From all of your reviews you know there is no absolute answer. Places like TER are a guide. It helps youu find a provider that won't leave you feeling ripped off. Everyone's experience will undoubtedly very, but only because we all have different expectations. One guys "most amazing" experience maybe anothers "it was ok but I won't repeat". Then there are those that seem to like living on the edge and trying unpoven talent. But never will a provider with any ounce of brain power ever give a full rundown of what a guy can expect till they are alone together in a locked room.