Boy, I understand the need for reference verifications and all but it is tough to see someone anymore.  I've been away from the "hobby" for about two years and have seen one very pleasant and beautiful lady recently...her name wasn't Vickie or anything...but no one returns my calls or emails. I hate asking to use other ladies to utilize them as a reference as I don't want to make them  feel that something was wrong with having met them. Quite the opposite, as it seems that since the 2 years I have been away that there are many gorgeous and delightful gals I would love to meet and it seems so difficult. I also don't trust incalls any longer and feel more comfortable with outcall. Everyone else's paranoia has made me feel paranoid but yet I am intrigued by all the new gals.  Any advice or perhaps I am not making any sense?