I don't like the words hookers, prostitutes, whores which I heard in the locker room at the gym yesterday. The ladies try real hard to please and deliver good service to us. Some like the fun and others like fun but mostly need to pay bills. Provider or adult service provider or escorts are better words. They have feelings and a lot are trying to make better lives for their kids and themselves.They deserve our respect.
You are correct with the respect issue 10k. Just last week I had a client almost break my hand, he did manage to break my fingernail off completely. disrespectful and rude, he expected something that I didn't offer, I never indicated that I offered or would want to offer someone of his type. He got pissed off, grabbed hold of me and tried to (literally) twist my arm into doing a service that isn't on my menu of services. Good thing I had oil on my hands and was able to wriggle free of his grip.
I left the room minus a fingernail, and have a few small bruises on my arm. But still intact to work another day.
Guys,
Don't ever assume anything when seeing a provider. Even if her reviews say one thing, you should still understand that this is a ymmv business and it takes chemistry between two people to make a session great. If you start off your session with an attitude like acid and assumptions, more than likely the only chemistry you will be seeing is if you go to walmart and purchase a chemistry set for yourself.
All of us ladies are human beings and deserve to be treated like a lady. You will win more girls over with a pleasant and respectful attitude than with assumptions and macho man tactics.
Just my two cents worth.
Hugs and Kisses,
Malissa xoxo
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and we're gonna have to love ya to death!!!!
Mutual respect is the foundation of some wonderful experiences with each other. ;o)
I agree, wholeheatedly! There are real skanks out there not in the "business". The girls I know are doing something productive with the gifts that they were given. I love these "ladies"!
Those are words that I reserve for those who don't deserve any respect.
Billy
all words i reserve for my XSO and her only.
You must take things in perspective I for one could care less what people call me. I do what I do for a living and I am proud of it. Not to mention I enjoy what I do... LOL. It just dissapoints me when someone is naive enough to call you a name and not really know anything about the business or you as a person. I mean seriously if you want to hurt someones feeling at least be intelligent enough to have a valid point behind what you are saying. The truth stings... not generalized overused names like Bitch and Whore.