I had a similar experience a couple of weeks ago with a very reputable provider as well. The whole experience was so awful & I paid a premium price but got less than what I could have at a MP. I've thought about calling the woman who runs the agency, but frankly, the whole thing was a memory I don't want to have to relive. I guess that's part of the price we pay for this hobby at times, but one thing for sure - it's unlikely I'll use the agency again.
I am not sure exactly what to do about a session that I recently had. I have heard it posted here that if you have a problem with a session with a girl from one of the agencies you should inform the agency, but I don’t want to get this girl into any trouble.
I have never really posted a bad review although all my reviews have been accurate, and I have posted a review for every girl that I have met because of TER (2 reviews pending not counting this encounter).
However I have read a post here about the same girl with a similar problem. I likewise have read her reviews and they have been stellar except for one. My concern is that perhaps I met her after the luster has faded and that I should post my review to stand as a warning. Is this possibly a new trend with her or simply YMMV.
I am really not sure what to do or if to do nothing at all. I am open to suggestions. Here is what happened, without the graphic details.
This past Thursday I called a well established and well regarded agency that I will refer to a XYZ. I called to arrange a session with a girl who I will refer to as ABC. I had high expectations after reading good things about XYZ, and ABC. In fact I had been hoping to meet with ABC since she first appeared on the scene back in October. Her photos on the XYZ website are fantastic, and fit my taste exceptionally well. I had tried to arrange an encounter with her four times before actually meeting her. The first two times I called no one answered the phone and I didn’t have unlimited availability so I didn’t leave a message and left it at that. The third time I called she was not available that day.
I decided that an impromptu encounter was not working and went to grate efforts to make myself available at a specific day and time, not an easy task. I then called and arranged an appointment a week in advance. When the day came I was excited and eagerly awaited the call confirming that she was on her way. At the expected time I received the phone call informing me that everything was according to plan. I had made special preparations for her arrival, and waited with anticipation. Less than 30 minuets before the time that she was supposed to arrive I received a call from XYZ informing me that there had been a mix up, and that she would not be available because she had jury duty. This was disappointing to say the least.
Finally this past Thursday I gave XYZ another call to see if she would be available, and decided to make the appointment at XYZ’s incall. I figured that the incall location would be the most comfortable for her. To my surprise she was available and so was the incall location. I felt like I just won a contest. I finally was going to meet ABC.
I arrived at the incall location 20 minuets early and waited patiently outside for ABS’s arrival. I had a couple cigarettes and even got to know a neighborhood cat that kept passing through the yard while I waited.
After a while ABC arrived. When she first turned the corner I had noticed that she was not wearing makeup and that it was obvious that her photos had been taken with makeup on. Likewise her hair was unmade, and her choice of clothing was casual. She simply did not appear as seductive as her photos, but she still did look very good. I shook off this slight surprise and greeted her with a smile, and a cordial introduction. She quickly apologized for being late, and trying to be the consummate gentleman I told her that there was no need, after all I figured that it would have no impact on the amount of time we spent together. Without comment she apologized for her hair being unmade, and I likewise responded that it was fine and she looked very good regardless. She was friendly enough but defiantly had other things on her mind than me.
She seemed in an obvious rush for time and was going a mile a minuet. She began to initiate the session when I decided to try and slow things down a little and let her relax a little first. I had noticed a pack of cigarettes sticking out of her purse during all of her initial running around, and suggested that we step outside for a cigarette and relax for a moment first. We went outside to have a smoke. It was very exciting to see this girl half dressed standing besides me having a smoke while we chit chatted for a minuet. She quickly finished her cigarette and we went back inside. She informed me that she usually isn’t in such a rush but she had a babysitter at home that was only going to be there for a short time.
To set her at ease I told her how much I had been looking forward to meeting her. I told her about how I was the appointment that she had to cancel because of jury duty. She laughed informing me that she didn’t know what I was talking that she never had jury duty, she responded that the jury duty thing was probably just a story XYZ gave me to make her look good. At this moment I realized that my pervious appointment had simply been blown off.
We then proceeded with the session. Things started off well enough but she was still a bit rushed. I figured things might slow down a little after the first round so I let her set the initial pace. After about 15 minuets round 1 was over. I expected for us to chit chat a bit more and relax before attempting round 2, after all there was plenty of time considering that only about 20 minuets had past in total. Instead she quickly got dressed and mentioned how her boyfriend was late to pick her up. I was actually a bit surprised, if her boyfriend was late to pick her up then that meant she never intended to spend the entire hour with me from the beginning. So much for round 2, I figured she isn’t into it, and round 2 wouldn’t be any more relaxed than round 1 was so I threw in the towel and got dressed.
Before I left we chit chatted a bit more, still trying to be the consummate gentleman. She asked if I “smoked”, I responded that I don’t even drink. She asked if I minded if she did, I told her that it was fine. While she “smoked” I thought to myself, “why didn’t you do that before the session, maybe you would have been more relaxed” and “You have time for that but your in such an obvious rush with me”. I was actually a bit offended but made no display of it and just left.
All and all I got there early, she got there late, and I still left early. I spent about 30 minuets total including trying to get her to relax. So much potential, such a disappointment.
you had a bad session from the sounds of it. write a review and be brutally honest, its the only the way the rest of us who use agencies (not me indies are the only way to go imo) can avoid the girl in the future.
dont worry about anything other than the session you had its all that really matters.
You need to let the agency (sounds like it is me!) know. The only way we can control these things and make them right is if we know what is going on. We may think that everything went fine and continue doing what we are doing. If we don't know what is wrong, we can't fix the problem! Don't worry about getting the girl in trouble...knowing what went wrong and talking to her about it will either make her better, or realize that this job isn't for her. Plus, you will have piece of mind knowing that it won't happen again to someone else. Please call me and I would be happy to discuss this and make things right! 480-226-4300
and Taylor investigated and made it right. Don't be shy...its your money after all.
Again...thx Taylor
Call the Agency right away, as far as im concerned she ripped you off and should be fired. The agency cant fix things if they dont know its broken. Believe it or not, I would tend to take the agencys side before the lady who was late and smoked whatever in your company. The Ladies are good till their not, the agencys cant afford to be bad. Save a bunch of fellow hobbiests some time and money and call the agency
I agree 100%..contact the Agency. Save the rest of us from a potentially horribe experience...DW
Call the agency and explain what happened to you. If it is a well know agency and well respected as you described they will make things right with you. They need to know as they can't always predit a providers attitude or their actions. My guess is that you will be pleased with their response and customer service approach.
I have been advised by several other hobbyists to inform the agency. The idea being that possibly a good provider may be able to be saved from becoming a mediocre or bad one if the problem is caught in the beginning.
I have emailed the agency in question and forwarded them my entire post, and the link to it, as well I have told them who “ABC” is.
As of the moment I am keeping the identity of “XYZ” and “ABC” to myself and the agency in question.
Like DanorDanny I would surely call the agency. Depending on what the agency said I would also post a review. We need to look out for each other. Yes, YMMV but let us know that may happen.
How could you see a provider with kids for that kind of green anyway ?
I had a similar experience a couple of weeks ago with a very reputable provider as well. The whole experience was so awful & I paid a premium price but got less than what I could have at a MP. I've thought about calling the woman who runs the agency, but frankly, the whole thing was a memory I don't want to have to relive. I guess that's part of the price we pay for this hobby at times, but one thing for sure - it's unlikely I'll use the agency again.
thats why we have this board. If you dont want to relive it please e-mail me with providers name so i dont waste my time or money on that one. I will keep info in confidance.
Well we all must remember that this is a review board. First and formost this is a board that is very brutal when needed and very joyful at the same time.
As a member of this community the only thing you can do as a honest member of this community is write the review as you see it.
Also as much as we dread doing it this message board is for posting like this also . There is no need to sugar coat something. It cant be a fair and accurate board with out you naming names. I know there are plenty of gentlemen that either only look on the message boards or only have standard memberships that still use this board. So for there sake also its in your best interest and there's that you actually dont sugar coat a posting.
Reason being is you never know when one month you might forget to post or pay via CC for your membership and then be in limbo. On those occations you will apprciate the clearity.
I know that some one like Taylor doesnt like to get slammed on an open board about her agency or if it is some one else they dont. But in this business its also part of doing business.
Just my 2 cents.
plus i think that if you do not let the provider know or take action, she is likely to repeat the same behavior.. and maybe even think it is okay to do all the time. I myself am with an agency The TLC CLUB and if that provider is with the same agency or even another it is not fair for the other women that really are true GFE's (my opinion) ANYWAY.. please try to think about following up on that cause if she wasn't aware of her behavior she can't change or try!!!!!!! xoxoxo Sabrina
You should call the agency. The only way they are going to know about the problem is if you say something. Do you really want your experience to happen to someone else?
Sorry to hear this happened to you. In my short time in this hobby, I'm yet to find an agency who hasn't ripped me off. I haven't used any in the Phoenix area so, I'm not saying XYZ is a ripoff agency. I'm an indie man now although, I know they can have bad days too.
Okay let me start off by saying I am venting... I know GREYFNE and he is a very kind, sweet, and intellectual gent who I have enjoyed a few times... LOL Then let me say that this is the second time I have heard about a similar situation of and agency lying and a provider misbehaving in the last two days. Both the gents involved were some of the most considerate I have met.So on to the venting... First , may I say that of course you should let the agency know GREYFNE. Second, can I say that the only way I can see for the agency to repair the damage done is to provide a full refund, not a new provider and a new session. Obviously ABC does not respect the agency and obviously XYZ doesn't respect thier clientele. I say this about the provider because ABC presented herself in such a poor manner while representing her agency. I say this about the agency because obviously someone at XYZ lied to you before about the jury duty situation. People who lie and misrepresent and behave in this way should be put out to pasture. Okay END OF STORY.
I agree with all of what Angel is saying. Actually I agree with what everyone has said. Also I have to say that I find it quite funny that still in all this conversation that at least the providers name has not been mentioned. How many other gentlemen have had a similar experience since the begining of this thread? Even if you have taken this up with the agency don't think for one minute that they will just stop sending her out. SHE MAKES MONEY FOR THEM. I guess my issue with this is that I have been at the recieving end of a few things that I did not even deserve in the past and here this girl sounds like she could use a good blast and someone is worried about hurting her or ruining her reputation? She obviously should not be in this business to begin with if she doesn't like it. Basically this thread is doing no good if the information is not being shared.
Looks like your reviews all all across the board - do you provide refunds to clients that give you 4's and 6's? Give the agency some credit. They are trying to handle the situation. How do you handle your bad reviews?
Certainly let the agency know about your poor experience--that's a given.
However, if the girl is hot, don't expect any major changes--many guys will forgive anything just to have a chance with a hottie.
Remember Carmen, who bounced around agencies a few times last year? There were multiple posts about her flakiness and being a no-show.
Yet, every time she'd drop out of sight for awhile, guys would post BEGGING for information on her.
Anywway, you might get a partial refund--but don't expect the girl to be fired or think her attitude is going to change in any signficant way.
As I previously noted I have informed the agency of the problem and have disclosed the same information to them that I have everyone here, along with the identity of ‘ABC’. The owner of ‘XYZ’ promptly got back in touch with me and made it clear their intention to make it right. I will be speaking with them directly soon, any delay in speaking with them has been due to my lack of private time and is in no part a reflection on ‘XYZ’. Those of you who know me know that my private time is very limited.
Because ‘XYZ’ has offered to rectify the situation in some manor, I am waiting on the final outcome of this situation before I post any further details. I feel that it is only fair to let the situation play out and allow ‘XYZ’ the opportunity to do what they will. There is no need to prematurely tarnish the image of ‘XYZ’ or even ‘ABC’ for that matter when we don’t know yet what the resolution offered is.
I have followed your advice and thank you all immensely for your input.
Once I know what ‘XYZ’ recommendations are I will disclose as much information as possible, but I want to be fair and allow ‘XYZ’ the opportunity that they requested.