I have had a lot of new experiences in the last few weeks. Some were very
exciting and some were kinda strange, but one thing I realized is that I am
having more fun. It has been fun in the past but now it is getting really
exciting! That brings me to my point. The norm is to make an appointment.
Then you show up at the scheduled time. Then you chat for 5 or 10 minutes.
Then off to the bedroom. That's nice and it gets the desired result, but
what if it could be more? What if it could be exactly what you have been
looking for? My question would be this... Would you rather have a lady do
the norm or would you rather have a lady ask what it was that you were
looking for in your experience? I guess I would like to take a different
approach and let the man decide what it is that he is looking for. What I'm
suggesting is role playing, PSE, the sexy stripper, the innocent college
student that needs you to teach her? Things like that. If a lady asked you
what you were looking for in your time together would you be able to give
her a brief description and feel that you had something new and exciting to
look forward to or would you rather leave it up to whatever happens?
Donna

P.S. I will have a few new pictures up tomorrow and a few old favorites that have been requested

Donna, I like the way you think. We have not met as of yet, but I am thinking we should....

I have always asked boundries when looking for a provider. Usualy that is so I know whether I can ask for the short skirt or dress with nothing on underneath or the body stocking. Now quid pro qou: what would be to wild for you?

I think that's a great approach.

I love your idea.  However this might be best worked out with someone you already know and are comfortable with.  That way, whatever it is the gentleman is requesting, you both can just dive in head's first without you having to question anything.  It would be great to just open the door and have the fantasy start right then.

I think it's a great idea.  My best sessions include role playing where you can lose yourself in a fantasy as opposed to the simple act of getting off.  I suggested it to a local provider that gave me a very strange look.  Without imagination, where's the fun?

I like your thoughts, but sometimes, it may be more comfortable for people to talk about these kinds of arrangements or preferences when they're more comfortable with each other or know each other a little better.  If a guy is looking for a particular kind of appointment, he would probably try to talk about the kind of experience he had in mind.  As an option, you could also ask about any role playing or outfit interests someone might have as appointments were confirmed.  Your post alone might generate a lot of interest your way!

That would be great with meI liek doing things different. Not extreem just fun I like to make it fun for both and to make it feel more like a fantasy than an appointment. I really want to make this something more exciting. I would just like someone to be able to give me an idea of what the would like Just like you did lenstermania2 Hope to meet you some time. As far as to much for me. I have a few limits but all is fun if it is done safely and carefully
Donna

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I completely agree with you. Let's make it fun and exciting.
Donna

Hi,
I usually ask someone if they have something in mind for our time and try to have exactly what they like as long as I have a few hours to get it. I am just speaking in general ideas. I do agree with you on asking something simple about it after someone confirms and they can tell you if they have something particular in mind

Donna
I had a great time with you the old way. Spicing it up will make me flame out faster - u hottie u.