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Re:Take it off or leave it on
WhoLovesAria See my TER Reviews 1837 reads
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I wear a ring on my 'married finger' even though I'm not married.  It was a gift to myself to celebrate a special milestone (10 years of being divorced... lol).  Funny, though... no one has ever asked me about it.  
Nowadays, commitment ceremonies take place without the exchange of rings and people wear them as nothing more than jewelry that fits best on 'that' finger.  Nothing can be assumed, so I think it's fair to go with Swedish Anna on this one... whatever makes you most comfortable is best.  
I, for one, feel naked without mine... regardless of what I'm not wearing.  ;)

mo.goodtimes2139 reads

What are the married guys doing with their ring when visiting a provider? For some reason it seems wrong to have it on when hobbying. Not that I'd be fooling anyone because of the ring indentation on my hand. What do you providers think if you see a ring?
I know I'm going to hobby but I don't want to look foolish doing it. Am I making to big of a deal out of such a small thing?
Thanks

Personally I don't care if someone has a ring on their finger. I never judge, how could I? It absolutely makes no difference to me at all.

If it makes YOU uncomfortable then you should put it in your pocket since it is important that you feel ok with the situation. I don't think any of the girls care at all actually.

I wear a ring on my 'married finger' even though I'm not married.  It was a gift to myself to celebrate a special milestone (10 years of being divorced... lol).  Funny, though... no one has ever asked me about it.  
Nowadays, commitment ceremonies take place without the exchange of rings and people wear them as nothing more than jewelry that fits best on 'that' finger.  Nothing can be assumed, so I think it's fair to go with Swedish Anna on this one... whatever makes you most comfortable is best.  
I, for one, feel naked without mine... regardless of what I'm not wearing.  ;)

If you take the ring off it will be noticable anyway and if you have it on so what.  (As long as it doesn't have any type of recording device in it.)  

Whichever makes you feel more confortable is what you should do but know that to us gals it doesn't matter either way.  

Play safe and have fun!!!

Misty

If you take it off make sure you don't lose it.  One of my friend's did that and it took him a month before he found it!

..premature entry stroke? LOL!

yes you are my Dear!!!!

I don't even give it a thought or make any judgements against the gent.
So many reason why you guys hobby but I personally feel one of the least reasons would be that your looking for love or a girlfriend.

Many of my regulars are married, don't hide the ring, love there wife dearly.
In fact when setting up the first appointment many are up front about it.

When I first started out I just assumed that most of the men that would be married.

Give me a shout when your ready...that's if I fit what you like :o):o)

Hobby Happy
xoxoxox
Terri

You're cheating on your wife and all you're worried about is your RING??? LOLOLOL!

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