What do you providers think of large guys?  I'm 6', 225.  Unfortunately, most of the weight is around the middle.  Do providers want to see guys like me?  Should I let them know up front?  I would rather be told that they would rather not see me, then make an appointment and have it go less than well.

you've met made you feel like it matters? I'm guessing not. I think there are a lot of guys out there like you and I, (6"2" 250+) and as long as you practice good hygeine and be respectful and don't have a third nipple or something that most of the recommended girls on this site would be more than happy to see you and not make you feel any less special. My guess is if you are a nice guy and smell good they probably like you more by the time they leave than a handsome stud with an attitude and BO. Add Willow to your list of non discriminate girls. I'm sure Donna was wonderful experience too. I can't imagine her not being nice to anyone that is nice to her and her dogs.

To be excepted, you have to except yourself! First...

Sorry...I waxing nostalgic today, because I've felt that way before too.

I feel that if you are clean and respectful then of course I would like to meet you. Usually the only time a woman does not want to see a man is if he is rude to her, he smells, or he is dirty. If there is something that is really that bad about him then sometimes he will have to play alone while I watch but I am never mean to anyone. And that rarely happens.
A lot of guys ask all the time.... what was your worst call ever or what do you do if you get a really fat hairy guy? Well, if the guy is really gross then I watch him play or maybe a massage or something. But in the U.S. there is a lot of obesity and it is very sad. There is going to be a lot of "bigger" men wanting to see woman who can entertain them. That is okay.
I wonder how you feel about it. Do you feel comfortable enough to share your body with another woman? Are YOU uncomfortable?
I am working towards 3 different certifications in personal training. I will eventually have my own training studio and would love to help you change yourself if you are not happy. Or refer you to someone. The bottom line is that you have to have enough confidence about your body and when you do woman can be drawn to that alone. Good luck sweetheart!!

Sky

I feel pretty comfortable with myself but I am sure there are men out there who would loose out on meeting a great person with wonderful talents because I have a little extra to serve them with. Then there are those who can overlook something so petty and in return get to feel what I can do to them. I am told that it is very nice or something like that. (devilish grin). I would have no problems with someone like you...no problem at all.


size SHOULDN'T matter

       unless it's the size of your heart
   
but like Sky said and I will have to agree ....keep it clean!!!

I think BuckNekked and Sky said it all!  The most important things are cleanliness and RESPECT.  I don't care how attractive you are, if you are a jerk...don't call me.  It's not about looks, it's about having some fun and a mutual respect between 2 people

Actually, I am very comfortable with my body.  I am working on losing some weight (15 lbs so far!), but I have always been comfortable in my own skin.  I like to think I am a decent guy and I definitely keep clean and I have always thought that what made someone sexy was their mind.  Outward looks are great, but without a sense of humor and other higher brain functions, looks aren't enough for me.

I was just curious about what the providers thought.  Thanks for the input, Sky.

Have fun!

As long as the gentleman has good hygine habits and is nice, then I never have a problem with anyone's size. I actually prefer a bigger man, since I am a BBW myself, I like it when someone makes me feel tiny,feminine and sexy. Over all though, I love men in general, tall, short, fat, skinny hairy or hairless lol...you all bring something unique and exciting to each meeting.
Hugs,
Malissa xoxoxo

I am 6'4" and 400 # and all the ladies like me fine.

mmmmmmmmmm, we like you lots Buster lol :P
But we just don't see you enough lol...gotta spread the love around ya know lol
Hugs and Kisses,
Malissa xoxoxdo

I couldn't have said it better myself, BuckNekked If you are clean, respectful and good natured we will love seeing you and enjoy pampering and pleasing you. That's all that matters for us to be happy to have you as a client.

Every wonderful inch of you, Buster ;o)

I wholeheartedly agree that no matter what you look like, as long as you are happy with your self....those around you will be happy as well.  I accept all shapes, sizes and ages....there is no reason not too...and you sound like a wonderful person inside...that is all that matters!
Hugs and Kisses, Madison

-- Modified on 9/30/2003 4:26:07 AM

You know really your weight is completely irrelevant to me... I just ask that you are courteous, respectful, and have good hygiene. I appreciate how someone treats me more than how the look. That is redally what should appeal to everyone anyways.