Reasons to re-book

Top three reasons to re-book
1) personality and attitude - There has to be a comfort level. When I feel like a king I will always come back.
2) Connection - There has to be a physical and emotion connection. For that brief moment in time it has to more than fucking or getting off.
3) Hygiene and environment- When a provider is clean smells nice and the incall location is pleasant and inviting

Three reason not to come back
1) even though this is a business when a provider starts making you feel it is about the money
2) Takes your visits for granted and is not as presentable when coming through the door. Every visit should be an like the first.
3) Once the routine becomes the same (I can get that at home).

Victoria I love some of the questions you come up with, best to you

Re-book to 3
1. Had a great Time!  'Nuff said.
2. Donation reasonable..
3. Ease of booking/not too far commute.
Deal breaktop(bottom) 3
1. Not good time.  Opposite, of #1 above.  Mecanical, among other things.
2. Incall was: messy; not clean; hard to find;not in the best area.
3. No 'chemestry'. Saw an agency lady, a couple of years ago.  Met her at a M/G, and was intriegued.  Got 'BCD', nothing. No sparks.

Hello everyone!  

I'm not from the Phoenix area, but spend a considerable amount of time there throughout the year.  I love this board!  You guys are great.  I have enjoyed gaining some insight into the awesome personalities on this board, especially of ladies whom I have not had the pleasure of meeting quite yet (I'm looking at you Krista Starr!!).

Top 3 reasons to rebook--
1)  Chemistry, chemistry, chemistry!!  
There is no substitute for clicking with someone to the point that it feels more like a date than an arrangement.  I recently visited with Grace, and honestly had just as much fun at the bar enjoying her stellar personality as I did BCD...and that's saying something!  This past summer, I spend time with Mya Mayes, and she went to the trouble of reading through my P411 profile to learn my likes and dislikes, then provided a very custom experience.  Very, very nice touch.

2)  Rates that are in line with the level of service provided.  
Grace and Mya are both in what I would consider the upper range of fees for time spent with them.  I happen to think they are worth every penny!  As long as the benefits justify the cost in my mind, I am happy to rebook.

3)  Dates that flow naturally, without an excess of attention to "the clock".  
I understand the arrangement.  She understands the arrangement.  I recognize that time is money.  My personal preference is to meet ahead of time to break the ice, get to know each other a little, then proceed to the main event.  I think we both generally have a feel for how long we have spent together, and dates that are smoothly brought to a mutually satisfying conclusion are definite reason to return!  Glancing at the clock every 5 minutes after the first half hour, or commenting that "time is almost up" does not make points in my book.  If her business model is "60 minutes and not ONE minute longer", we may not be a good match.

Great topic!

Obviously, though I say "you", these are not directed at you, Victoria, since we've never met.

FOUR REASONS TO RETURN:

1) Because I liked the sexy smirk you gave me when you lifted your wine glass up....OR....the emphasis you placed on slamming the shot glass down on the bar;
2) You made me laugh because you don't take yourself too seriously;
3) You have and enduring enthusiasm to see me;
4) You rocked my world.

THREE REASONS TO STOP RETURNING:

1) Various indications that you're "comfortable" (late, untidy, indifferent, etc.);
2) You start talking about the "other" dates you've had recently, and where they take you, what they do for you, etc.;
3) You attempt to take advantage of my generosity. (see example below)

I rarely book a date of less than six hours, so I really hope my read on the date is correct, up front.



EXAMPLE: After two dozen dates in about 12 months, many of the dates for multiple days, a lady and I visited Starbuck's together.  She approached the counter and asked me if I had $100.  I gave her a hundred, thinking she was going to buy our drinks with it.  I was amazed that she pulled out her Starbuck's card and gave the attendant the bill, then asked her to "charge up" her card with it.

She then turned and walked past me with her beverage, handed me mine, and never said another word about it.

That was the last $100 bill she got from me.

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To my Dear Lovely Madam Victoria:
The primary reason that you favorite friends continue to see you would also be somewhat similar to some of the men that would see you in your civilian life: One there is a compatibility with you intellectually , socially and intellectually. Not that I have discussed this with anyone that has seen you but I am sure that you hold a strong conversation you read a lot and have a command on several subjects with is excellent for preserving a relationship of any kind.
Two. The men that have seen you multiple times have been in public with you and you know how to conduct yourself as a lady which is something that they value and they like to ask you to go out with them on different social and business functions.
Three. Your a libidinal genius who is intuitive to their needs but yet and still open to new activities in that area. Also although you have a wonderful personal relationship with them you also maintain your professional distance.
Four. When you opened this topic for discussion, I can imagine that your regulars saw you at least once to four times a month when they lived in the vicinity and after a while you where amenable with the donation so that after they established their frequency and loyalty to you and your services,you were easily establishing a customer base that you could depend on.
However there could be several reasons for your guys not being able to visit you as much as you would like considering the times. Or you could be in a place were some of your men tend to be peripatetic with respect to their professional endeavors. However I am thinking if you could get three to five guys that would see you regularly in a given month with a standing appointments then you really could be a UTR. However, I am sure that you are a shrewd businesswoman and that you would have some limited room for new friends although you are an established provider. I am just curious Victoria, in the last few months how many of your first time friends rebooked and when they came back did you ask them why?

Chemistry, Chemistry, and......... CHEMISTRY.

BTW, men can be UTR also.   ))

OK

A lot of good responses...Timing Belt hit some of mine pretty well.  I would add that beyond the passion and physical aspects...that when you are genuine and warm-hearted during our time together, I will be much more likely to repeat.  Getting a glimpse of the real you (vs constant facade) is a big plus to me.  

Have to say that the women of Phoenix (and one that hails from NC) that I've had the good fortune to meet...are unmatched on this planet...the total package of substance and beauty.  That said, I'll keep up my quarterly vacations to your fine city, but connecting via Kansas City (you know who you are!)

Velo

#1...there's this little lady in Las Vegas who...

...left a leopard pattern hair clip in my room the last time I saw her. I still have it. As a gentleman, it's only right that I book with her again so I can return her property to her.

#2...If a lady thinks it's kinda cute or is actually flattered when I offer to buy her panties from her, and agrees.

#3...When there's a connection between us and I feel she's sincere when she says she'd really like to see me again and says something like, "the next time we get together we should...."

I want to come back:
1. It's been said many times: Chemistry is number one. A sense of connection, of LIKING the other person. Thinking you could enjoy a regular date - dinner, show, a boat ride on Lake Saguaro, etc, with them, if this was't just a fantasy, or the budget was unlimited.
2. GFE*: Some think GFE is just about having all the right acronyms. Someone can provide all the specific activities and still be mechanical. The great ladies really make the fantasy of the loving girlfriend seem real. That means the transitions from hello and chatting, to sex, flow naturally with a slow build of intimacy and passion. Not, "Im going to get more comfortable" with a clean switch from platonic get-to-know-you chat to a return from the bathroom in a hot outfit and jump each other. Sorry, but that is not like getting it on with your girlfriend!
3. Physical attraction. Pretty basic. Our own particular tastes vary a lot. One person's 10 is another person's 8 and vice/versa. I've seen a few ladies with mostly 10s that surprised me - for me they were 8s. I have my own personal physical preferences that will win me over every time! (I think you fit, Victoria!)
4. You asked for 3, but the very basic #4 is professionalism. Respond to emails or phone messages in reasonable time (2 days?) even if it's just "not available now, try later". (I know, there are exception - out of town, etc. - I accept those when informed later.) Answer follow up date details the same way. And, NEVER, EVER, NSNC!! Even in a crises, one should be able to text "Sorry, family crises, CNX".
No return visit:
Just the inverse of the above. I research carefully, so #3 is usually not an issue. Problems with #4 usually precludes the date in first place. No return after an ok date are usually due to #1 or #2 (surprising to me with someone with 8-10 performance ratings).