I think it is one of a group of things that can allow you to go higher than 7.

For example 7 is supposed to be the highest that a massage and happy ending can get.

I believe that a provider who offers "everything else" can easily be a 10 as you mention. I oo have seen many of those, when the provider was not bi either.

But that is just TER. There are many other avenues for ads and reviews as everyone knows.

I think there is a spectrum of whether a person "likes it" or offers it or just tolerates it for extra money or just won't do it at all.

I think there is a spectrum of interest in men as well. I don't care one way or another myself. But I have been facinated by the occasional woman that is able to orgasm from it. That just shows how different we can be.


HH

I am surprised when I find out a woman does not like cunnilingus. But I guess it's not that rare.

Likewise I have met women who can achieve orgasm through kissing and nipple play. Yet Not too long ago I met a woman who gets no arousal whatosever from her nipples. (no implants) It felt strange that I received more arousal from mine than she does from hers. LOL!

And there is the woman I met who can orgasm from performing felatio.

If you like something, you like it, whatever the reason. If you dislike it you shouldn't feel you have to do it. People that pressure others in that way are selfish and disrespectful.

But there is always that middle ground of neither like nor dislike. If that is the case, it might make sense to do it for some other reason than the pleasure, I guess.


HH

do they charge more for it? What happens  if the client is larger  can you refuse if it is on  your menu of  options  ...

Well not all women like it. Its just like anything else, women come in different colors and flavors, lol. And as far as charging, this whole biz is about charging. I mean to take your train of thought out to its logical conclusion, sex...if women really like, it, why do they charge for it???? lol. I am all for that, but I think my fellow female posters might disagree, lol. Thanx

However, that is not true for all escorts. I've been with a number of local providers who do not charge for trips to the island.  Now for part II, yes some woman will deny service if the equipment is to large.
Some will have a disclaimer on their web site.

I get that but do women really like it ? I saw a review where the provider uses numbing  lube   that tells me it cannot feel too good if you have  to numb it out first ......what about health issues  is it safe?  I would assume condoms are used right? Why do men want this type of service if it cause pain ? One poster even said this year no more regular sex for him just anal ...seriously? Ladies do you really enjoy this   would you do the for the same price?  Just really curious not  trying to judge anyone  just always wanted to know  if I was missing something......

I consider it to be.a.etish.... Now a lot of girls are so down and out a lot of things that use to be a treat is now part of the basic package. A lot of girls are really lowering their standards for that all mighty dollar..and its not about charging extra because you enjoy it but a lot of Iroviders are really changing the game.

I don't like it, if it causes my partner pain.  I've had escorts ask me if I'd like a trip to the islands, without even a hint coming from me.  I guess it's an acquired taste for both providers and hobbyists. Just like everything else bcd, some ladies swallow, others don't, some like to dfk other's don't, some do bbbj others don't.  If it's not your thing, I wouldn't worry about it.

then how could you understand how someone would be able to. My S.O. would not understand how you do what you do.  Can the lady refuse you bet she can. It would be as simple as,  Sorry Charlie only the best tuna gets in my can.

Bianca I think your 100% correct  I have followed the careers of several ladies over  the last decade and have seen just what you  are talking about some do use it as a last resort .....sad but true and others as a way to up their sales.... and then I am sure some really do  enjoy it

"I would assume condoms are used right?"  You better hope so!  And in your case as the provider, not "hope" but "insist" if after all this time you are now first inclined to provide travel to Greece!

My dear, Sex Ed 101 (actually, that would suggest a college course.  I suspect this is nowadays covered early in high school, or even before!):  how do you think AIDS became the scourge of the gay community decades ago, if not by unprotected anal sex?!  And the higher percentage of infection risk/likelihood is for the unprotected recipient, whether female or gay male.  So, that would theoretically be you, not your moussaka-seeking client!

(Also, there is a higher risk with unprotected anal than vaginal sex, I believe due to the thinner rectal tissue and more likely consequent potential rupture of capillaries, etc. that permits mixing of STD-containing semen and blood.  Experts may chime in here.)  

As to "why do men want this type of service if it cause[s] pain" to the woman, umm, guess what, sometimes guys are actually more focused on what THEY want  (hard to believe, right? Duh!) than they are about the partner . . . who in this case, let's face it, in the present context is a paid provider rather than a relationship-based "significant other."  Most are not there for the provider, but for themselves, which is fair enough since they are the ones paying.  And, Greek providers are doubtless expected to be experienced enough to know how to use adequate lube, or whatever.  I guess for the guy the attraction is that it's tighter, or something.  Not my thing, never done it so don't know.  Then again, I once asked here what was the deal with guys coming all over the woman's face, body, etc.  (Inside mouths was not included; I think we all love and understand that!!)  That question was kind of as you've asked now about anal, but though I've been around longer than most, unlike you I'm not a provider with 14 pages of TER reviews!  Anyway, wanting to spray cum like a fire hose on your partner was also not my thing and to me it's denigration of the woman (my opinion only; don't get pissy, people!), but I got wrongly drawn and quartered here by both hobbyists (HalfHour in particular) and providers alike who enjoy that stuff and erroneously tarred me as being judgmental, yada yada.   Never meant my comments on that (nor anal as you're asking about) to be perceived negatively; I just personally didn't get it and still don't, that's all.  Maybe I'm just too old and like vanilla too much.  My issue, not anyone else's.  By all means, everybody, go do whatever you like!  Live and let live!  Go forth and prosper!  Nanu nanu! . . . as long as both participants are on the same page.  (Per my disclaimers above, please spare me the attacks now, thank you very much.)

Have to say that I must ask how you might seem to be so innocently naive about anal after being a highly rated provider with 14 pages of TER reviews going back 8 years . . . ???  With that many clients (after all, what percentage write a TER review?) over that long a period, this has had to come up relatively often, right?  So, where have you been on this question until now?  My guess is you've just historically said "sorry, no" and moved on, but inquiring minds want to know.

very true words but I do believe many list it on menu  as an option  without really offering it .... it is my understanding  to get higher performance scores...... remember you just  have to offer it ....have read many a perfect 10 with no mention on any of providers reviews of anal or another provider being there as in really bi......yet pull 1o's why because its offered  JMHO

Oh yes I have been asked  a lot and  just always said  not my thing kinda felt it was  to cause pain  and to make one feel subservient or maybe it was just they wanted to get something  they could not get from SO  or try something  different  like you each to  his own  BTW I love you POST

I would guess most that do offer actually enjoy it when done properly.  I have dated a few women that do truly enjoy it but the guy has to treat that a little different taking it slower at least at first for the women to enjoy it.  There are a couple providers I have met that offer it up freely no extra charge but they are rare.  I would assume most that do offer it for additional charge probably do enjoy anal when done right but they never really know what they will get with the guy I mean if he just forces himself in and pounds away it's not going to be enjoyable thus the extra charge?  But I am sure a number of guys like myself like when they give pleasure and would treat the woman the way they would enjoy themselves.  Guess I would assume if every guy just abused the privileged of that menu item it wouldn't remain on the menu long?  But given some men are willing to pay extra for the service and also not knowing what type of guy your going to get preforming it on you then they charge extra.  I wouldn't be surprised if some with regulars that preform in a enjoyable manner getting offered for no extra but nothing gets said about it.  I know of one that does this for certain but she would prefer you not mention you get it no extra charge so she doesn't get harassed by others for the free upgrade.

...anal is not high on my list of 'must haves'.
I've tried it once, so far. It took my lady 10+ minutes to insert her gadget to ready herself for me. I lasted only a few strokes before I decided to try something else. I'l try it again someday. One lady who I knew offered it explained  her 3 finger rule. She said, "I guess we could try it if you want..." I'll interpret that as, "No, I'd rather not".
Subservience:
This was brought up a couple of times. Almost always my sessions involve the lady kneeling before me and sucking my cock. I don't demand it or ask for it...it just happens. I suspect that it's just as big as a turn for the ladies as it is for me. I also like to be in the subservient role. I love it when a woman straddles my face and grinds her pussy against my mouth. I also am very happy to pay a woman $400 an hour for the privilege of licking her butt. I can never predict which women I will want to do this to or why....it is what it is.
So, there you have it. If it feels good, do it!

I have met a few ladies that actually enjoy anal. At least they said so. But I am postive that I have met 2 provider that enjoy it. not really my thing either but if I am led to believe it is something she really enjoys. well count me in.

Some people offer the greek island because the kitty or their oral skills might not be the good.  Just my opinion and it does speak for everyone.  LOL

you crack me up Drum  you say what others would not admit to.....I must say  I am surprised  just how many men  like to lick womens asses I once talked about this with a friend /provider  I was very close to and we both thought it was so strange  that a man would do this.... I do not think women are so inclined  to this sort of practice  must be a guy thing  kinda like dogs at the park  sniffing each others asses  has to be a very primal thing ......so happy I was born a woman.....

what a way to have to compensate....LOL well interesting thread thanks everyone for sharing your views.....

did you forget the word not luv?    

Because I've been in doubles with providers who offer greek, watched it happen and trust me, they don't offer it because they are lacking in their other skills..

shoot!  

Thread is hilarious!
xoxo
Jazz

...I had always wondered what my infatuation was with a woman's butt. If you look at the BP ads, 75% of the photos are of women enticing us men with photos of their butts. Butts are nice to look at and to squeeze but, after that, what are they good for? I found my answer when a lady had posted pictures of her in a jacuzzi with soap suds cascading down her back and into her butt crevasse. Of course, a freshly washed woman's butt was meant to be licked!
My casita at the resort where I was staying had a hot tub on the private patio. Nina and I had spent a little time in the hot tub before we went to the bedroom. Nina has a figure other women hate her for. She is beautiful and skinny. We were engaged in 69 and her arse was glaring at me. I couldn't resist. I started licking it. Nina responed favorably. I lost control and went gonzo on her butt.
I would consider my fetish to be on the very mild side of fetishes. Unusal? A little. Strange? Hardly. Taboo? Well we don't exactly bring this up as a dinner topic but it's perfectly acceptable among consenting adults.
Times change and we all grow wiser. What used to be grounds for sodomy charges are now protected acts under civil rights laws, thank God.
So Vic..... shake your booty for us, please?

might not shake it but now I make sure to keep it extra clean  as I never know just who might show up  Hint  hint

I was hoping you would expound on that statement in your thread and you didn't.  May I ask why you think that?

...and it should be appropriately rewarded. Most providers don't offer the service and many are repelled by the idea. I don't think it'd bankrupt any of us to pay a little extra for a niche service like this. Bianca pointed out that it's getting to be more common for providers to offer it as part of their basic package and I agree with her that it's too bad if ladies don't receive extra $ for this service. Butt...it's a free market and ladies can and will charge what they want.

and you're right, it's a free market, and if a provider wants to charge more for greek, all the more power to her. And if she doesn't want to charge extra, than that's fine by me. I guess you and I will agree to disagree.