Lately, I have been visiting a massage parlor in the valley and feeling relatively safe and satisfied. Then I started reading discussions here and on the legal board (albeit some more then a year old) and I am now nervous about going back. Am I just being paranoid? Are massage parlors, in this case the Scottsdale non-Asian kind, really that big a target?
I know that there are no guarantees, but would love some input.

A lot depends on how the shop conducts themselves and their business. Some are obvious busts waiting to happen and others never have a problem. Just choose where you go with some thought about that and security. (By security I mean be sure that you and your therapist are behind a closed, LOCKED door... two preferably/one separating the lobby from the inner area and one on your room.)