It’s clear from your post that the lady has a serious drug problem. Of course, it’s her problem and not yours. But it became yours when her level of “service” became adversely affected. Plus, it seems that you are also concerned for her well being. It’s the curse of being liberal-minded. lol Of the “legitimate” reasons for a lady to become an escort, drug addiction is not among them, IMO. As you know, the only way she is going to receive the help she needs is if hits rock bottom, and the only way she is going to hit bottom is if she runs out of the money that fuels her habit.
But your FIRST concern HAS to be for your own protection. You were smart not to reveal anything about her identity because of the possible repercussions. This is particularly true if you have revealed your personal information to her, because she could possibly use that information against you. This isn’t too much of a concern if she has a good reputation to protect, but becomes a larger concern if her business goes away as a result of your having brought it to others attention.
No doubt if she is well-reviewed she has already seen your post and this has provided a “heads-up” to her. This might not be enough for her to seek help, but at least it’s a start. You could go ahead and email Dan and he could spread the word via the “backchannel.” For the benefit of the “community” -- and ultimately for her -- that might be the right thing to do. If her business is badly hurt as a result then you still have to consider that you are taking some risk in doing so. But I know Dan to be knowledgeable about this community and is thus in a good position to advise you on this matter.
Good luck to you.
I am new to the hobby and am looking for some advice. I have seen two providers on multiple occasions and have had positive experiences. I recently arranged for a provider that had tremendous reviews. She arrived over two hours late, apologized
over and over and promised a discount which I wasn't particularly concerned about. She then disappeared in the bathroom for ten minutes, which made me even more concerned.
After getting to know each other for another half hour we finally got down to business. She was very proficient orally
and I did enjoy myself. We then took a "break" to get ready for round two. I had scheduled for 2 hours to make sure there was plenty of time to enjoy all I had read in the reviews. Over 90% of her reviews mention multiple pops. She then took another trip to the bathroom and confirmed my suspicions. I am fairly liberal but thought this was beyond the boundaries. I did every thing I could do to get her back on track but no luck. She even called her supplier to try to get him to bring her more. By this time I knew the evening was over and I'd been had. I'm
not so concerned about the money, but I would like to set the record straight about this lady and don't want any repercusions.
I would appreciate any advice you might have especially from the ladies.
Tell a few people and word will get out. E-mail if you like
and I can understand your concern over letting on in public, because I realize I have been too quick to pull the trigger on guys for knocking certain women here.
You have taken an upper road on this and your post is very believable.
It’s clear from your post that the lady has a serious drug problem. Of course, it’s her problem and not yours. But it became yours when her level of “service” became adversely affected. Plus, it seems that you are also concerned for her well being. It’s the curse of being liberal-minded. lol Of the “legitimate” reasons for a lady to become an escort, drug addiction is not among them, IMO. As you know, the only way she is going to receive the help she needs is if hits rock bottom, and the only way she is going to hit bottom is if she runs out of the money that fuels her habit.
But your FIRST concern HAS to be for your own protection. You were smart not to reveal anything about her identity because of the possible repercussions. This is particularly true if you have revealed your personal information to her, because she could possibly use that information against you. This isn’t too much of a concern if she has a good reputation to protect, but becomes a larger concern if her business goes away as a result of your having brought it to others attention.
No doubt if she is well-reviewed she has already seen your post and this has provided a “heads-up” to her. This might not be enough for her to seek help, but at least it’s a start. You could go ahead and email Dan and he could spread the word via the “backchannel.” For the benefit of the “community” -- and ultimately for her -- that might be the right thing to do. If her business is badly hurt as a result then you still have to consider that you are taking some risk in doing so. But I know Dan to be knowledgeable about this community and is thus in a good position to advise you on this matter.
Good luck to you.
I am relativly new to this, and the number one reson I joined this forum is because I was burned twice by a providers ( Cash and Dash ) So it seems strange to me that there is a overwelming concern to protect the Identity of some providers. If a provider puts a customer at risk either through drug habit, Cash & Dash, etc. that particular provider needs to be revealed especially if it is a drug habit that spills over into her work ( which can become a very dangerous situatioin ). No one seems to talk about protecting the client on this message board.
What if she O. D.
What if she gets sick.
What if she loses track of time and forgetswhere she is at.
All these things and more can happend while on drugs. The bottom line is that if a provider has a bad review then it is up to her or him to change the opinion of the rest of us. The same applies to bad clients. I for one do not want to get burned again. I for one would like to know who the provider is. So I can make a determination whether or not to call her myself.
Sincerely, Exodus
P.S. I just love the Ladies
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