...but I'm neither lonely, isolated, nor unable to separate fantasy from reality. There are a few (exactly 2)women who invite me to dinner and work their schedules around mine. One woman is lonely and isolated in spite of her professional popularity. The other values my guidance in her other budding career. Both are busy enough that they sacrifice money to spend time with me -- when it's convenient for me. If, moreover, I couldn't separate fantasy from reality, please be aware my reviews always include a disclaimer that I have absolutely no idea if and when women who are intimate with me have orgasms, and that I'll only presume to describe the pleasures they provided me with.

Glad you used "some" in your first sentence.

Are you not willing to consider that sometimes (perhaps a majority of times) that a provider and a hobbyist (or better put - just two people) can get together without money being the driving factor?

...invite a woman to dinner after an appt., most often the woman graciously thanks me and explains she has friends awaiting her or family commitments. She reflects gratitude and warmth, but she declines. No feelings hurt. No harm done.
On the other hand, sometimes the woman is just hungry. Recently Scott from AZConfidential agreed to the requests of some beautiful women to have dinner with me on two separate occasions following appts.

Things happen when two people are physically inimate. As a general rule a provider will develop a high level of compartmentalization (how couldnt you) that allows enjoyment with professional seperation. In addition any "good" provider has a high level of empathy (all in all I'd say the encounter is less about sex and more about some level of interaction beyond that).

Obviously the "john" is at a disadvantage....what for him might be "once in a lifetime"....may be "another day at the office" for you. It doesnt mean you dont care...and it doesnt mean you didnt have fun (alot of folks love what they do)...but in the end it is WORK. That dicotomy (sp?) is hard to overcome. When a client reaches a point like you described then its simply time for him to move on (unless you in fact want something "more").

Personally I've had a couple of gals who've "touched me" at a deep emotional level. Both of them know it...at the same time I've never just had "lunch" with either one....simply the recognition that maybe "in an other lifetime" something more might have developed. To me thats simply honestly, compassion and respect....after all no one wants to be viewed as a product. I've found it never hurts to tell someone you love them....you might not ever get the chance again.

...so I'd respectfully suggest when you have that first lunch, please understand most guys (if they're like me) are imbeciles when it comes to women. We get confused when we go from the bedroom to lunch. Were I in your position I'd say something to the guy at the first lunch to lower his expectations. If you say it kindly enough, most of us will get it and respect your time in the future.

that the overall statistics mirror society at large (which is pretty bleak). However I know of at least 3 that are long term current and 2 that lasted for 2 or more years. As for hurt and heartache....it comes with just being alive.

I was the lucky one. BTW I agree with Donna I would never call a provider and ask her to lunch or dinner...I am a realist the vast majority of providers do not see us because of our charm or good looks...its business. Sometimes we hobbyist can think to much of ourselves.

However Manae asked and I was thrilled and it was a hoot.

BTW fellas Manae is not one to be missed. She is one sexy wild gal and does things that very few providers can do and it is a real turn on. At least for me it was.

If you want good looks and wild beyond beyond belief sex I would urge you to give Manae a call.