiping and backstabbing are not classy qualities. I'm sorry. Does that mean I don't associate with them because they charge $400 to $500? Heck no! I have a few good friends in this business. One is high-end and one is like me with her donations. They're both intelligent and classy ladies. Also, when you hear some ladies who say they charge more so they don't have to take as many clients, that's probably true for them but not for everyone, and certainly not for me. I don't take a lot of clients in a day. I just won't do it. So let's throw that rumor out of the door. If women take a lot of clients in a day it's because they like what they do and/or they want the money. Let's not kid ourselves.

Let's get this straight, okay. Someone with a donation of $260 to $300 an hour does not necessarily mean she is not classy or intelligent. In fact, I have a few degrees, run three businesses (so obviously I'm not an idiot), have a beautiful home, a car that's paid off, a bank account and investments. Do some other providers have these things? Probably some do and probably some foolishly wash their money down the drain on expensive clothes, etc. But that's their right. However, this notion that a high-end provider gives better service, is better looking, is more intelligent and will attract a better clientele base is somewhat hogwash. You cannot buy class!

Yes, I agree that a lot (I say "a lot, not everyone") of clients that spend more money are gracious and not expecting more than what they pay for, and that is refreshing. However, I have had really intelligent, classy men from a $260 appointment that have treated me as nicely as the $400 friend and still had a good time. I agree that when you drop your donation to under $250 there is a different sort of clientele, but they are not always bad clients.  Also, did you consider from a marketing standpoint that $260 is easier to get out of the bank than $250 or say $310? Also, when a client sees in writing "$300", there is an automatic light that goes off in his head that the donation is starting to get a little high. Some may agree or disagree with me, but I think it's a psychological thing. Now . . . if a lady is a great provider and can earn $500 a day with only one client for one hour, then that's great! Go for it! But how many actually say they're busy when they're not? No one will know that for sure. So, I guess what I'm saying is it's up to the provider what she charges, but lowering or raising your price does not mean you're better or worse. Raising might, however, mean she is providing something that some won't. That's all.

So . . . can we please stop assuming what is not there. You know the old saying, "When you assume, it makes an a_s out of you and me." That is so true.

Happy hobbying, everyone, and peace to all!

Hugs,
Ciara



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The "sticker" price might "spark" an interest but the "encounter" itself lights the "fire".
The interaction and the all elusive GFE is the cream on an already yummy desert. I will have to see what you have to enjoy/offer/recieve.
Thanks for your insightful post!

so if i spend 260 with you im an ok client......but if i spend 250 somewhere else im a " different sort of client"?????

I said there is a different clientele and "not always bad." Generally, I have had better experiences with gentlemen who pay at least $260. This does not pertain to men when I'm running a special. The men who usually wait until I drop my donation for a special that I've seen before are very nice.

Some men who notice my special and only see women at the $200 range are nice, too, but there are a few very strange cases I've had at the $200 range who have scared the crap out of me. That's only my experience. I'm not speaking for everyone. Don't ask me why. It's just my experience. I have also had some good experiences with some at the donation, too. But on the whole, the majority (I said not all), try to get as much bang for their buck, and I'm a total GFE. How can I possibly give an hour massage (or even a half hour), pamper the guy, fix us drinks, have some conversation (maybe none), and still give him the best of everthing else in an hour. You can't, or it's rushed at the end. That is why some women charge more and some women (like me) prefer two-hour appointments. But hey, if you want to come over for an hour, that's okay with me, too. But I may not have time to give you a great massage that you hear about on my reviews or spend 15 minutes licking your entire body. Get the point.

Hugs,
Ciara

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Sometimes the "encounter" can put out the fire.  Regardless of the "sticker price"  a downer is still a downer.  What at first glance seems like it might be pleasurable, a painful encounter still results in no second visit.  I, for one, choose repeat visits based on a lot more than the "sticker price".

and becauce some may have a higher sticker price does not make them "higher class" as some seem think they are! or even better than the rest of us!

I look for the provider who acts like she does it because it's fun and you get paid too.

i always laugh when i see girls posting, "you get what you pay for"

oh no you most certainly dont. not in this biz

i'd rather be a pleasant surprise than a bitter disappointment any day of the week.

when i first became an independant, i always thought the high priced girls needed to have their rates up so high cuz their guys dont ever come back.

oh wait i still think that lol.

This post was not meant to bad mouth high-end providers. Please let me make that clear! Everyone has a right to charge whatever they want. But when the business turns into a gossip flogging then it's time to point out the realities.

My intentions were to lay to rest assumptions made by certain people who do not realize that lower-priced ladies are just as good. That's all.

Now, to return to your scheduled programing.

Hugs,
Ciara

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Thank you Ciara. You are a lady of class and brilliance. I have never met you, but one day I hope to get to.
XOXOXO,
Cheyenna

if all else fails,
use your stiffy as a homing device.

i know.
im worth like a million, its cool.

I'm actually glad to see someone post this.

I have been with gals who charge $100.00 to those who charge $1,000.00 and price usually has nothing to do with how they act.

In fact, many times the lower priced gals were nicer.

I was taught to treat everyone with respect, no matter who they are.  Now, if you do me dirty, then that's another story.  

It is a shame that guys think that they can do what they want without asking the lady, first.

Well,back from a week in Colorado and had to read the Phoenix board to see what is the current ISSUE and this seems as good as one to comment on. Ciara, you do not need to defend yourself.Most of the girls who work agencies get their (share) and it is less than what most independants charge. I am sure they have their reasons for being with the agency.U know it is like some people who buy cars,unless it is very expensive they will not buy.For those people life is a different story.I am sure it is the same way with the ladies.They will only buy the 1500.00 an hour one. But have you ever read their reviews?Very seldom are they stellar,no connection,maybe the bod is perfect but the rest is far from it. So Ciara, I know what you offer, and believe me you r a deal.Soooo, have a wonderful day and enjoy the holidays and you should know better than to worry if a (high)priced gal doesn't  want to waste your time.HA!!BJN

I was actually posting this for a lot of women out there that don't want -- or are afraid -- to voice their opinion. You know me: I'm witty but strong and will do it.

Thanks, hon!

Hugs,
Ciara