Do you like to be in charge when you're entertaining a client? Or do you like him to adopt a take-charge attitude. In my case, I like a combination. It's incredibly sensual when the provider can't hide her hunger for pleasuring you and being pleasured, and leads you with her words and her body. On the other hand, it's also very erotic to lead the expedition as you explore her inch by inch--giving, surprising, taking pleasure in her responses. So, ladies, do you enjoy the combination, or would you rather only lead or follow?
hmm i think it depends on a girls individual personality. I like to be in charge because i am pretty much a contgrol freak and i like things to be done in a certain way. To further that I wrote a ETIQUETTE page on my website that i insist my clients read before meeting me because i like to make sure there arent goin g to be any snags. If everyone knows exactly how things are going to happen before hand it leads to 0 complications.
Also alot of new guys dont really know how to go about things so its good to lead in those cases
I do love when mid session a client decides to give ME a massage or when he decides when its time to lead to FS.
In my opinion, the best experiences are when both of us simply be. Simply let things happen as they may without expectations. No matter the relationship, expectations can fowl things up.
I recently enjoyed an appointment which was very out of the norm for me and very, very passionate. It was out of the norm because I enjoy a little bit of conversation on the couch as two normal people before heading back. This time, the conversation occurred in each other's arms and we spoke about important things, vapid things, fun things, etc. all while it was being injected with passionate touching and caressing and eye contact. The entire experience from start to finish was amazing for me. He was a man with whom I could enjoy passion on a very basic and very honest level. I trusted him immediately and he I. There was no me taking control or him taking control, it was just mutual pleasure enjoyed in many different ways. To me, this is what lovemaking is all about. It's what connection is about and it's what mutual respect and meeting each other's needs is about.
So, I don't think either person specifically taking control is as fundamental as both people taking the reigns and communicating each other's wants and needs in order to fulfill one another. Perhaps I am wrong, but for me and for those with whom I've enjoyed the privilege, I think they've enjoyed it as well.
Thank you, my dear. Coming from such a person who is unable to formulate a complete sentence sans spelling errors and who clearly does not know me (as everyone knows I'm a teetotaler, go look that up) I appreciate your aliased approach to public smearing. It is quite entertaining, albeit sad. I encourage you to continue as I promise you will not hurt my feelings and you will only draw attention to me and negative attention to yourself. Too bad you can't man up and post your hateful thoughts under your own recognizable handle. Please, for your own good and for the good of the poor ladies who you may try to see, get some therapy for the underlying issues from which you obviously suffer.
you went from a female name (Megan) to a male-male name (Andi Ryan) you are the one who suffers from many issues, underlying, overlying, inbetween, and perhaps therapy for you would include a subscription to O magazine. You have identity issues.....maybe sice you went to a male-male name , you wish you had a penis....or maybe a closet dyke.
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