He or she is avg or unattractive even by general consensus can still be sexy. There is just SOMETHING about him or her that gives you a really pleasant feeling in your naughty bits lol
I use to be offended when someone would say "you're so sexy"...I'd instantly think to myself they on wanted me for sex and they had no intention on wanting to know the complete me ( my inner self etc). Now when I hear the phrase, I ask them their definition of SEXY...it's always a different definition each time.
Webster's definition of sexy is : 1: sexually suggestive or stimulating : erotic 2: generally attractive or interesting : appealing
I'd like to ask the boards definition of the word SEXY and what on a woman makes them so SEXY.
Interesting question and I find it hard to define really. I can't consider myself to be attracted to a particular part of a women's anatomy as it differs with the woman. On some it is a beautiful smile or really cute face and on others it is a great ass or long shapely legs. The best attraction comes from interesting conversation and mutual interest. Then I can pick an asset that really gets my pulse rate up. Kind of an adult version of Mr. Potato Head.
My definition of sexy is, those qualities that attract me and stimulate my having a sexual interest in her. It may be her looks, figure, or personality, but definitely her attitude. Some things you see, and some things you sense. A combination of these is what makes her sexy.
Way to read way more into a simple comment then a person ever meant there to be.
Sexy to me just means that at that moment the sight of you is arousing. It is in no way a reference to how I may want to get to know you at the time or in the future.
Sexy is a style and characteristics. And that style is attractive to someone or not and can change depending on moods and experiences. Even Websters definition is subjective. What I find erotic someone else might find mundane. What I find attractive someone else might not like.
If a man tells a woman she is sexy, it is a compliment. From that man to that woman, he finds her, well, tintalating. Makes him tingle. For that moment, his juices are flowing. His heart racing a bit faster. Yea, naughty thoughts might prevail - or perhaps he needs to digest and begin to fantasize. Feeling a need to get closer.
Does that mean sex? Not really. But we are men - and it definately means a high level of interest. So if you want to say she is interesting....
Taking those ideas and summarizing my individual viewpoint: Sexy is that balanced combo platter of physical attributes, personality, and maturity unique to the lady who is piquing my interest.
He or she is avg or unattractive even by general consensus can still be sexy. There is just SOMETHING about him or her that gives you a really pleasant feeling in your naughty bits lol
Sexy to me is a look, attitude or personality that makes a woman stand out to me. Appearance can easily be defined as being sexy because of a certain look but when you add in their personality it pushes sexiness over the edge, for me. Confidence is also a trait that I think helps define sexy.
Women who can be labeled as smokin hot are not always sexy. If I cannot carry on an intelligent conversation with you than why am I hanging with you? So, sexy to me is much more than just appearance.
Sexy to me is a look, attitude or personality that makes a woman stand out to me. Appearance can easily be defined as being sexy because of a certain look but when you add in their personality it pushes sexiness over the edge, for me. Confidence is also a trait that I think helps define sexy.
Women who can be labeled as smokin hot are not always sexy. If I cannot carry on an intelligent conversation with you than why am I hanging with you? So, sexy to me is much more than just appearance.
First, I would have to be attracted to a woman and then there are so many intangibles that can make me find a woman to be sexy (besides an overtly display of her cleavage, of course).
That small gap between her front teeth... The mischievous twinkle in her eye... That mole near her lip that she rocks like Cindy Crawford... Delicate hands... Dorkiness... A graceful, feminine way about her... A sense of humor, wit and sarcasm. I love it when a woman can give me a little light hearted shit...I'm thick skinned enough to take it and your sexiness index skyrockets as a result.
The slight awkwardness I detect when she walks in high heels. I know she loves to dress up and look pretty but I'm sure she'd rather be wearing sneakers or low wedges... That slight hint of a mustache that I notice at the outer edges of her lip... A woman's Australian accent... An Asian woman's speech whose first language isn't English but isn't difficult to understand... Hair out of place... Her lisp... That sexy tattoo on her shoulder, that odd tattoo that she now regrets, or pretty much any tattoo... The slight muffin top she gets with her really tight jeans and her midriff baring top... The aroma of cum on her breath...(mine!)
I prefer imperfection over perfection and that's what makes her perfectly sexy!
Oh yeah.... and Vampire Teeth!!! What woman doesn't look sexy with vampire teeth?! I'd love to meet with a lady with a nice set of vampire teeth prostheses. Love bites!
I get told I'm sexy all the time at baseball games and when I climax. Why??? I have no damn clue, in both scenario's I'm making a weird face, I'm rambling, sometimes cussing, eyes rolling, I don't see what men find sexy about that.
For me I automatically think 1950's pin up girls when I hear the phrase sexy woman, but then again I'm a dinosaur.
It ceases never to amaze me the many and varied aspects of a woman I find "sexy" ... inclusive of any and every attribute: from a beautiful physique to a lilting laugh, from a well-vocalized song (yes, even Karaoke) to fit and well muscled tone, or from soft curvature to engagingly articulate conversation, from an elegant sip of wine to shooting tequila, and yes, of course, from a seductively cut/slit cocktail dress to brazen nudity ... the list is simply endless. What excites a sense of sexy may well induce a desire to possess/conquer/seduce, although it need not; it is oft times simply an admiration, perhaps a wistful admiration, but an admiration nevertheless. But I would certainly never construe calling a woman "sexy" as a derogatory reduction of a woman to her sex. A woman's "sex" is so much more than the physical act itself, which can be rather unfulfilling if not, at its worst, violent and rapacious.
What I perhaps find most "sexy," however, in the way of personal gratification, is when a woman is engaged with me ... the more intently, the more sexy ... always.
I have likely spoken at greater length than I ought ... just my 2 cents.
Posted By: SexyMilf4you
I use to be offended when someone would say "you're so sexy"...I'd instantly think to myself they on wanted me for sex and they had no intention on wanting to know the complete me ( my inner self etc). Now when I hear the phrase, I ask them their definition of SEXY...it's always a different definition each time.
Webster's definition of sexy is : 1: sexually suggestive or stimulating : erotic 2: generally attractive or interesting : appealing
I'd like to ask the boards definition of the word SEXY and what on a woman makes them so SEXY.
I have likely spoken at greater length than I ought ... just my 2 cents.
What are you kidding me? You've obviously never read any of my posts! }
You guys (& ladies!) are so romantic! Who knew with some of you? Every input to this thread is utterly poetic & has got me all gushy! I can't even hold a candle to what any of you have said about SEXY, nor can I make an acronym out of it, thanx to the 'X' & my limited vocabulary... But I'd have to say that every one of you has given admirable substance to the meaning, all unique definitions I'd have to agree with & in ways I wish I could have described. Good post Ms Manae... it just kind of makes ya' feel all tingly reading the thread.
Celebrities I find sexy, though not considered all that attractive by the media:
Patricia Arquette Michael Madsen James Spader Yul Brynner Jessica Lange (true, she's also hot) Joaquin Phoenix Bette Davis and sometimes, Juliette Lewis
In my humble opinion "sexy" is different in everyone's eyes, just as what is attractive. For me sexy is many different things; could be something simple as an outfit a lady is wearing, a simple glance, a smile, a posture, personality, conversation, that first glance you get that engages with a smile that says "hello" without saying the word. When you find that person that you find attractive, then have a conversation that moves along as smoothly as if you known each other for years, that is sexy in my opinion. My final statement would be that "sexy" comes from the persons eyes...just as the eyes are known as the windows to the soul, I feel the eyes are a the way to be sexy without trying to be "sexy!"
It is a reaction, a feeling WOW!! Now that's what I'd call a GREAT looking woman!!
It's like opening up your front door in the winter time and seeing the sky on fire, standing there mesmerized by the feelings a sun set can create.
I've often wondered if a woman can feel the same way about a woman? Have the same emotional reaction when a woman can love another woman?
I posit that having sex is getting to know someone. It can be powerful communication between two people, creates a bond, drastically alters any relationship, strangers certainly aren't strangers any more.
Perhaps it more of a matter of what goes on inside someone's head; why anyone worries about what another person thinks of them vrs centering on one's own feelings and desires?
If you find a man sexy, get the urge to "Do Him!!" do you worry if he is going to take time to get to know you?
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