A recent review for someone suggest BBFS. I have to ask what is going on Arizona ? Has the recent events not taught us NOTHING ? Is it worth it ? On both sides. Is the extra money or business worth it ?  Is the brief moments worth it ? ,If a girl or guy dos that with you... Do you think you are special & the only one ? I guess its a rhetorical question... But at this moment... I am at a lost

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You know what? you might be right (another review of hers states she asked the gentleman if he likes condoms or not) or you might be wrong (another review states she seems to be paranoid that the guy will cum inside her and repeatedly asks not to cum inside her -  although he is wearing a condom. It's hard to imagine she would let someone bareback her if she has issues with guys cumming inside of her while wearing a condom) . Sometimes when people write these things they leave off that part that condom went on. So I do believe you are jumping to conclusion here. Some will simply write they barebacked someone. Here, we are guessing that's what happened. And if we are inferring I think it sucks that you called out 2 people without 100% being sure. It think Gray took the higher road. Especially with the recent news, I think we should be more careful and thank you Gray for keeping us informed.

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by any means . BUT damn it Arizona can we get our Ish together ! If its not one thing its another.  

Temple
DD
Massage parlor
HIV
Strip club sex ring
Studio
BBFS
AND NOT TO MENTION THE Companion that went to PRISON and will be there for LIFE which NOBODY spoke on.

It is hard enough to be legit, safe, an stay out of the RED zone away from Heat & Dangerous men let alone have to worry about Our own fellow providers on drugs, doing shady ish to gents, associating with "people" and bringing attention, and being careless to make a buck.  . and Silly boys using small heads and not thinking about safety for themselves OR family, As well as associating with those PROVIDERS drugs, doing shady ish to gents, associating with "people" and bringing attention, and being careless to make a buck..

It makes me SICK ! Then you wanna cry when you catch something or go to jail. Or B**** at someone when they WARN YOU. I love this "world" I love meeting awesome people, traveling, and enjoying fun nights out with new and exciting people  just like you. There is more to it for me than just money. But with all the people who continue to RUIN the fun for EVERYONE ELSE ....

And I don't care if you don't like me, Save the hate PM for someone else. YOUR not paying my Bills ANYWAY.

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Lets don't get too extreme! CBJ is punitive for hobbyist! When in doubt cbj however, there is always some risk inherent to our hobby that we all love. Be safe...

Hi Summer;
   Obviously it is up to each individual to decide whether to quit or not. To determine what level of risks they can live with etc. And how does anyone really know what their partners participate in outside your own time with them? So I'm not convinced anyone can say with certainty that someone else is, or is not, playing safely.
   Lastly, was that an un-intentional Freudian slip? I believe you meant to write monogamous and not monotonous! Many here obviously feel the one begets the other....lol
                                                                                                    Regards......RR

RR that is funny and true.

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I understand that the news is scary, but nothing has changed!  The risks have always been there.  Everyone needs to do what makes them comfortable and take whatever precautions you feel are necessary.  I am not trying to be mean,but friends you have already met do not make them any safer than anyone else.  You cannot know what they do when they are not with you.  Do what you need to do for yourself, but to expect others to quit because of this news is just ridiculous.

If you have a couple of drinks, and you accidently run over someone or, have an accident and injure someone, you will probably do more time than an INDEPENDANT provider. So, calculate the risk factor.

If you have your blood taken for a physical, you can easily be infected with the HIV virus. The odds are probably similar if, you also consider surgery and exposure of some  persons blood that you may help on that is injured. There are many factors to consider.

May I suggest, We put all the paranoid BULL SHIT behind us so we can all enjoy life including, and, not limited to our hobby. Life is too short to waste!

Sorry if I offended any one, I think this is important... TVLAW

OK. I am usually the one saying we should be concerned and tested for HIV, but you are not going to get it from a blood test. Get real!

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When and where?  In the developed world in the last decade or so?  The risk of contracting HIV in a doctor's office, lab or a Red Cross bloodmobile in the US is essentially nil.  But, just in case I'm wrong, please, if someone's about to take a blood sample or donation from you and they didn't just put gloves on and unwrap a new sterilized needle or catheter right in front of you, run.

If you are talking about blood recipients then yes it has happened in the past, but all blood is now tested for HIV. When you donate blood you are stuck with a disposable needle and collection bag. Where is the source of infection?

But today all donors are tested before they donate blood and the blood is retested before given to a patient. So it's pretty safe to receive blood if you need it in surgery or any other medical procedure.
Plus the needles and syringes are sterile and disposable and only used ones. So there is no chance for cross contamination.

...found it. Would appreciate a PM with the info.