I recently went from agency to indy. I've quickly realized the difference in clients trying to overstay their allotted time and asking for OTC time. This happens with long time reviewers as well. It's very uncomfortable. I wonder why some of you book an hour and try to stay  90 mins or even more. Then when you're asked to leave when time is up you feel rushed. You wouldn't do that to someone working for an agency.  Book more time if you know you'll try to stay longer. It's really annoying and awkward. I wouldn't spend time with OTC  with most of you guys so please stop trying to do so.

I don't expect an Indy to start a stop watch with me either.  Most ladies call the agency when they arrive and many get a call 5 to 10 minutes before the end of the allotted time.  

If the lady invites you to stay, that's a different story. I'm talking about those that try to stretch out the time. We are your pretend gf for the allotted time remember? As pointed out in a thread below, we have normal lives too. Family, jobs, friends, partners, responsibilities just like everyone else.

Somebody sounds bitter, certainly not someone I'd be interested in spending time with.  Perhaps time for a different career path?

You sound angry.  Most businesses I patronize appreciate it because there are many choices for  
my money. I was in Baltimore, large hotel chain working on a project.  Bartender knew my hours for I was doing a conversion and I wouldn't be back to the hotel before the kitchen closed. He had dinner delivered to my room. I never forgot that and I stay there exclusively when in town. Another restaurant kept the kitchen open for me which I told them no. I frequent that restaurant as well and gave them praises on Opentable. If this ever "feels" like a business transaction, the review will reflect that.   If this happens to you ALL the time, you must have a great business going. Or you can be penny wise and pound foolish.

I do appreciate my regulars and it shows when we meet. I'm also sure to send a nice thank you note after. I must be doing something right because I have many regulars. My business isn't food service either. Spending intimate time with someone I wouldn't normally spend time with is much different. I'm not angry or bitter just annoyed. I'm only being honest.  Would you spend your free time with a much older, unattractive most likely married woman after she's paid you for your services? I don't think so

But you can't say intimate on one hand and business on the other.  BTW...business is business...an exchange of goods or services for compensation, food service or otherwise.  

I hear about it  all the time from my provider friends. It seems there's a sense of entitlement with some.  

The disdain in your posts started mildly with a legitimate complaint & has rapidly snowballed throughout your responses.  Yes they should respect our time but making it known on a public board just how much you absolutely hate being in the presence of clients unless they pay you - is not a smart move.  Sounds like servicing "much older, unattractive most likely married men" is not for you!!  There's a huge difference between being candid & being crass...

Sorry you took it so personally. I'm stating the truth. I'm sure a lot of providers feel the same but they don't want to admit it. I guess the truth hurts. Reviewers write about their bad experiences & tell the truth right?

Of course you wouldn't but there is a very distinct difference between the ladies who view clients the way you do, apparently as meat bags attached to a wallet, and the ladies who appreciate us as more then just a paycheck and trust me that difference shines though during a session. Your handle is a misnomer and your disdain for your clients is on clear display. That is something a smart business woman would keep to herself.  

You guys really are clueless. Of course there's one or two regulars we care for after a while. I will stop and let you guys continue to think you ring our bell. Carry on living in your fantasy.

Alas you failed to grasp the concept I was proffering and you elected to doubled down. I almost feel like I'm handing you a shovel by engaging with you at all but I will wish your unfortunate clients the very best of luck in the future  

but don't put your feelings on everyone in the industry, some of us really do enjoy spending time with a variety of people, regulars and new-to-us alike...I personally am honored when someone chooses me to do terrible things to them, they place a whole lot of trust in me when they do so and I return that by not being an asshole to them.

We all know what we are doing in this business. I am thankful you used an alias with all the venom coming out of your words. It might be a good idea if you do stick with your regulars or find a new line of work!! Just my 2 cents worth. Happy hunting!!

I wish I knew who Luv2luvu is so I could be sure to never, ever visit her!  With her insulting attitude it is surprising she stays in this business.  A few extra minutes in any business will only improve your customers' comfort and desire to return ... unless you book your appointments with only a little time in between.

Most would be surprised to learn who I am lol. I don't understand why you guys got your panties in a bunch. I'm just telling it like it is. Quit thinking its ok to overstay. Just like you guys would rather hang out with hot, younger escorts, we'd rather hang out w/ hot men our age that we're wildly attracted to on our free time.

The bottom line is you really do come across bitter.

By all means let us know who you really are so all of us deluded hobbyists can avoid wasting any more of your clearly valuable time. Honestly your original complaint is a totally valid one but you have given us here a deeper look into who you really are and you appear to be shallow, irritatingly obtuse young woman.  

Sounds like this provider liked the Agency way of doing things.  Most agency providers run late, if not late they are trying to leave before the entire hour is up to get to the next appointment.  That's why most seasoned hobbyists see more  Indies, they usually get the full hour, even if only conversation after the main event.

The point that luv2luvu makes is generally true for 80%+ of providers (esp. the ones in their twenties), i don't think most of them would like to do anything with us OTC (there are exceptions, but rare). This is purely a business transaction for both us.

I doubt that you have seen me ... other than at a M&G.  If you did, it could only have been once and don't worry about booking with me again .... PLEASE, refuse me!!

DNS

What a very interesting thread.  It explains why a mid 50's hobbyist like me is more interested in seeing providers that are mid 30's at a minimum and happiest with late 30's into early 50's.
The IOP is at least slightly believable from a little more mature woman than a younger one

We all can get tried of our jobs at times.
The difference is when some of us love what we do and others hate what they do.
So yes this is work and a job for all providers.
The ones who complain about deposits, hobbyists looks or time.
It's clear they hate what they are doing.
Then the providers who enjoy what they do and have a high return rate or reviews.
Well the reason for that is they love the work.
Sometimes a person can fool people for a little while but the truth always comes out