A girl confesses her feelings. How would you say no to her, without hurting her feeling as much as possible? Guys, how would you says it? Ladies, how would you want to be told?

big difference

and you can quote me; "sweetheart the lines are there for OUR protection. And as much as you're saying the words every man wants to hear, one of us must be strong enough to respect the boundaries even when the other is not. you are a beautiful, intelligent and wonderful young woman, but let's not lose sight of the fact that this is a business relationship - and as wonderful as it is, it's a relationship where we both go home to our separate lives"

or....

"baby I don't pay you to sleep with me, I pay you to leave" lol

but I would strongly recommend my first quote over my second

Even so, some hobbiest date or have friendships with providers on the outside. It can be a fun time.

If you don't want a serious relationship,  hopefully you've been upfront about that so you can say that your not looking for any commitments and just like going out and having fun.  If you think it might be an issue you'll have to stop seeing the girl. Once feelings develop they are hard to change, and good sex does not help in that regard.

There really no way to spare someone's feelings. Rejection is still that, and doesn't feel good. Sometimes being too nice is worse because you make the person really bad. Just be straight up and be prepared to move on so she can move on.

haha nicely put. but i should have clarified. it is in our civie lives

Give it to me honest & simple.  Always tell the truth! xoxo