When I receive an appt request from a gentleman I look at his profile. I want to see what providers he has met with previously, how recent/how consistent his activity is, I read a few reviews to get an idea of what his likes/dislikes are and maybe learn what really drives him wild...etc. My motivation is simply to glean a bit of information so that I can give them the absolute best experience possible.
When I see he has written over two dozen reviews of top rated providers that consistently receive 9s and 10s yet he has given almost all of them 7s with a sprinkling of 8s...I am not interested in meeting him and I instruct my assistant to note him as “Do not see”.
I must say though...I AM a bit curious what kind of super studs these guys must be to have such impossibly high standards of what qualifies as a 9 or 10. I’m half tempted to allow them to schedule simply so that I can tell them upon arrival that they don’t measure up and let them keep their money and leave. I just don’t understand why anyone would cock block themselves this way.
It also might be that the women who have agreed to meet with blokes like this don't even bother to check their profiles. If they get a P411 request, to many women, that's all they need to know and they're good to go.
Madison,
Excellent post!!. I never expect high 9/10 reviews. However I do have same questions as you. I am no super model, but I have never had issue with guys kick me out of bed.
I love read possible clients reviews to also be better at providing an experience that I know they are used to and want. Recently I meet a provider who was rated a 7 in looks by a client. She has never get less than a 9 before. I can tell you that she was beautiful. She had a body i would play with all day, and a face of angel. The score the client give is simply stupid.
I have pretty much give up trying to understand clients scoring when I do not already know them. I am suppose they have their own good days and bad days.
Please let us all know when you find a solid reason behind these actions, lol.
Have a great day to all,
Christine
Makes giving 9/10's hard.. You have to give certain services for, I've had clients who have done reviews for me say ter won't let me give you a score higher the 7/8 cause we didn't do xyz...
The scoring system is a pain in the ass... Unless you doing triple flips, a summersult, with a grandeur landing it's hard to get 10/10's these days for a review..
Just my .02 cent
I have had wonderful experiences with a number of providers but I don't like to tell what went on because I like to keep the time we share between me and you.
Blkmanwhip,
Not having give reviews is fine, as long as you have the necessary information to screen. A combination of many things including but not limit to provider references can make you easy to screen.
Just to keep in mind the original post was about providers using reviews to make a better appointment or providers avoid under rated reviewers.
There are so many excellent providers here in Phoenix that I am sure not knowing the best things you want is not mean you will not have a great time. Good Providers will try to guide appointment as best they can and willing to make sure your experience is great. Please to keep in mind that we want you to have a great time, as repeat business is always best thing a reward a provider can get.
Christine
To be honest I don't look at the scores when I want to see a provider. I read the reviews and I look for 3 things
1. Personality/Chemistry
2. What is her favorite things to do in the bedroom
3. Interaction after we have dual orgasms. LOL
This post was referring to gents who do review...poorly...and think it is going to inspire me to want to meet them.
I could care less if a client does or does not write reviews. BUT, if he does write them and is scoring measurably lower than everyone else....would I want to meet someone who will negatively affect my overall scores/rating and ultimately my business?
According to Dave and the government one can now only post bad reviews or something negative about providers. Otherwise if you post a good review it would be a violation.
Therefore, good reviews are verboten.
First off I think there are a lot of large egos out there that like to pass judgement, and feel powerful. In addition I think some guys are like little boys and will post low ratings if they don’t get everything they want from a provider.
I try to give ratings based on the catagory of the woman I am seeing. If I am seeing a MILF then I would not rate them the same way I would rate a 20 year old model type. I would expect the 20 year old model to have youthful skin, tight and toned body...the MILF would not be judged to the same standard as a 45 year old woman will not have the same body. I also believe that chemistry has a lot to do with it. Making a good connection with someone makes them that much hotter. I have seen providers that were physically beautiful yet were not sexy or hot at all because there was no connection. In this one case I honestly did not find the person attractive based on their complet lack of personality and total focus on themselves.
In the end these are subjective ratings based on a short amount of time spent with a person. I like to read lots of reviews good and bad, and don’t typically judge based on one or two reviews either good or bad. If there are not lots of reviews then I will reach out and start a dialogue to see if there is any chemistry. Just my $.02.
I dissent with the below rating scheme. I think all providers have to be rated on a uniform standardized scale. Otherwise by offering a different scale for 20 vs 45 year old providers, it amounts to affirmative action and discrimination. What next, will providers who are also veterans get preference scoring or would minority providers get 10% extra points even though they do not provide bbbjcim? All providers can provide service level on an equal rating scale. On the looks rating scale, arguably this should still be standardly applied regardless of age, religion, or racial origin.
Posted By: brav65
Re: Scoring
First off I think there are a lot of large egos out there that like to pass judgement, and feel powerful. In addition I think some guys are like little boys and will post low ratings if they don’t get everything they want from a provider.
I try to give ratings based on the catagory of the woman I am seeing. If I am seeing a MILF then I would not rate them the same way I would rate a 20 year old model type. I would expect the 20 year old model to have youthful skin, tight and toned body...the MILF would not be judged to the same standard as a 45 year old woman will not have the same body. I also believe that chemistry has a lot to do with it. Making a good connection with someone makes them that much hotter. I have seen providers that were physically beautiful yet were not sexy or hot at all because there was no connection. In this one case I honestly did not find the person attractive based on their complet lack of personality and total focus on themselves.
In the end these are subjective ratings based on a short amount of time spent with a person. I like to read lots of reviews good and bad, and don’t typically judge based on one or two reviews either good or bad. If there are not lots of reviews then I will reach out and start a dialogue to see if there is any chemistry. Just my $.02.
The entire scoring system is flawed. TER should not dictate to a client what a perfect 10 performance is. If his experience with a provider was absolute perfection and worthy of a performance rating of 10 out of 10...the score should not be adjusted.
There are a lot of old school gentlemen that have zero interest in trips to the Greek isles or entertaining two ladies together (requirements to qualify for a performance score of 10). If the services they chose to indulge in during a particular encounter were worthy of a perfect 10 out of 10, the review should be posted as a 10 with no adjustment made by an individual halfway around the world seated at a computer who was not contracted by the reviewer as an independent consultant.
With regards to appearance rating:
A gent who is most turned on by & attracted to exceptionally thick curvy brunettes with big booties & ample bosoms is likely to consider Kim K a perfect 10...
Whereas a gent who favors tiny blonde spinners with bitty titties & an ass they can fit entirely in the palm of one hand is more likely to identify Kelly Ripa as their ideal physical type worthy of a 10.
I have one client who is a complete germaphobe and under no circumstances does he EVER want any services uncovered. He enjoys receiving (as well as giving) extensive and enthusiastic oral foreplay but CBJ only and uses Dental Dam for DATY. He is a treasured regular for over four years and has offered to review me a few times, but I have politely requested him not to write a review because the score of 10 he would surely give me would be denied and decreased by the powers that be in TER admin.
Whatever score a client gives should remain. Review scores should be posted exactly as the reviewer intended and it should then be up to other potential clients to do their own homework and read reviews more carefully to determine if their individual tastes/preferences align with that of the reviewer.
#mytwocents
Posted By: brav65
Re: Scoring
First off I think there are a lot of large egos out there that like to pass judgement, and feel powerful. In addition I think some guys are like little boys and will post low ratings if they don’t get everything they want from a provider.
I try to give ratings based on the catagory of the woman I am seeing. If I am seeing a MILF then I would not rate them the same way I would rate a 20 year old model type. I would expect the 20 year old model to have youthful skin, tight and toned body...the MILF would not be judged to the same standard as a 45 year old woman will not have the same body. I also believe that chemistry has a lot to do with it. Making a good connection with someone makes them that much hotter. I have seen providers that were physically beautiful yet were not sexy or hot at all because there was no connection. In this one case I honestly did not find the person attractive based on their complet lack of personality and total focus on themselves.
In the end these are subjective ratings based on a short amount of time spent with a person. I like to read lots of reviews good and bad, and don’t typically judge based on one or two reviews either good or bad. If there are not lots of reviews then I will reach out and start a dialogue to see if there is any chemistry. Just my $.02.
This is so spot on! A recent review of mine was kicked back by TER because they said i couldn’t score the amazing provider a 10/10. Very disappointing because my entire session was worth more than a 10/10! Just because we didn’t do Greek or have a threesome doesn’t mean it wasn’t a dynamite session. I can say this I’ve had some of my best sessions with women that involved zero intercourse, and that’s my choice. TER shouldn’t dictate what’s perfect and what’s not.
The whole scoring system is crap. Why should I have to say that someone wants to go greek or bring someone else in order to give someone that shares a totally mind-blowing experience a 10?
I take reviews with a grain of salt. If I see an unreasonable score in light of prior reviewers, especially when I see someone that has the same tastes in ladies as I do, I'm likely to a) toss that low score out because it's likely to be fake to get VIP status (don't get me started on that garbage!!) or b) someone clueless based on their prior reviews.
You are still an 11 in my eyes!!
Posted By: MadisonMalone
Re: Scoring
The entire scoring system is flawed. TER should not dictate to a client what a perfect 10 performance is. If his experience with a provider was absolute perfection and worthy of a performance rating of 10 out of 10...the score should not be adjusted.
There are a lot of old school gentlemen that have zero interest in trips to the Greek isles or entertaining two ladies together (requirements to qualify for a performance score of 10). If the services they chose to indulge in during a particular encounter were worthy of a perfect 10 out of 10, the review should be posted as a 10 with no adjustment made by an individual halfway around the world seated at a computer who was not contracted by the reviewer as an independent consultant.
With regards to appearance rating:
A gent who is most turned on by & attracted to exceptionally thick curvy brunettes with big booties & ample bosoms is likely to consider Kim K a perfect 10...
Whereas a gent who favors tiny blonde spinners with bitty titties & an ass they can fit entirely in the palm of one hand is more likely to identify Kelly Ripa as their ideal physical type worthy of a 10.
I have one client who is a complete germaphobe and under no circumstances does he EVER want any services uncovered. He enjoys receiving (as well as giving) extensive and enthusiastic oral foreplay but CBJ only and uses Dental Dam for DATY. He is a treasured regular for over four years and has offered to review me a few times, but I have politely requested him not to write a review because the score of 10 he would surely give me would be denied and decreased by the powers that be in TER admin.
Whatever score a client gives should remain. Review scores should be posted exactly as the reviewer intended and it should then be up to other potential clients to do their own homework and read reviews more carefully to determine if their individual tastes/preferences align with that of the reviewer.
#mytwocents
Posted By: brav65
Re: Scoring
First off I think there are a lot of large egos out there that like to pass judgement, and feel powerful. In addition I think some guys are like little boys and will post low ratings if they don’t get everything they want from a provider.
I try to give ratings based on the catagory of the woman I am seeing. If I am seeing a MILF then I would not rate them the same way I would rate a 20 year old model type. I would expect the 20 year old model to have youthful skin, tight and toned body...the MILF would not be judged to the same standard as a 45 year old woman will not have the same body. I also believe that chemistry has a lot to do with it. Making a good connection with someone makes them that much hotter. I have seen providers that were physically beautiful yet were not sexy or hot at all because there was no connection. In this one case I honestly did not find the person attractive based on their complet lack of personality and total focus on themselves.
In the end these are subjective ratings based on a short amount of time spent with a person. I like to read lots of reviews good and bad, and don’t typically judge based on one or two reviews either good or bad. If there are not lots of reviews then I will reach out and start a dialogue to see if there is any chemistry. Just my $.02.
The mistake TER made is that they think that people can see the difference in a scoring model. But, clearly very few can understand that 10 is not a pinnacle any more. It's just a definition of actions experienced.
SMH
Profiles are wrote by the first person who reviews you and if that person was not a GFE kinda guy it's not gonna reflect that etc etc.. and if you don't keep up on that profile you can lose out on business . Also every client has different needs and likes and tastes. Every review can't be taken like the holy bible. Scores in my opinion are just ridiculous. I think reviews are good to make sure the lady is legit. Kinda get a idea of what she likes and offers and about safety factors. But again it's not the holy bible and should not be taken so incredibly serious. I think a lot of guys miss out on some good ladies taking it way way too serious.
I support the standard that a bbbj is required for high reviews and also 10 requires at least greek or threesome.
Some guys fall in lust with a picture. I think a lot of guys have a fantasy built up in their head as to what the woman looks like based on a few pictures. Then he meets the real, breathing person and when that encounter doesn’t match their fantasy, they feel let down.
A friend who set up his second appointment ever, was telling me exactly how everything was going to go, like she wasn’t even going to talk and it was going to play out exactly the way he choreographed it in his head. I reminded him it won’t go anything like he expects and to just go enjoy himself and her personality. What you are seeing in my opinion, is men building up unrealistic expectations based upon a fantasy and then rating the women low, because they didn’t (couldn’t) meet those expectations.
No one can live up to a fantasy. These guys are incapable of living in the moment and prefer being in their own heads. You’re deciding to avoid them is probably a smart business decision
....a reviewer who gave a provider that usually got 9's or 10's a performance score of an 8 (or maybe even a 7) didn't really scare me off.
I kind of pay attention more to how he talks about the date and the provider in the review.
If he comes off as a jerk that is what will turn me off ... not particularly the score he gave her.
But as another lady said it's really hard to get a 10 even if a guy wants to give it to you.
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It strikes me as petty to exclude someone because of review numbers. It's all subjective. And there are idiots here who are so happy to get their dick sucked that they give everyone a 10 - including the truck stop crack whore. Be nice. Give good service. The reviews will take care of themselves.
I am to old to waste my time, or fake like anyone. I read to see if we may have chemistry. I look at the whitelists. If a guy has no whitelists at all this is a red flag for me. If they're interested in booking with me I will inquire as to why not 1 reputable provider has whitelisted him. I also, verify their whitelists. I will contact the provider directly to verify. I always, do my own homework & screening. I do not trust others to take my safety as a priority. The fact is these are fantasy reviews, and many here have wrote fake, or false reviews. Some will do it for a free VIP membership. As a provider it is always very important to keep an eye on your TER profile, so you can report a lie. I have passed on several who seem to never give 9/10's, and maybe they are expecting way to much, or they think way to highly of their selves. IDK it is not worth the money to share your time with someone whom you may not be compatible with for me at least this is my personal opinion.
