I called to see this provider for the first time,  and I wrote a review about the first date. So I called to set up a time to see her again and she tells me that she wont see me unless I change my review about her. I gave an honest review about our time and thought she was a great provider. She said she was upset with not what I said but what I checked off. I checked that she had babyfat and that her breast were real but droopy. So I ask everyone, should I change my review so I can see her again or should I stay honest to myself but most of all to all the people who depend on TER for and honest reviews. And to the Providers out their what do you think about this??

Please, please, please print the truth. Without it, this board is useless. It is terrible if you read a review that makes the provider sound great and you make the effort to see her and there are big inconsistences. Tell your friend to exercise and then you will change the review. In the meantime, we are fortunate to have a buffet of beauties in the valley from which to choose. Go play with someone else.

Ladies who are honest and put together would not tell you to do this for them. Women who want to lie/cheat the system cannot be trusted with personal information- and more likely than not, that will get you in a lot of troule.

If your review was fair and accurate as you report - hold your ground. Lots of other ladies in town to go play with.

you can give a gal. Having a client that see's beyond the imperfections (after all most of us arent on anyones "top 50" list) has to be a plus. It's tough to write a good complimentary review and still be objective...but it is appreciated.

As a side note I think the initial review sets those comments...I do not think reviews after that change them...but not sure.

That some(actually most) ladies are used to hearing compliments such as "Honey you are so beautiful etc"..and than when they get normal criticism they take it the wrong way..

Anytime you are making a lot of money criticism is part of the game..Can't have it both ways..I know in my job I am evaluated by every customer and some of it is not good however I realize that I cannot make everybody happy..

JayG

be about honest reviews....You have done the correct thing and if she can't accept these 2 non critical issues then she has the problem.....Baby fat and droopy boobs have not stopped other gents in seeing other women and have not prevented them from giving good reviews!

There are plenty of other ladies that would love to see you!

We are all not perfect! A REAL GENTLEMAN wouldn't even consider these 2 issues a real big deal....Obviously you are in that category!

And for a gent to set up a second date is always a honor!!!!!

hugs
Terri

With age real breast tend to get droopy. It's called gravity! I know there are several men who prefer real over fake and appreciate knowing that they are real. Vice versa is true as some men prefer fake. Stick with your original review!

On a personal level I would have realized that you must have liked my baby fat and droopy boobs if you were calling me again, her loss!

Yeah, screw that...

Reviews are supposed to be subjective and honest.  There is no room for anyone, hobbyist or provider, to misrepresent an experience they have had.  Doing so would destroy your integrity and, in all likelihood, would be noticed by other hobbyists which would then skew people's opinions of your reviews into a negative light.

Think of movie reviewers...I think that everyone that follows movie reviews has certain reviewers they don't like or agree with...I know I do.  If certain reviewers say a movie is shit then I'm guaranteed to go see it.  If others say it's shit then I'll pass in a heartbeat...

I have read several of your reviews (along with many other people's) and I base decisions that I am in the process of making on the content of those reviews.  I, for one, would be terribly put out to find that one of the active reviewers, here, shilled for anyone, for any reason...That could adversely affect MY experience and, indirectly, hits me in the wallet.  And since we're talking about something MUCH more serious than a 5 dollar matinee, that would really sautee my scallions.

Now, for the provider that requested that the review be changed, let's flip the perspective...Assume that you posted, somewhere, saying that a hobbyist you met with was overweight and wore way too much cheap cologne.  A month later that same hobbyist posts that he will give $500 to the provider that he chose to spend 1 hour with and that the providers should state their interest in meeting with him.  You send him an email telling him that you're interested and he responds to you saying that you have to change what you said about him or you'll not be considered.

Knowing that his appearance and presentation could (possibly) impact other providers in their decisions to meet with this individual, would you change your statement?

Baby fat and droopy boobs...A fat guy wearing too much old spice...It's all perception and personal opinion...In the end it evens out because some people don't think of those things as being "negative" traits...some even view them as bonus features.  He was, in his estimation, honest and forthcoming with his review of you, your body, your service and your presentation and, considering the fact that he called you for a repeat visit, I would guess that he didn't think those things were negatives.

Would you expect anything less from other providers when they put someone's name in the "White List"?

Yankee...Stay true to yourself and the hobby, bro.  Don't compromise your integrity for anyone, ever.  There are many, MANY more fish in this sea.

~R

~ How is it possible for a person to differentiate between perception and reality when every person's reality is based, solely, on their perceptions?

Quality demands nothing less!!!

Yankee:

There are a scad of choices for a hobbist, and you have literaly paid the lady the highest compliment by calling to see her again.  It is the surest validation for her of your enjoyment, and makes a clear statement of your feelings.  Obviously the review was not bad, and her not accepting your business makes a statement about her (hope it is not someone I see) and I would move on.  I appreciate your holding fast, as everyone needs to be honest with the system - as people make decisions based on the reviews posted.  There is enough honest disagreement without hobbists holding back what they thought and reviews not saying things so that people can make informed decisions.

Ed01

There are guys who don't care so much about droopy natural breasts, and those, who in fact, like the droopiness and some extra "liquidity" to them.

So, if you warp her marketing niche, she's just going to get more guys who wouldn't be happy with her appearance, or worse, who feel misled about it.  How good will her reviews be then?  

You could present that to her, or say goodbye and tell her she needs a lift.

I want to say Thank you, to you all for telling me what you think. Just so you know I will stay true to myself and to all of the TER members and will give an honest review to all that I see. I will not be seeing this provider anymore and I wish her luck in the future. So now I am in the market for a new provider. Thanks everybody and stay TRUE!!!

Just who this wanna be junior editor is. I kind of like those body types (ok, large,small,short,tall i see em all!) yet i would happily add her to my list of despair and anguish (otherwise known as my infamous DNC list)

You paid the cash and as long as you were honest this lady has no beef.