She obviously screwed up on the date. We all make mistakes. For that reason, I would leave it as is. I must say her response is a bit strong. She obviously jumped to a negative conclusion as opposed to inquiring about the no show. She seems a bit high strung. I would think twice before seeing her.
I arranged an appointment with a provider on Wednesday May 25th at 2:00. Our email correspondence will 100% back up my claims. Yesterday, when I returned from work, I received the following email from her:
"I would like to know why you would waste my time like you did???
Unbelievable, you are the perfect example of why escorts start becoming hardened and grow to dislike clients.
Why would you set up an appointment to do a no show and not bother to call. Especially after all the correspondence.
What you don't know is us girls have our own private boards where we talk about clients like you. You will be black balled or better yet, you better watch your back. I sourced your email address. I have a friend who works for Cox.
Also how do you plan to pay the 200 no show fee?? I am sure I will get it one way or another. I bet you are doubting it. Wrong girl to fuck with!! Been to the Bario?? Want to visit soon??"
I responded with the following email:
"Take a look at this email that I sent you on Tuesday. I am clearly requesting Wednesday May 25th at 2:00.
After you calm down, please realize that I am not a regular loser but an upscale, intelligent, thoughtful, sophisticated and mature gentleman who would still like to see you at the requested date and time."
----- Original Message -----
From: **********
To: **********
Sent: Tuesday, May 17, 2005 9:28 AM
Subject: Re: Phoenix411 Referral
******,
How about Wednesday, May 25th at 2:00.
****
----- Original Message -----
From: ******
To: ****
Sent: Tuesday, May 17, 2005 8:05 AM
Subject: Re: Phoenix411 Referral
So the 25th?? What time and do you need incall??
*****
I then emailed back that our appointment was for Wednesday May 25th and not Wednesday May 18th.
Should I out this wrongly informed and threatening provider? I can send all of the email correspondence in its original form to TER so it can be judged.
She obviously screwed up on the date. We all make mistakes. For that reason, I would leave it as is. I must say her response is a bit strong. She obviously jumped to a negative conclusion as opposed to inquiring about the no show. She seems a bit high strung. I would think twice before seeing her.
I have had this happen before also....but I never got quite the same threatening email. I think that was uncalled for. I don't think I would follow through with an appointment, even if she apologized.
Anyone who would make those types of threats should be outed...period. We don't need the thugs and the violence in a business that has too much of it as it is. 200.00 cancellation fee? Give me a break. Needs to be posted in my opinion.
Personally I would like to know who. If all true she crossed a line with the threats. It's understandable to be upset with a perceived no show, but she should have handled it with some tact.
The problem is your in a no win situation going public if she's part of the clique that exists here. It's probably in your best interest to settle this off the board. There are several ladies on the phoenix411 site I've meet and many more I would like to, but not this one. This is one of the reasons some guys are hesitant to give any personal information.
Good luck.
That is uncalled for.I cannot believe a Phoenix lady would threaten anyone like this.Your best bet is to cancel your May 25th appointment and find you a nicer,saner,calmer lady.Sounds like she forgot her meds.....
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Ordinarily I'd say leave angry or unpleasant emails off the boards since it's a private matter between you and the provider.
However, the threats here are very disturbing.
A client no-show is a nuisance but it's nothing to get that upset about. It's certainly not worth threatening "watching your back" and finding your ID from her friend at Cox.
Her mistake in the appointment day and the inappropriate threatening language screams "substance abuse" to me.
Run, don't walk, from any further dealings with this vindictive, unstable lady.
Why Why would you want to see this woman after she says you must pay a $200 no show fee then threatened you that you had better watch your back and she knows somebody who can harm you? Times like this I am really glad I have a pussy because the little head can really get you in trouble. Geez.
Her notes are so incredibly nasty, please tell us who this psycho provider is. I am sure many will want to stay far away from her. You would be doing an act of public service by naming her so she can't treaten anyone else. She went way out of line and should be identified.
Jenny Jamenson.
It was she that I made an appointment with for May 25th at 2:00 PM. It was she that incorrectly believed that the appointment was May 18th at 2:00 PM. Both days fell on a Wednesday. It was she that physically threatened me with the "barrio".
Our correspondence was clear and to the point. There was absolutely no ambiguity. There are providers in this town (not that many) that know that I am a good and fun customer.
I would never do a no show on a provider. I treat them with the utmost care and respect. I even develop feelings for the ones that I am most attracted to and have the most compatibility with.
If the TER community needs proof of this indictment, I once again will be glad to furnish the adminstrator of this site the entire email history.
I commend cfostkane2 for coming forward with the info and hope that it has taught all that bad business will and should not be tollerated on either side, client or provider. Now, I'm not defending Jenny or her actions but from the few times I have tried to contact Jenny Sydney Page has been the one who would return the emails or answer call for her and she (Sydney) was very blunt...to say the least. This whole "middle-person/assistant" system does have it's flaws from time to time so lets not black-list her totally just yet...could have mixed up coming from Syd to Jen but it's still no reason to draw physical threats.
I had another ugly experience
if you personally dont wish too, email me [email protected]
That is a very strong email and I would stay away from this person. In reference to a private group, groups are here to protect and inform the ladies, not be hurtful to our clients. I promise, myself and no one that I know of is out to "get you".
Do be careful if you see her...use your big head, not your little one!
I only want to know why you would want to still see her. This is not a good thing and I agree with the guys that she needs to be outed. I am sorry you had to experience this but I agree ith Jordan, most local ladies would never act that way. I agree with Crissy stone also....substance abuse?????
It was posted on this board that the “private group” did not discuss individuals or have a “Hit List”. Looks like another spin or cover-up. Out this person so the truth comes out.
When will this group learn its lesson?
Afterward we can all have a bonfire and some beer and tell some some war stories....
Once again the mexician alias pops up when the group is mentioned.Actully if i did hear about a provider bashing clients like this or threatening i would ask to be removed off of the list..I have read nothing of the kind and cant believe this is the kind of stuff you think we talk about.I spoke up and i think the lady should be identified for her bs and drama and nastiness.
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of people calling for the identification of this lady from both hobbyist and provider alike. I think it a good idea also so that others of us can aviod similar problems. If you are not comfortable doing that here for whatever reason, at least back channel the information to those requesting it and the word can get out through more subtle means.
id like to know who she is [email protected]
I noticed the Phx411 reference header in your email, so it kinda knocks it down to fewer suspects. I am just clearing myself. I think said provider should speak up.
That's unbelievable. Rude & uncalled for. Just unbelievable.
-MJ