ummmbada,
                you have some choices,
1. call her again and setup another appointment
2. post who she is so someone else doesnt get a NCNS
3. tell me to piss off!

I do think you should follow your gut on these things.

As I posted, I've had too NCNS, where I gave a second chance. In both cases I was glad I did. But they could have gone either way.

The way I approach it is I set my expectation for either outcome. That was if I get a NCNS, I'm not overly dissappointed, but that doesn't mean I absolutely WILL give a second go.

I guess I have always selected ladies that I truly have an interest in meeting in person. NOt just "oh, I fancy her, I think we should do a roll in the hay!" ... so in both my cases I was willing to risk it a second time.


HH  

Some might remember my post of a ncns last week. I took the suggestion, which I think and still feel is a good one, to email her to see what happened. So after two days later she finally emailed back. Saying she had some drinks, was too nervous, and had issues to deal with that day. Ok, whatever, I get it. Whatever it is she can't or don't want to make it that day. So she said she'll make it up. I thought...ok since she had good reviews from trusted reviewers I will give her the benefit of the doubt and gave her a second chance. Well...no show again.

Sigh...I guess I am too nice. Don't know if this is a shame of me?...lol As the saying goes...fool me once, shame on you, food me twice, shame on me.

but I sure as shit won't beg to pay for pussy.  I've also shortened up the saying "three stirkes and you're out" I usually let 'em have one stirke if it's a true NCNS me. If they happen to have a "life got in the way" situation and call me and cancel, then I'll reschedule.

That's a quality expression. Never heard it, but I like it and agree 100% with your "policy". I follow the exact same logic.

I have been stood up a few time's, too. Most have let me know the hour before we were to meet.  Most time's it was a " just life " thing. I just find something else fun to do. I also feel there is no such thing as too nice! It is one of my biggest turn on's!!

Awesome for you!  nothing gets my goat more than a NCNS! well being late for appt..... slow drivers, BFT (Big Fucking Truck) in a compact space,  ok I will stop