Saw someone a little while back who I had been very interested in meeting. While I thought the evening went OK (all the usual and expected things happened which were very nice), I had a sense that perhaps the lady was not "into it" as much as I was or I had hoped for. I didn't want to spoil the "flow" of our meeting so I didn't say anything that night. I know that things can "click" for one person but perhaps not the other and that is understandable. I also know that each of us has good and bad days so that may be what was in play that evening. It could be lots of different things. Of course, I can be way off base on this feeling altogether and perhaps I may have been sensing something that wasn't there at all. At any rate, I wouldn't mind spending more time with this person but not if my "read" here is accurate. On the other hand, if my "read" of that night is in error, I would be passing up an opportunity to spend time with someone who could turn out to be one incredible woman. So here are the questions: Should I communicate with the lady and ask "point blank" what her feelings were about that evening? Would that be putting her in a rather uncomfortable situation? Would a provider ever tell a client that the evening was not an especially good one for her and perhaps why? Some help here gang.