I am wondering if any of the other ladies or gentlemen have had reviews not posted. I have a several wonderful clients that have sent me copies of the reviews they have written to TER, and they never got posted. They were kind enough to send their review to me because I can't read the reviews (I am only a regular member here)or at least all of the review. In my opinion they were fine, gave good details (juicy details)and were accurate about the services, but never posted. I have spoken to a few other ladies and they confirmed the same thing. The problem is the guys writing the reviews have resubmitted with even more graphic content and still no post, and not for just me, but other wonderful ladies they have visited with. Most have just given up, and don't write reviews anymore for anyone. Most of these great clients aren't VIP members, but they should under TER rules still be able to post reviews and even earn free membership for a short term...what a waste, since each new review really helps attract new business,build a girls standing in the hoby community and also rekindle interest in previous clients.
I am just wondering if any one knows why some get posted and some don't. Ladies and Gentlemen of the board feel free to answer with your opinions.
~Malissa~xoxo
Hi Malissa, sometimes the web site is wrong or doesn' link properly. I had that happen and had finally got a friend to explain that to me. On the other hand I still have reviews that are deferred and have no clue what that means. You can only keep IM the moderator and hope they respond at some point.
I have been told by sevral providers that this is a common problem. My last two reviews were not posted. I hope TER is not playing favorites. Both of my reviews were of lesser known ladies and I would think that is what TER and the mebers would be most interested in.
My clients get frustrated and have told me the same thing! I don't have a clue why it happens. I'd love some insight so I can pass on the info to others!
I didn't save them, since I never save emails from clients, I run a program that erases even what I have delted to protect myself and those that contact me via email.
It's water under the bridge now, but interesting that it happens quite frequently.
~M~
I've heard from several guys that they've done reviews on me and others (and even rewrote and resubmitted them thinking that they weren't graphic) but they weren't posted.
I would think that a review board would want as many honest reviews as possible and without dictating what should or should not be written. I've had some gentlemen tell me that they don't feel comfortable getting graphic in their reviews and that should be OK. After all, as long as the review lets others know that the provider 'provides' and whether she was good or bad it should be a useful review. You can find porn to read anywhere but reviews are for letting others know where to spend their money ;o)
What is 'enough' detail is the big problem. TER has set the standard for its reviews. The line has to be drawn somewhere and here it is. I have seen a number of reviews that the reviewer thought had enough information but essentially said absolutely nothing. 'Dave of Phoenix' is well known for writing tremendously long touchy feely reviews that make him look great but don't even let you know if the lady kisses or not. Dave insists that his reviews are more than detailed enough.
A client of mine has also brought to my attention that he too has written reviews of me and it has not been posted. I read your other post about you looking into it and wanted to add my concern as well. What's going on over there?? You may post this if you wish.
Kisses,
Rub
Just a question dear, but doesn't TER have these unposted reviews on file? I would think so just to resolve membership issues etc. I am one of the many who have had clients tell me the reviews they sent in where not ummm revealing or graphic or detail oriented enough to be posted... Are you sure the unposted reviews are not hidden away in a dark damp archive somewhere???
Moderators have nothing to do with the review side of TER. I was offering to look at the reviews and offer an opinion of why they may not have met TER standards.
Alot of the guys hate to right intimate details and some refuse to do so. I suggest you read "mr. Obvious" reply above, it explains it well.
..what leads to some reviews being removed after initially being posted? Just in the last day or two, there was a review that I found rather interesting and suddently "poof" it disappeared. I can understand why some reviews may never get posted for a variety of reasons. We obviously never see those; but it is somewhat disconcerting when a review is taken down after being posted and we are given no explanation.
I prefer not to go into more detail and "start something"; but I can tell you loverboy apparently knows of which one I'm referring to.
but then they were ladies without websites etc. i figured it was because of that.
Funny though they posted my review of you and it was pretty tame from what i recall....