...He was my son...Sirr William.  I am in so much pain right now that I don't know what to do.

I just wanted everyone to know that I will be out of the loop and have no idea when I might return.  I am compleletly numb right now.

Please add me to your prayers...God Bless you all and please watch over your children.

MsManae
480-606-2538

please let me know....anything doing arrands for you what ever you need I will try to help...
You are in my prayers and I am huring for you.

602-486-9995 anything I can do!!!!

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that ease your pain at such a loss.  We also would be glad to help you in any way.

Losing a child is the hardest thing anyone can have happen.  

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Please let us know what we can do to help.

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that the clients will support you as much as your peers. Go and mourn  I doubt there is anything we can do other than support and be understanding.

Anything at all
Do call or email if you need ANYTHING
716 812 1949
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My dear MsManae, although I've never met you, your loss saddens me deeply.

Please let us know your PayPal account name so we can lend some support for the funeral and afterwards.

Please call me at 602-369-2940 if there is anything at all I can do to help.

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I can not imagine the pain you are going through right now. I have a pit in the bottom of my stomach after reading your post. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. There are many people here that have met you and many more who have not, At a time like this that does not matter. I think we are all willing to do anything we can to help you in this time of need. Please feel free to let us know if there is anything we can do to help.

Yes, please let us know your paypal account #.  I would be more than willing to contribute whatever I could to help.

I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jazz

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I live in Gilbert and consider you a nieghbor and you are part of our local TER Family. My prayers are with you. Please let us help!

Let me know if there is anything I can do to help you through this.
~Malissa~

Although I cannot understand how you must be feeling, please know that I am here for you.  If you need anything at all, please let me know.  And I will also help financially if you give me your paypal info.  My thoughts and prayers are with you,  Roxanne

O'h my!!  My prayers, thoughts, and if there is anything myself or "teach" can do for ya, just let us know....  

sharpdelta

I can't even imagine what you must be feeling right now. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

Although you have only recently moved here, please know that I and others are here for you if you need us. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.

Will be thinking of you, please call if there is anything at all I can do for you.

-Glen

Just a phone call away if you need anything at all.  You are in my prayers.  Chase 480-221-5018

In shock and so sad to hear of your loss my thoughts and prayers going out to you!!!

I am sitting here weeping after hearing of this tragedy.

Manae, please let know if there is anything I can do,

jazz32

Manae,

I am truly, truly saddened to hear of your loss.  Please know that if there is anything I can do it shall be done.

But I'm here. I can't imagine your pain right now, I can't empathize with you, but I'm a humanist first and if you need company while at home, if you need anything whatsoever, please call me. These are not empty words. Call me anytime, day, night, morning, today, tomorrow, next week or in two months.

Most respectfully yours,

Megan
480.678.1924

Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.

Taylor

I started email corresponding with Manae last fall, primarily because I learned she was from a small town near where I grew up back east.  Her move out west from New Orleans was delayed while she dealt with a custody battle.  I know how much Sir William meant to her and I'm heart-broken as well over this tragic news.  I know she was struggling establishing her new home in the Valley of the Sun, but she thought it was best for her and Sir William.  It's hard to imagine how one deals with something like this.

{{{{Manae}}}}

I'm so sorry to hear of your dreadful loss.  Loosing a child has to be the saddest thing that could happen to anyone. I wonder what circumstances brought about this terrible tragedy. This is a huge problem in California also, and yet another reminder how precious our children are and how easily a young life can be taken.

My deepest sympathy goes out to you for your loss
Suzanne in San Diego

as a mother I can imagine the pain and numbness that you're dealing with and my heart aches for you.

If there is anything needed please let me know.

~Brandy~

call me.  I know how much you loved Sir William and his departure saddens us all. I'm praying for the both of you.

Your Friend

Steve

I'm so sorry to hear of your pain. As many others said, please let me know how I can help.
Paypal? PO Box where a money order could be sent.
Prayers are with you.

~Jenn
[email protected]

I can only echo my deepest sympathies to you and your family.  I do not know you personally but feel for your loss.  May God bless.

Manae,

You dont know me, but my name is Sean. 8 years ago this May, I lost my daughter in tragedy here in Arizona, and I must tell you that everytime that I see this in the news or hear about it, the memories come flooding back.

To say that the pain subsides or disipates, well, that never happens. What happens is all the memories come daily and that is what can & will keep you going. It will be painfull, it will be trying on patience, nerves, and your whole being. But you can live in the happiness of memories, I have.

I dont know all the circumstances of your unfortunate accident, but I can remember the pain. I dont wish this on anyone, and I am saddened that it has happened to you.

I know that it will take alot, and if you want to talk ever, just let me know.

I'm very saddened to hear about your tragic loss. Please, receive my deepest sympathy.

My deepest condolences...

After reading that, my heart sank  I am so sorry.

To help ease the pain.  I am very sorry for your loss.
-MJ

I will pray for you both as well!!!

This is the hardest point for you right now and I am so glad you are reaching out...please continue.  Women need to grief LOUDLY.  Men tend to be more silent.

No matter what the circumstances are the results are the same...loss on the DEEPEST level.  This pain never leaves.  The shock of death seems to take about 5 days or after funeral.  So expect to be numb for DAYS.  My only solace was the shower...so I suggest letting it out there...the main point is to let out all the different emotions that naturally happen in the grieving process.  LET it out alone or with TRUSTED FRIENDS...it will help tremendously.  The pain will lessen but never disappear...love is forever...never forget that please.  Love is eternal and love and time will help you HEAL.

Once you open up yourself, then you can let others help you.  

I remember how many people and angels came out to cry when they heard a baby died...it shakes up the community.  There is not much to say but...how can we help???

I highly suggest that you set up a paypal account immediately and let people help you.  We were still paying for our son's birth when he died and many years later to pay off his death.  We did not have life insurance...he was only 5 months old.

I always suggest to every new parent to be to get life insurance immediately, to
rarely trust people with your children and always TELL people you LOVE like it might be your last.  The thing is...LOVE is eternal.  The strength of your love will heal you as well. I can feel your strength, draw from it.  We moms tend blame ourselves...then we see there is a bigger plan...but only time will reveal that to you at the appropriate moment.  Sometimes it seems like there are no answers, once again, time will tell.

I offer this advice publicly because many people do not know what to say or do in this situation unless you have experienced it.  We don't have to know you to show our LOVE and send healing and prayers and they really do work.  On a BIG scale, because this is the BIGGEST pain I have ever felt and I have lived through many tragedies.  I now help others through the process on all LEVELS, if you would like my help, just ask.

I have much more to say but reserve it for you in private. I, like every other loving person in this thread wish to offer you my HEARTFELT HELP.  

I was planning to be in Phoenix this weekend already and will be available if you NEED ME...520-406-9112...any time, any need, any help on any level, from one who has lost.

I am planning on donating half my earnings this weekend to you.  So when I call you, I will need to know how to get it to you.  Please do not read anything into my personal gesture of my own personal loss of my own SON!!!  I wish to REALLY HELP YOU to see the miracle that can happen when tragedies strike...unconditional love and acts of kindness on a mass conscience level.

This kind of unexpected experience can be financially devastating as well as emotionally.  I believe the best way to show our love and support as a community is by donating it.  I know it sure brought back my faith in my community when it felt like I had lost everything else.

I would like to tell you that in a year from now, the constant visions, tears and pain will lessen and it will be easier to deal with life again.  Please don't blame yourself and please understand you are NOT ALONE...WE ARE HERE FOR YOU!!!

AZCandy
[email protected]

I am very sorry to learn of your tragic loss and join so many others in sending my condolences.  There is very little anyone can really say in times like this, but my thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Dear Manae, We don't know each other.  Your tragedy has been in my consciousness all night. I am so profoundly sorry for you.  No man is an island.  Each man's death diminishes me.  Send not for whom the bell tolls, it tolls for thee.
Affectionatel,
CF.

My heart grieves over your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

but my prayers will be with you

It's very sad when a parent out lives a child. I will keep you & Sirr William in my thoughts.

Take care Miss Manae,
Vampy

my sincere and deep sympathy, tom

that I can lend to your ears. I remember we have only spoken briefly at best. My heart is wrenching at the thought of what I would feel in your shoes. Surely I cannot imagine your grief or anguish. From one mother to another my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

i am out of town and just heard about this.  no words to describe what you must feel and how sad we are for your loss.

...may endure for a night, but JOY comes in the morning.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.  Go well...mochaBrown~

My deepest condolences, Manae. I have never met you, but feel badly for anyone who has to go through something like this. I had a near-miss (of a different sort)with my child years ago and realize it could've ended up badly.

8-1-05 As now just aware of this, I am also so  sorry and may You overwhelmingly have everything and everyone possible to help You in every way!!!Julie(previously McCoy)in Scottsdale