I would not give up on TLC yet on the rare occasion in the past that I had less than a stellar performance Taylor checked it out then got back with me and made it right. In my case those involved are no longer with TLC. I hope this is blip and not a pattern with Ambyr.
Sorry northdak53 that you were the one to have the bad time. Will have to see what TLC does.
I had a session with her this Saturday...less than spectacular...she certainly isn't a replacement for Kara in my book or a rising star. She mentioned that she had a migraine headache part way through the session. This may be possible...if so...then why do the session...it would have been better for both of us if she had cancelled. She certainly isn't the same provider that her three reviews portray. Prior to the session she even cancelled her 9 pm because she didn't want to deal with traffic again. I don't do many reviews on any boards..but when a provider gives stellar service or poor service, I feel the need to post.
Being one of those who posted a steller review on this young lady i need to comment on reviews.
I feel a little responsable as i know you have probly used my review to pick out this provider.
First, my review was an honest one and since i know northdak personally i dont doubt him one bit.
Loverboy, Geoffers, and myself were the first ones to session with her and we all had an above par experiance, thus we passed this info on via TER, backchannel, etc. I cant explain what happened, but i can guess... My guess is after getting reviews from some respected reviewers she got very busy and may think her shit dont stink. This has happened many times in the past with newcommers. I hope TLC can save this one from what i call golden pussy syndrom. Ron, I'm sure Taylor Lynn will do right by you.
This is why reviews are taken very seriously by us guys. We need you providers to be extreamly consistant with your service. I hate looking like a lying ass. If you dont feel like working, DONT. Damn I feel bad about rons session.
I hope Ambyr can rebound from this and learn what harm can be had on us guys who review them. I would see her again if her attitude changes. I am dissapointed to say the least. But always remember " Their good till their Not"
....we all must keep in mind that YMMV in these situations, maybe even more so with such a youthful provider. The fact that Loverboy 57, Danny and myself ALL had what we considered to be a "9" experience with Ambyr means just that, but does not ensure that you will have the same connection, nor the same experience. As Danny did, I'll stand behind my words to you, Northdak, and my personal review that I had a great time with Ambyr, and am looking forwrad to seeing her again (and again!), real soon. Sorry you didn't have that same 9* experience.
I would not give up on TLC yet on the rare occasion in the past that I had less than a stellar performance Taylor checked it out then got back with me and made it right. In my case those involved are no longer with TLC. I hope this is blip and not a pattern with Ambyr.
Sorry northdak53 that you were the one to have the bad time. Will have to see what TLC does.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, I have an appointment with her on Friday....
OneK
Like Danny I was one of the first to see Ambyr. I have to add my experience with her was so good I saw her three times. I cannot explain what happened with Northdak but can only report what my sessions were like. And again as in my reviews I was more than pleased. I too know Northdak and know him to be a long time hobbyist. Hang in there with TLC I like modprod believe they will do what is right.
Well, I'm not about to cancel... you guys have been around a long time.
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OneK
...first off, there are four sides to every story. His, hers, how it is seen from the outside and the truth, somewhere hiding in the middle. I can only comment on what I know, so here goes.
I believe that you were upset from the start because she was late. Being late is unacceptable, especially when it comes to incall appointments, but unfortuately this was out of her control due to weekend traffic, freeway closures and her ride being late. Her stress of being late combined with your failure to talk to her when she got there created a very undesirable setting for both parties. Things should have just ended there and been rescheduled for another time. However, the session continued and she did everything in her power to please you. From her side, you would not talk to her and left immediately without saying a word. If you were this upset about her tardiness, why go through with the session? In any case, you left upset, she left upset and now it is my job to fix the problems. As I was out of the area yesterday, I was not able to contact you directly, but I believe Colleen spoke with you and talked about how to fix things. If not, please call me directly at 480-226-4300 and we can discuss.
I will not get into the he said, she said stuff as it isn't necessary, but will say that her version of the situation and yours differ. In any case, as I was taught in college, the customer is always right and I have already explained it to her. She understood everything I had to say, and would gladly make things right with you.
As far as her "shit not stinking", everyone's shit stinks, even mine
and that is not the image she has of herself whatsoever. However, everyone does have a bad day and being stuck in traffic and late for an appointment doesn't make things any better. She is an awesome girl and a teriffic provider. Yes, she has been extremely busy and that is why I told her to take last Thursday off. I wanted to make sure that she was ready to have fun at the party. I know how things can get with providers who just start out and are extrememly popular. It can go to their head, but even more so, it can burn them out. This is a tough business and something that is hard to handle when you are young and new. I try to prepare them for it, but I can only do so much. Plus the pressure of having to be "on top of your game" every time you see someone is also tough. I think that her stress of being late and knowing that you were upset and then you not giving her a chance to make things right were the cause of most of the problems.
I could keep rambling and if any of you are still reading this, I'm shocked
but I'll just end this by saying that Ambyr feels badly about the session and knows that it did not go well. She doesn't think she is "The Shit" and is more than willing to make things right. I appreciate all the words of encouragement from other hobbyist who know myself and her. She is a top provider and I have no doubts that she will stay that way.
Very professional as usual.
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OneK
Taylor, I just left you a message with my phone # and times that you can reach me. I wasn't upset about Ambyr being late...it was only 15 mins and I told her that when she arrived as she was appologizing for the traffic delaying her. While she was talking to the phone operator and telling her that she did not want a 9pm call and have to deal with the traffic again, I excused myself to take a shower as I had been at an outdoor event for most the afternoon. When I tried to make conversation and get comfortable it was Ambyr that initiated the start of the session..I would have prefered to talk and get comfortable..so I thought everthing was fine until the session started getting rushed and after the migraine comment things didn't get any better. After, I showered and left...I didn't see the need to talk about anything after that point. I did call your phone operator and she said she would talk to you about it and get back to me....that is all she said and your post today is the first that I have heard in reply. As far as having a makeup session with Ambyr...it probably wouldn't work, but I am open to other suggestions. Like I said in my post and review...she probably had a migraine and was off her game...but if bad traffic gives her a migraine then maybe she should start out earlier and chill out a little before an appointment. I am fairly confident that you will do your best to make this right...I just wish that I had gotten a reply sooner.
northdak is totally honest (more then myself in this public forum) and never pulls a punch or hits below the belt in a review. I wish i had his candor. If he had a crappy time then he indeed had a crappy time. Your to attempt to make it out to be something more sinister on his part is an action to be remembered.
Im happy to hear she dosent think shes "the shit" I love a great provider and i do hope she stays that way. and yes i read it all
TLC should respond to you positively. I once had a less than acceptable experience with a former TLC lady, but Taylor took care of the situation (now if I could only stop traveling and settle back in to Phoenix for a while to take her up on her offer).
Whether it be a case of not making a connection or Ambyr having an off night, this can happen. You mentioned she had a migraine headache. Although I agree a provider should not go through with a session if she's feeling "under the weather", sometimes it's a case of the lady not wanting to disappoint by cancelling. Just my thoughts...
NiceGuy