Gents, If you know what type of women are posting on CL, If you know they are not on TER or any verified sites.. If you know they are fly byes.. meaning just trying to make a fast dollar... they are in seedy hotels, They seem to post the same as many others.. which is a good way to spot tricked out women, They dont screen when you call, They seem to post really low, Which is another indication they are looking for fast money FOR DRUGS ( 50 dollars blow and go.. 75 dollar quickies... ) Common now guys !!! then why put your self in the position to have ANYTHING go wrong ? Not only being stood up.. But having someone steal your money, Having LE set you up.. have a bad apt... ?? Over and over again you boys complain.. But I only see the same postings and mistakes.
Why are the guys constently looking for the new girl ? I get wanting new meat etc... But at what cost is it worth the risk ? Isnt a new girl idealy someone you havent meet ? In that case.. TER and many other sites have HUNDREDS of verified trusting honest women, waiting to meet you !
I see a lot of ads especially on backpage where a girl will post "it's me or it's free" - really, so I am to believe that if you post fake pictures of yourself, you are serious going to give me a free session if your pictures are fake. LOL Now that's funny.
Even though I have been burn by this before, I see some providers post "No Black Men" and then say "I am not prejudice, its a preference". So if I walk into a restaurant and the owner says I don't serve black people but I am not prejudice it is just a preference would that hold up? LOL I am glad that they do place it in their ads because I have wasted time trying to see someone and get to the place and here that excuse. My question is why? I guess I know the answer, like to hear your thoughts or any pet peeves you have in the hobby.
Also, this no. 3......I know providers get this from hobbiest, I have never done this....but when a provider makes an appointment with you and then you are on your way or almost at her place and you call and she does not answer the phone. After several tries no answer or any explanation. If something came up, I will understand, don't waste my time like I should not waste yours.
LOL I doubt the phony pic posters are giving away free sessions. But if they write that I think chances are good it's really their pics.
I've seen the ads with "no blacks". Curious about that, especially when some of the girls do doubles with black girls. You say you know why- care to share?
I've also gotten to a place to have them not pick up the phone. Very annoying. But if they are flaky that way with the phone, maybe it's a good thing.
One provider told me a while ago it was because black guys might be pimps and they don't want to get involved with one. Made no sense to me. And another one I heard was that a lot of the women who say this, have pimps and their pimp won't let them see man of color, I guess they're scared they will be taken away....still does not make sense.
I did have an agrument on a board about 5 years ago about this and was this racist. Some people said you have a right to choose and I agree in the dating world. I think any time you are selling a service whether that being an escort, food, clothing or etc and you balantly exclude a group of people that says something, its hard to spin that. Just one man's opinion.
is the type of people you are picking . BP has some great women, I myself used to advertise there BUT 70 percent are pimped out, travelers, and drug users. What do you expect ?
good assessment. But I think those type would want to make as much as they could especially from someone that has been a hobbiest for over 10 years. but you are right, most of them don't even do research on the guys they see.
Gents, If you know what type of women are posting on CL, If you know they are not on TER or any verified sites.. If you know they are fly byes.. meaning just trying to make a fast dollar... they are in seedy hotels, They seem to post the same as many others.. which is a good way to spot tricked out women, They dont screen when you call, They seem to post really low, Which is another indication they are looking for fast money FOR DRUGS ( 50 dollars blow and go.. 75 dollar quickies... ) Common now guys !!! then why put your self in the position to have ANYTHING go wrong ? Not only being stood up.. But having someone steal your money, Having LE set you up.. have a bad apt... ?? Over and over again you boys complain.. But I only see the same postings and mistakes.
Why are the guys constently looking for the new girl ? I get wanting new meat etc... But at what cost is it worth the risk ? Isnt a new girl idealy someone you havent meet ? In that case.. TER and many other sites have HUNDREDS of verified trusting honest women, waiting to meet you !
You have great point but no where did I say these were the girls that I have tried to see. The women and it was women that had good reviews in the past, were women who when I got there told me that. My original post was I am glad that at least some are placing this information on their website. And I was asking for feed back on why these women did not see black men. I also made a comment on "if its not me, it's free".
Earlier this year, I tried to go see a provider that has amazing reviews, I was almost at her place and she called and said she had an emergency and had to leave. I thought that was considerate but then she told me that she would make it up to me later or tomorrow. I told her the next day and we verified a time. I called and text when I was in the neighborhood and never heard from her again. She had the nerve to post in a forum about a month later about guys standing her up...LOL
Since I got burned by cash and dash when I first started about 10+ years ago, I dont think I have ever taken one for the team. I only see girls that are reviewed. BTW, most of the girls reviewed here are on BP.
Just my opinion, but these are girls I don't see.
1. If you only offer outcalls, more chance of getting ripped off.
2. No reviews
3. One or two reviews and they are kind of shaddy
4. Women that don't offer 1/2 hour sessions - this is not because I am cheap, but i know I am not going to make it for an hour. Although some of my all time favorities I love to death (Jordan and Maya) I am not really there to get to know you and have small talk. I like to sample the service and if we click then I would not mind paying the extra for cuddling and talking. I know I am only going to get off once in an hour.
I would love to have someone that I can see constantly, it seems like everytime I do find that one that is a regular, she goes away. So are you available? LOL
...and I may be wrong but this is what I've discovered. When I first started reading the ads a few years ago I was shocked to see the "no black men, no AA men" in some ads. So, I've asked alot of gfs "why"?
Some women actually do have a preference due to past experiences, personal traumas, and cultural influences. All of that makes sense when you hear their individual experiences.
And then...
when I first started as a provider I learned something that may or may not be a pattern, perhaps other providers will answer this question for me. I provide a specific service that has a VERY negative stigma in the AA culture and so therefore only a tiny fraction of my visitors are black. I actually LOVE black men and am disappointed that the population with the highest health need for what I offer, do not visit. However, I will offer this possible answer to the question posed...the ONLY occasions I've had difficulty with payment, either in a deceptive, pushy, angry, or entitled manner, have been black men. Is it possible that my few and infrequent experiences are common elsewhere?
With that said...maybe some ladies should capitalize on this and post "black man lover" ads?
and, as long as I have your attention....love your prostate my brothas, it'll save your life!
Saw your ad, I was wondering. I might be in need for one of those and I love a women that 'how can I say this" who juices can fly on my face....lol
Oh hell yeah....come on through! I will share in advance, I consider Fortunes to be my personal recreation not my "job", so don't visit in a hurry, relax, and be FUN.
And, FYI, if I were a traditional escort...I'd be the one posting "black men only". Just saying....its no secret (I'm uber honest on my blog) that I require, um...er....more. So, YOU are certainly welcome to come and experience...the flavor of fortunes!
1. Music on a provider's website.
2. Old/Poor/Blurry/Stolen Pics.
I Hate, when a lady puts the music, on her site. Yes, I realise it's her site, but we are the target audience. Get rid of it! Better, still, don't put it there, in the first place.
Pics. Don't need to get new ones, every month. Unless you like to. Every 6-9 months is good. Nothing worse than blurry pics. You don't know who/what you are getting. Now, some blur the face, for security reasons. This is OK, providing we can figure out who you are.
Stolen pics. 'Nuff said!!
It is the ladies you are picking. Do your homework. I AM ON BP (so sue me, lol) and I am NOT a flake.
As for not seeing a certain skin color, I think that IS prejudiced BECAUSE if you screen them you would find out if they were good guys OR NOT and the skin color thing just pain would not matter IF you really WERE NOT prejudiced.
I realize that some ladies really do not want to see AA/black men, but using the "possible pimp" thing as an excuse is sorta lame.
Just my .02...
Even though I have been burn by this before, I see some providers post "No Black Men" and then say "I am not prejudice, its a preference". So if I walk into a restaurant and the owner says I don't serve black people but I am not prejudice it is just a preference would that hold up? LOL I am glad that they do place it in their ads because I have wasted time trying to see someone and get to the place and here that excuse. My question is why? I guess I know the answer, like to hear your thoughts or any pet peeves you have in the hobby.
Also, this no. 3......I know providers get this from hobbiest, I have never done this....but when a provider makes an appointment with you and then you are on your way or almost at her place and you call and she does not answer the phone. After several tries no answer or any explanation. If something came up, I will understand, don't waste my time like I should not waste yours.
I’m not making fun of the subject just thought I’d lighted it up a bit.
Big I’m sure there are many ladies here that would be happy to see you so why waste time and energy on the others.