Well i drove from Chandler to Glendale to visit a provider and was refused service when the door opened because she has a rule no African American clients.  Sure would've been nice to know that before driving all the way across town. I am a well mannered clean cut professional man who happens to have brown skin.  Are there any providers who would be interested in a new client???

There is NO EXCUSE for any provider to not clearly post her restrictions in her ads or on her website.

I'm sorry you had to go through that. You presented your experience with class and tact! You are a gentleman, sir!

IMO, a lady has the right to not BOOK a client due to whatever criteria is important to her: age, hygiene, size, color, financial status, manners, or what have you. Also, IMO, a hobbyist needs to respect that criteria and not get pissy if it rules them out.

It seems that the quality ladies do this and do it with charm and grace. It's a shame when it doesn't happen.

Smitty99, I am hobbyist who has a characteristic that a very few ladies do not want in a client, and is never posted in their ads. I always ask "Are you OK seeing guys who ....?" ***
I don't know if that would work for you, but that's what I do.

I think if you Read the reviews and look for toward some very established ladies, you should have to worry about that.

Hopefully, some of the great ladies in this area who have no barriers with a clients race will post that info.

Good luck! Play safe!


HalfHour

*** By the way, since I have spent some time on the GD board and have heard many ladies legitimately complain about certain clueless hobbyists, I will say that my characteristic that very rarely will bother a particular lady IS NOT that I don't wash my ass! 'Cuz I do! Real well! With a loofah no less! LMAO!
I will it was because I was hung like a horse, bu that's not it either. ! LOL!

You had me at well-mannered and clean cut.

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I know everyone has the right to see whomever they want to see, but she should have that listed on her website.  I'm color blind.

Hugs,
Ciara

Thanks Ciara.  Hope to meet you one day!

It should be included in the services page
or their ad
once again sorry it happened to you and hopefully you
rebounded well with another one of us
who have no racial issues.

And I am really looking forward to my next trip to AZ to see her again!

RocketMan

I have had the same thing happen to me.  I finally asked one provider who said she did not see blacks and she told me because she thought I was a pimp.  The funny thing I told her I was when I scheduled, waited around because she said she would see me, drove all the way to Scottsdale, called her....at first she did not answer.  Then when she did, I got to the door and she said she did not see blacks.  I could not write a review or anything because there is no where on here that allows for that or no shows.  What pissed me off more, I have many reviews on this board and been in the business for awhile.  She said I did not sound black on the phone.  Sorry that I am educated and you think we all us slang.

If you have good references and you are well mannered and clean cut you could be ANY color-
I can't believe she did that to you and I am sorry to hear she did. Many ladies are not that way,
but maybe you should mention it from now on just to make sure? I wish it never had to be that
way.

XOXOXO,
Cheyenna

Wow, that is really wrong.  I would never do that.  Yes I am new and hardly post on this site too much but I dont care about color of skin as long as a guy is respectable and pass my screening.  

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Big thanks to the lovely ladies that messaged me regarding my post, my apologies for not seeing my inbox!!!