I would says The Kundalini or the sexual arrousing energy is blame.
Tantra uses the body as the temple for worship and pleasure the sacred rites or ceremonies.
True Tantra as praciced in the India homeland is ornate and precise in the practice.
Neo-Tantra combines many forms into one and essentially the spiritual benifit is realzation of oneness with Source I feel more at one with my lover when making love.
With my practice I find it essential have real world experience so that the student really embodies and "gets it", so being open to what you need and desire as my seeker (client) is paramount to you knowing a true tantric union. Then perhaps you will desie toin to  tantric practices into the world and your love life.
Many Goddess end up in relationship and thereby limit their practice.
I have a lover and we are polyamorous, allowing complete freedom as a tantra Goddess and you the honor to practice in real world situation.
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