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Would you girls have a problem working with a virgin?
prospectx5 792 reads
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Well, this is going to sound retarded so here goes... so I'm a straight 22 year old guy, and I'm a virgin.  I am not nasty looking or fat or anything, I'm just a normal guy. I've had girlfriends, but I have a problem with actually getting to the sex, I've had plenty of opportunities but always feel ashamed that she'll be able to tell I don't know what I'm doing and I get this weird feeling that I'm disrespecting my girlfriend by even trying to have sex with her.  This has happened in multiple relationships, always ends, never any sex.

So I feel like there is only one way to get over this phobia or whatever this is - actually learn to have sex with someone who is experienced.  I basically need some practice in basic positions, I particularly want to go over positions that are most comfortable to the woman, as I want to make it look like I know what I'm doing and how to handle it when I do the real deal.

Now that you know my reasoning, and assuming you met me and saw that I look like a perfectly normal healthy 22 year old, would you decline to do this or accept it, or not care either way?  I am interested in just knowing, and finding out if this is at all common, have you ever had a client that obviously didn't know what he was doing or straight up admitted it?

purefun2us801 reads

There are lots of ladies on here that would be wonderful teachers.  Get a VIP membership, and do some research on your preferred type of lady and get ready for a fun time.

That said, it's been a *VERY* long time since my first time, and I still can't say that I have a clue what I am doing.  I would suggest just going for it with a special lady.  If she cares for you at all, she will be fine with it.

Bottom line, relax, and have fun. :)

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thebellasecret1674 reads



Us providers are great girls, Most of us have hearts. Your first time should be special... Or at least with someone who you sort of like .With us, Yes you may have fun.. But not something you want to think about forever .  Find a normal girl and wait it out.

Sorry I would decline the apt.  :) Best wishes.

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AZ Terri772 reads

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Sensual Leigh711 reads

Your first is something that you want to share with someone you care about,it's going to be something you remember forever :)

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gnubie3394 reads

I think it might have been more helpful if you had posted this on one of the National Boards, either "The Erotic Highway" or "FAQ for Newbies". You could search either of these boards to find similar threads - I found several containing "virgin".

By posting on a regional board, there is an implication that you may be "fishing". Perhaps you have some private messages from providers that want to accommodate you?

I think it would be much better to do your own research and make your own choices. Don't have a provider choose you. I would look for GFE, MSOG, girl next door type, 26-30, if I were in your position. When making your initial contact, just disclose that you are a virgin. And don't be cheap! Choose highly rated providers with lots of reviews.

While you might be missing out on a special experience that will only happen once, I can tell you that my first experience was nothing to be sentimental about. Maybe I'm just not the sentimental type.

I am very awkward, sexually, and much more so until I was about 24 years old. You're probably not much different than most guys. I don't think any of the earlier girlfriends have serious regrets, and my clumsiness never caused me any harm, ill-will, or significant embarrassment.

I really don't know if this is a good idea or not. I think it depends of a lot of factors.

Good Luck and Be Safe!

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AZ Terri544 reads

the age bracket you did....Your preference might be the 26-30 but I think this gent might enjoy the 30 and up. my observation, the emails I receive, the calls I get and talking with many other ladies the MILF or the Cougars as some like to be called are in very much demand and sot after.

I'm not saying this because I'm in the older age bracket and I'm wanting him to call me as I'm more into the older gent rather than a "cub" although I have a fair number that I do see regularly, were very comfortable with each other  very much friends

I just want this gent to think about all the options...I do agree wholeheartedly not to be cheap but he doesn't have go hungry for a week either but he should seek someone that is well established and enjoys what she does...It's all about having fun while enjoying each other
Nothing wrong with a little hot passion love making mixed with a all out sweaty fuck fest!

Way too many that just go through the motions and not the emotions....if he takes all the great advise he'll in turn be a great lover and we MILF's and Cougars dig that!

Hope I've helped in some small way
xoxox
Terri

Related Link: Age is just a number....but with Age cums a whole new world if you use it right

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gnubie1626 reads

I tell him not to let others make his choice, then, I give him my parameters!

I would also throw in the 31-35 range. I'm not a big fan of age disparity. My point is to exclude the 18-25 range. Just play the percentages toward finding a provider who is a little more mature, in this case.

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AZ Terri490 reads

but when you click on reviews there's only one
I would think if the missing one was a provider that took her profile down for one reason or another that it would reflect the correct number

Do you or anyone else know why that would happen? I was just wondering

Thanks
Terri

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gnubie282 reads

The provider of my first review was delisted. I guess she retired, but, don't know the details.

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rpdya99605 reads

As a guy who was a virgin till about 24, I think its a good idea.  The first time may be special for girls, but for guys, the first experience being with a provider is almost like a rite of passage (at least where I come from).
With best wishes,

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tt850032211 reads

But I would tell x5 that if he really wants to learn how it works go for a MILF like AZ Terri.

Just get a VIP membership and do some homework it always pays off.

But stay away from the 20 year olds you always have to teach them how this business works. I’ll see some one in their low 20’s every once in a while but I don’t expect to get a full GFE just a quickie with a lower price get my nut off and head home some what satisfied.

So x5 do some homework and see a MILF that has experience then you’ll be able to teach your GF a thing or two. But don’t be surprised if she already knows what to do.

Just be careful and you’ll have fun.  

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