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Re:Exaggerated Reviews, SHEIKA FATIMA rants & rants & rants.
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EXAGGERATED REVIEWS are all to common:

What does it say about a grown "man" who feels the need to exaggerate and embellish his time spent with a prostitute? Come on, who are these characters trying to impress? Is it their buddies back at the barracks? Is it the good old boys at the sports bar? Are these whackos trying to fill a vacuum of male affection? Are they frustrated subies with latent gay tendencies? They certainly do not impress the ladies.  

If a client exaggerates a review, what does it say about their mental health?  What does it say about their maturity?

Are these characters plagued with deep seated complex unresolved childhood issues? Is it mommy or daddy they are trying to impress?  What dark foreboding animosities do these wing nuts harbor and how many of them are borderline cases balancing on the narrow edge of reality? Allah knows they need a psychiatrist; not an escort.

Exaggerating reviews is a practice that is all too common and it greatly complicates an already complex, illegal and precarious business. It can make things extremely difficult (and even dangerous) for the ladies-but what’s a poor working girl to do?

Watch out for these guys. They have squirmy little brains. You never know when one of them is gong to crack...

The white list is a good idea but it’s not working. It approaches the problem in a round-about way. It’s not a solution, but it helps.

Money is money and business is business. Please, everyone, give this issue some thought and let the board know what you think.

I love you all,

Sheika Fatima


I've posted several glowing reviews of the Providers I've seen.  I've NEVER said anything untrue, and if I gave them high scores, I obviously believed they earned them.  

I don't believe my positive reviews suggest anything unflattering about my mental health.  They suggest that some Provider made me feel very good, and I'm sharing that information with other Hobbyists, so that they can decide if the Provider being reviewed is likely to be a fit for them.

It has nothing to do with impressing the ladies; it is simply a sharing of information based on my experiences.

I don't believe my reviews have ever put a Provider in danger.  If I thought for a moment that anything I might write or do would place a Provider in peril, I would discontinue the activity at once.

Perhaps before you make veiled attacks on our masculinity or mental health, you might be more specific about precisely what it is that annoys you in any given review.

Just my 2 cents worth.

abaz1883 reads

I’m referring to reviews which graphically describe a service or services being provided by a specific provider who doesn’t provide and never has provided those services.…

If one is a virtuous and honest person, if one is sincere and forth right in one’s business dealings and if one is firmly grounded in reality, the unfortunate consequences of exaggerated reviews-for the ladies and for the community at large-is obvious…

I am curious as to why you personalized this post…

PEACE

Sheika Fatima

p.s. I haven't worn a veil in years.


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By no means did I intend any offense in my response.  If it seemed personal, I guess it was because I have written really glowing reviews about Providers who have meant a lot to me in one way or another, though I never lied about any services they either offered or provided.  

It seemed to me as though you were attacking those who write very positive reviews, and I took that personally.  I apologize for any perceived offense.  It certainly was not intended.  

Since you've made clear what you meant, I understand you weren't talking about anything I've written, and I understand what you mean.  

I wish you well.

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edendsrose

there is much too much ado about practically nothing. I mean, this is a fantasy world, so who cares. The exaggerated review might be an unconscious self-affirmation for a guy who might be a little unsure of himself, but after a wonderful session with a lady who makes him feel like a stallion, he starts believing it himself. No harm in that. Just as there is no harm in the lady exaggerating her response to the man during the lovemaking session to enhance the sensuality of the experience. Also harmless. But what fun, isn't it?

azhacker2383 reads

Why do you think this phrase exists? The bottom line here is simple, often a "service" may be provided to some but not all customers. While I do think that occasionally a review is simply a fabrication....most of the time what actually happens is that someone writes about something that isnt a "normal" menu option. A common example is BBBJ or CIM. This is more an inexperienced reviewer then anything else.......

abaz2204 reads

Simply put:

An exaggerated (or false) review can and does make business very, very tough for the ladies. It complicates things. It can be dangerous.

Now, if a client needs an ego boost-as so many of them do-typically, he is an emotionally immature, boring, tired, worn-out, over weight, balding, business guy. The kind of person who pays and exorbitant hourly fee for an adolescent fantasy and then agonizes over-and finally purchased-an appropriate gift to augment his fantasy and please his imaginary lady fair.

Yes indeed, he envisions, this just might be the one. If he just does everything right this might turn into something real. Then, he sheepishly pumps up his mighty 4 inch penis with a double dose of Viagra, squirts some Stetson cologne on his collar, takes a deep breath, sucks in his belly, steels his nerves and knocks on the door.

Now, this guy has lost it. He has come unglued. We see these characters all the time and it truly is pathetic. But, if they pay, who cares…

However, when they start to lie and exaggerate and falsify reviews about our service, it unduly increases the expectation of our other clientele. Simply put, it complicates business, and that’s something we just don’t need.

Please, everyone, don’t exaggerate and don’t falsify reviews. Learn to distinguish between reality and fantasy. O.K.?

PEACE,

Sheika Fatima  

3centagos2033 reads

If someone is that deluded then they don't realize it is a fantasy.. and if they fabricate things completely well then the lady has the right to have the review removed as inaccurate..
I tend to agree with Hacker though (is it safe to admit that on this board? :) ) that alot of times these are cases where a client is offered a service that the typical person would not receive but lacks the discretion to omit this from their review..
I mean, if you are offered BBFS.. does that mean you should put that in the review as an available service? Obviously not!! but some other guy may not have the discretion or intelligence to know what to omit.. but there is not certification process, minimum education requirement, or psychological profiling needed for writing (anonymous) reviews on TER so that's just a limitation of the system. Take every review as YMMV..
I do agree with you 100% however that falsifying/fabricating reviews is unacceptable and unfortunately it is often up to the provider herself to self-police and make sure her profile and reviews are accurate and up to date..

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