I like girly girls. Not looking for lesbians who want to be with other girls. Yea, it is ok if they play for business, but if a girl is into it for personal. Nah. Not my style. As I said in an earlier post, I like seeing girls who like guys. But that is hard to tell lately with all this talk about multi girl sessions. Seems like the only ones not paying are the girls! Hmm. Maybe in a 3 way if a girl really likes girls, the two girls oughta chip in. But I digress.
Girls I have seen recently - Donna next Door. Donna has the most incredible skin of most anyone woman I have been with, hobby or not. Smooth, incredible to touch. And she has a look that will make you feel like she is into you totally. And the service is great. And body is slammin hot! My opinion - I find a lot of women attractive of all shapes and sizes. If they ooze sensuality (Jasmine of Phx - that woman has gallons of sensuality that oozes out of her fo' sho'), I like them. I can always tell the ones who are truly in the mood and who are mechanical.
Isabella Amore - awesome. There is a devlish sparkle in her style which I dig. Aside from being so cute I wanted to pinch her cheeks (wait, I did - different cheeks though), she is someone who will spoil you. She did me. She did me. She did me. 'nuff said...but I wanna be "did" again and again by her. Now there was chatter about girls not calling back. Life gets busy. But if I call Isabella, call me back. I'd love to see you again but I am not a chaser.
Mystique party - had a chance to meet Megan. This girl is truly bright. Was it an ENFJ? I don't mean in a just reads the paper, but EXTREMELY bright. So if you like conversation from somoene who has a tender side, and is smart enough to say nice things and not be all about the hobby, she would be a good visit I am sure. My schedule has been crazy. And this is wierd. But I liked talking to her so much, I didn't think BCD. Not that she isn't pretty - she is my type - but I just thought she was incredibly bright and liked talking to her. Chemistry is there.
There are a few girls I have spent time with that I find talking to is as much "fun" as being with them. Anyone else run into this? OK. I am not trying to be a jerk here, but when my little head has a focus, seems my big head can take over. Must be getting old. Or maybe just mature.
I hate being with girls who talk to me about the business while I am with them BCD. It happens. And I think a lot of guys like it. Who would rather talk about other things than "who did what to who and whom posted what"? Doesn't that get old. Old fashion 'nekkin' is what I like. Moans of passion. Playfullness. I rarely revisit a girl who spent the whole time talking hobby. Just me.
Relationships and providers. Ok, has it happened to you? Has me. Twice. Not in this town though. Ever date a girl in the biz? I'm not talking "you are married and she isn't". That's not dating. If so, what was your most pleasant experience. How about fessin' up to the worst part...
For me, the best was believing she had a goal to get out. The worst was she did not get out. Like I said, I am a simple guy sometimes. Then theres the "I make so much money at this I can't get out and it is too much fun" - as she drives away in the '86 Escort back to the unfurnished apartment after being in this for more than 2 years. Chemicals, shopping (consuming for happiness), all that stuff that causes this. Slam me. I wish you the best though honestly. Those that know me understand that.
Heck, if this doesn't stir up some conversation, some attacks, some words - all those taboos we never speak on a board. I guess it means I am close to getting done with my online persona. Not yet, but maybe soon. Hey wait. That's another one. I am in. I am out. I am under the radar. I am here. I am there. Funny. Guys get quiet too when they are in relationships. I did - twice (I said that). I went UTR. Seems like it is ok for the girl to "hobby", but not the guy. Never quite understood that rule but played by it.
Shillin like a villain. Backchannels, phone calls - yea the girls are friends too guys. They know about the different guys. Who pays and plays. Groups, buddies. All the stuff we don't post. Discounts for good reviewers. All those things people initially get upset about in the hobby. "I never pay more than $$" screamed from a mountain top. "I always get $$$$" screamed from a mountain top. Crazy world. But like any business, the math ain't always the math. Scandals everywhere. WHO CARES! Do the research. See who you want to see. And if you are paying a discount rate and shillin (support, reviews, etc), shame on you for not tellin' your bretheren. 'Cuz you are also the first one to get upset if someone pays less than you. I mean, if I am at $$$ and you are at $$, or even less, yea, that steak dinner always tastes better assuming the same service at a lower price. When I find out who those guys are, I immediately discount their reviews from 9's to about my 6.
My point to this was a lot of the comments lately about not talking hobby stuff. If you want to talk it, TALK IT. But do not hide behind useless words slamming people who are just sharing their thoughts. Yea, put up some useful stuff - but only if it is useful, not like this post - full of drivel (except the Donna, Isabella, Jasmine and Megan comments).
Key here is, the guys doing the shillin, getting the deals, upset with their life - well they are the first to slam. Yet never talk about the other intel they have (they want to keep their cheap rates to themselves). My comment - it is cool to keep things to yourself. It is ok to not have anything useful about life to add. But don't slam those who want to share their heart. Don't slam those who want to speak out. This country was based on the ability to do that. Read the disclaimer before you hit ENTER. It is ALL ENTERTAINMENT. And half of the hobby is NEVER shared in public anyway.
Ok. So I need a "That was way too long to read". or a "there he goes again" comment. Or better yet, "you don't know what you are talking about". Is the hobby predictable? Yea. Are the posts? Yea. I was talking with a fellow hobbyist recently, and we listed the Top 10 Posts on ANY board. They are all the same.
Enjoy the day...
Disclaimer: To those who may feel offended by any of this, note I did not use names. So by posting a negative comment (oh wait - you will use a ficticious handle - that's brave), we will only read that you ARE that type of person. Or defending it. Because anyone in the "know" for any length of time can't argue with these points and keep a straight face.
And as JJ says, Hobby Happy. Or something like that.
Now that's entertainment...Can I get paid by the word?
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