The answer, my friend, will of course vary depending upon what turns the responder on. Do you like it hot, steamy and wild or soft and sensual? Are looks more important to you than performance or the other way around? Do you want meaningful conversation as a part of your fantasy or do you just want moans, groans, shouts and dirty talking? Get the idea? At any rate, a man would be a fool to try and answer this one publicaly. It could be answered privately but then we would have to shoot you...................