Most ladies I know offer a dinner and dessert package. Maybe the lady you are considering feels uncomfortable in a social atmosphere??? OR could it be that she is new and may not be aware there is a market for "companionship" in addition to playtime...By asking the lady you would like to take out specifically, you might get your answer...Why not shoot her an email??? There is never any harm in asking!
Good luck!
xoxo
Gina

I know donation rates are for "time and companionship", but a fine dinner and drinks should be good for a few brownie points....

My 2 cents

Just my opinion I am not sure but most ladies have a discounted rate for multiple hours so maybe they consider the rate is already discounted and not to mention the rate is technically for the ladies time.  I am not trying to ruffle feathers, its just my opinion.

Me personally, I have been open to ideas for dinner off the clock if lets say a 2hr appointment was booked.  Dinner would be after the 2hr appointment off the clock.  But its ultimately up to each lady.  

I think if you find a lady you are interested in and perhaps approach her with what you are looking for that may help.  Enjoy and again its just my opinion, not trying to offend anyone or point fingers.

Sincerely..

*Kendall*

I do!

I just lowered my tributes because I truly enjoy dinner dates & overnight playdates.  I am also, offering TER Holiday Specials!

But my question is .... have you asked any ladies if they'd like to join you for some 'non-BCD' time such as dining or drinking?  I can certainly understand the ladies' thought that time is time regardless of what happens.  And I can also see your point about the cost issue.

My experience has been that it never hurts to ask.  I've had the pleasure of wonderful companions outside the bedroom - and also told that 'time is time'.

I have a favorite wine bar in Snottsdale that I frequent and would love to have a lady join me for a glass - or two - some afternoon.

You can always invite a lady to join you for a drink in the bar AFTER YOU EAT. Save that cost (add a half hour of her time.) Then go home for dessert.

You can not cry over spilled milk. Some ladies, who are OUTSTANDING BCD and quite attractive, may not be able to have a dinner conversation with you for 2 hours. This is not an all inclusive comment, some are excellent conversationalists I am sure. But remember, a lot of the ladies have ghost writers, and if you have not seen them BCD prior, I would not adventure into a night out. And if I am out with a lady, I do not want to hear about her previous appointments, clients or boyfriends. They need the skills to be able to morph to who you are at that moment.

Book an hour appointment before you go to dinner and an hour appointment when you get home from dinner. Two different ladies....

There are some ladies who are offering much nicer packages these days. Monica Sweets comes to mind. As does EliteGrey. And some newer ladies recently coming out from UTR, like Eve Adams. Keep in mind, those who want the $$$$ an hour for everything do not like this new model. I say, let them travel...

Business models need to adapt to the times. Being late also can have a big impact on dinner dates when trying to book reservations and a special evening. Find someone who is consistently on time and does not flake. Will keep you from getting pissed off later...