I'm relatively new to this and realize that time is money;however I feel especially on a first meeting that 10-15 min's of getting to know you is better than jumping someone when they walk in the door.Often the coversation is good but recently I felt a little slighted because frankley if I was paying for conversation I would see a shrink. Assuming it's a $3-400 hour appointment what's appropriate. I see all these reveiws with second cups and I'm in pretty good shape but unless all these guys are in their 20's I have difficulty beleiving that 20 mins of sex plus a 10 min rest and then another 20 min's is really the norm, I guess that's kind of two questions -kind of a second cup

as soon as you (or she) enters the door. Some of the more seasoned professionals will allow some extra time to allow both parties to get to know one another on a first appointment but don't always expect it. Usually with agencies, its the paid for time and that's it. Nothing more annoying than her getting that phone call from the agency at the 55 or 60 minute mark. Desert Divas is one notable exception as they seem to have a client friendly policy of allowing the girl a little more discretion on time.

I just see independents and the result is 50/50.  50 percent of the women give only the exact time or maybe a little less.  The other 50 percent give more and much more time than paid for.  I think it is a YMMV thing.  Age does not seem to matter either.  I would check with the provider to see if they are a clock watcher but a better way is to read the reviews about clock watching.  Nothing is more frustrating than to have someone leave even 5 or 10 minutes prior to the time ending.  Good Luck!

It's true that Desert Divas is a very understanding organization.  My favorite provider was about ten or fifteen minutes late the other night, and I had scheduled a 2-hour session.  She should have left at 11:00 (or 11:15 if you count her being late), but she was here until just before 11:30, and I heard no complaints from anyone.  That's probably a YMMV thing, but they have always been great to me.

Fred

I appreciate the input.It sucks when you just trying to be respectful and give the provider the opportunity to get comfortable and take away the awkwardness of the first moment.

that has no definative answer. As a general rule your entitled to what you paid for....nothing more or less. That being said you find that some providers have reputations one way or another. From personal experience Isablella, Rebecca, Jordan Kay, Emily, Sabrina and MJ have always been generous with their time and attention. Not only sexually but genuinely as people. I've never seen Mya but have always had the impression that she does as well.

Agencies are in a tougher position since they are basically consolidators. An agency gals popularity will cycle and the agency feels pressure to satisfy as many clients as possible (and give the gal as much business as she wants). An agency also has more gals using one incall so that makes extra time an issue as well. However the comments regarding DD are very true....they have an extra 15 min "built in" to each appointment.

As a final note I know that Megan has a good reputation as a non clockwatcher as well. I didnt put her in the group above for two reasons...one I haven't seen her and secondly since I've heard comments both ways on the MSOG aspect of the original question...

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I should have added "Sarah" to the above list as well....certainly not ever going to be accused of being a clock watcher.....

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again... what's up with that? LOL  You and the lady agree on a certain amount of her time,that is what you are entitled too. How that time is used is chemistry.   It is trite but it is YMMV.  I have been over and under time with both agency and indie.  Our good agencies Elites, Mystique's, Ebonyexotics, Club TLC, HIPS  and especially Divas have some extra time built in.   If you ever feel shorted  let them know.  On the indie side  they have more of a  luxury to  manage their own  time.   Gina, Isabella, Mya,  Emily, MJ,  Jordan, Roxanne and Megan are all ones that I can personally say just  let  things just flow.  Again it is YMMV  and you must respect their time.   Officially the clock starts when you walk in the door.  If you seem to  feel rushed then consider booking extra time  at the start, both indie and agency should be able to accommodate

I'd say that whenever I've read a review that the session was unrushed, my experience was the same. Come to think of it. None of the ladies I've seen in the last five years made me feel rushed. The last experience where I felt I was being hurried along was in '95 at the Chicken Ranch. Since the rise of the web, I can't say that has ever happened again.

Thx for all the input and I guess YMMV applys and I shouldn't expect more w/o extra $$$. I guess I've been lucky with the indies.Like Kortney and Riley

You dedicated an entire paragraph of your response to me and I'd just like some clarification on something. First, you said:

"As a final note I know that Megan has a good reputation as a non clockwatcher as well. I didnt put her in the group above for two reasons...one I haven't seen her and secondly since I've heard comments both ways on the MSOG aspect of the original question..."

What does the "MSOG aspect of the origianl question" mean? I'm just curious because the reason you haven't seen me (and have been relatively passive aggressively angry toward me since you tried to see me) publicly is because I wouldn't honor your "boardroom" rates, as I don't for anyone. I just don't believe in giving one club of guys a 50% discount on my rates when there's a whole other group of men out there who aren't part of a boys club who pay full rates for the same service and don't fib about the rate they pay in reviews.

So, please explain to me exactly what "MSOG aspect of the original question" means. It would be helpful to me and perhaps, I suspect, to others.

Respectfully,

Megan

PS Boardroom guys, I hope you don't take it personally that I don't honor the rates you've decided are fair for you to pay. It really isn't personal, I just don't believe in giving one group of people discounts of their determination for the same full service non-members pay rates I determine. I have nothing against anyone here at all.

I don't understand anyone giving comments on someone that haven't seen and if they do there are lot of us out there that offer a non rushed experience so I would think name one name all or just none at all.
I for one have never been a clock watcher and my reviews state that as I do on my web site. All I do is request that you be fair as to the time we spend together, I feel that way the experience is based on mutual enjoyment without bursting the bubble (sort a speak)having to say time is up or speaking of anything monetary. I have never asked for anything more for extra time, nor do I count whats in an envelope. Knock on wood I have never been riped off.

I dont really post lots of information here, and I have never been rushed, late (me) a few times, but never rushed. In my experience with the 2 agencies I have used (Desert Divas & Shauns HIPS), I hae never felt rushed out or the lady has never rushed to leave.

Actually, they didnt start time until I took a shower, so I guess as modpro says YMMV.

Megan makes a statement about the bordroom and rates. I thought that after seeing ladies at an agency you were automatically give a "rate", and who is the bordroom and how do I get in to this club? Never heard of it in real deep context, noone speaks of it, but I have been dropped hints by some ladies that it exists and someone to contact.  IS IT TRUE?

. . .to each minute of time you spend with her.

When I take a date to a nice restaurant and spend $150 or more for two or three hours I don't stress out over how much time is spent eating.  I'm there for the entire experience.  

There are a couple of girls I like to see when I travel that I book multiple-hour appointments with, and we'll have champagne or I'll listen to her talk for half the time and spend the rest in the bedroom.  I simply enjoy her company and the whole experience, and I'm with somebody that I wouldn't have met in 'real life'.

I've had the pleasure of meeting with some of the ladies mentioned in this discussion.  Each was great but of course each was different.  Why would I expect otherwise?

If you think you can pop more than once with her, tell her.  She will know how to set the pace.

In my personal opinion your time starts within 15 minutes of you coming through my door. Now I am not a clockwatcher, but your time is your time and my time is mine. I think someone said it best when they said you are entitled to what you pay for nothing more nothing less.

I want you to be comfortable, I want you to have a great time. Heck I wanna have a great time. The thing is I have a life too- and if you are interferring with something else that I have going on (like picking the dog up at the vets, or a hair appointment, or even running to the POst Office before it closes) because you are sticking around way to long- well I might drag you out the door with me kicking and screaming. So be comfortable, but don't overstay your welcome- unless of course I have nothing else going on. If you aren't sure if I am busy ask- I may just tell you it is your lucky day.  

I'm going to have to play the Lynn Lottery ;^)

I've never tried to see you.....ever. I have no animosity toward you at all....but if you recall when your add got booted in CA I was the 1st to post your 411 for you...and got moderated for it....yet you never said squat. I have no idea why you would bring up a "group" that has been defunct for more than a year....further one that I'm not a part of. My reasons for having no interest in seeing you are in no way "rate dependent"....but please go find a thread where I bashed you.

What I was doing is trying to provide information. I know your not a clock watcher. I also know that no one I know (more than a few) has gotten a "second shot"....so why dont you simply clarify that point for the original poster...Do you offer multiple pops?

Why do you see the need to bash on me instead of simply clarifying the post for the benifit of the original poster and the community.

As a final though I could care less what your rates or policies are regarding discounts. Pricing will always simply be a function of the demand curve....economics 101. I fully support your right (and everyone elses) to charge whatever they think works for them best. I brought no pricing issue here and have never bashed you (or anyone else on price)....so why do you feel the need to bash me on my "purchasing" decisions....again please find a single thread where I've commented negatively about your fee structure?

Good answer to what?

The guy asked some basic info and I tried to give him both a basic answer and some specific 411 that might help him. I clearly seperated the gals I was speaking of 1st hand" and added a few additional options based on "general 411". Since I know Megan isnt a clock watcher I included her...but I also know that MSOG isnt the norm with her (also part of his question) so I made it clear for him.

Megan could have simply clarified that aspect and said thanks....but as I stated above when multiple people got moderated for trying to help her in CA she couldnt be bothered to say thanks then either.

No where did I mention pricing on ANYONE. So how and why she needs to get into a personal attack on me and go on to vent about stuff unrelated to this thread is beyond me....

You hit the key issue right there, there IS a pretty large subset of gals (and guys) that know the drill. And for the most part everyone has a good (or great) time....but he obviously has limited experience and has had a less then stellar experience somewhere along the line. This is why I can't fathom the logic of the "antishill" part of the BBS community. 98% of the gals you see "shilled" here fit both aspects of his question. Very rarely does a "substandard" gal get any play here "shill wise" on the BBS....as the mod has said...it tends to be self policing in that regard.

Expect one hour/one shot. Then you will be pleasantly surprised, rather than consistently disappointed, if the session goes long or into a second round (or a third-not that I could keep up with that...LOL).

And it's the unexpected treats of a session that linger in the mind long after the glow fades. For me anyway.

But if something's important to you, ask.

When I assumed, I've had it go both ways: get in, get you off get out (even if it's not an hour), and had one provider stay seven hours over on an outcall-I finally had to nudge HER to the door so I could get some sleep...LOL!

But it's your time, you should get to spend it how you like. If you ask, then you know.

So many things in the hobby are all about communication.


JJ

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I appreciate the input and of course people have lives.Also,if I want to take a shot at round 2 50 min's into it it's on me; but if were on min 58 and we spent 20 min's talking about your dog or your interests and I'm not there yet than I feel either you have a trick up your sleeve or get me there w/o any additional expectations. And if you had somewhere to go -your the pro.The reality is if someone goes the extra mile or gets lock jaw trying that's what tips are for,That's my humble opinion is if you want the oppty to visit again

At first point of contact and if your in a hurry then hurry up on it

but my manners are just fine. Kindly explain to me how Megans answer is relevent to the original post outside of commenting on my "reccomendation"....a mistake I wont make on her behalf again.