Sorry. This one is going to be a little bit of a vent. Followed by a question.  

After trying a few individuals, I found one companion for a mutually enjoyable experience. However, it seems this may be a one-time occurrence for now.  

I found a compatible escort whose rates and services aligned with my preferences. We shared a delightful time together and enjoyed one another's company

At the conclusion of our time together, she inquired about my marital status. In response, she disclosed her own marriage and mentioned that while her husband is aware of her profession, he dislikes the concept of regulars. She also stated that while she has worked in this field for a while, our encounter was the first to make her feel like she was cheating on him. As our time together concluded, she stated that she typically keeping os not a clock wather or co cerned with the lenght of time. Buther husband becomes upset if time exceeds an hour as he feels that means their os more intentions than just the service. She suggested the possibility of booking a hotel room in the future so that he just stay in the apartment and let her do her thing.  

The bummer is thst I am not looking for any type of relationship beyond an arrangement or a good mutually pleasing experince like this. But each time I find a solid ATF, they seem to not stick around.  

The question. So is it me. Did I truly perform well enough in the bedroom with these potential ATFs that it blurs the line too much for them? Although flattering, I do the best with the skills I have. But still do not see myself as overly amazing at waht I do.

Has anyone else had that type of experience? Pretty sure others have, based in past post. Just wondering others thoughts on this, as it is not a topic I can discuss I'm many venues.

I am interested to see what feedback you may have.

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I’m a professional adult entertainer, so no I have never had a session that was so good it made me feel, like I was cheating on my husband. I am recently divorced. My ex-husband was a former client of mine that I had as a regular for over a decade. My question 🙋🏽‍♀️ for you is did you engage in BBFS? I’m not sure what her motive is, but I highly doubt she fell in love with you over a short amount of time behind the bedroom. Maybe I’m wrong & you should post an ad on TER to slang your dick because she thinks it’s so good.

I’ve never ran into this. However, I would very wary. Something doesn’t seem right here. Remember most of these ladies doing this become very good at reading their clients.

I knew you were going to give me some feedback Bia.  
No BBFS. She made the statement after an intense session of giving her oral. Yes, a good provider can fake some things, but I have eaten enough pussy to know when I am hitting a woman's right spots. I am not claiming she fell in love with me, nor do I want or need her to. She mentioned that she has not got off like that when somebody went down on her.  
I do not have her ad to share, as she is a little UTR at this time and does not leave her ad up.
Believe me, if I could find the market, I would hustle this my pussy eating 24/7 and I like a variety.

Fair assessment.  
But, most would do so to capitalize on having a reliable and safe regular. What is the benefit to her to not consider future visits? That is the part that has me saying WTF?
 I am not looking for her to fall for me. Just enjoy a quality session.

I love regulars and I travel to Phoenix 🐦‍🔥 often  

I'll be there Dec 1-4

But for her if she doesn't like regulars and said you were too good at it ...take it at face value and move on  
That's it  

Not every thing needs to explained or understood  
If so everything in world would be easier  
Hold on to memory and move on

Hugs Hazel

That’s just garbage now and days people want to act like fools and don’t want to be held accountable. Things do need to be explained and understood.

That is odd that she needs to explain why she doesn't have any regulars...

Maybe she is married and husband says s NO ...oh right she said she is married..so that is not a very good reason?

If providers say No Regulars it's no reason to hold her accountable for her reasons...it her rules her policies we don't need to explain why we do anal or not it's Same thing!

Her rules her reasons  

Stop thinking your entitled to everything in our lives  
Do you ask these same questions to others like Doctors or Mechanics no so just stop it!

H.H.

Hi  
I am looking for a special escort that meets 3 requirements:
She is spiritual
She is at least a 9 in looks
She is at least a 9 in performance
and She is passionate about what she does.

Hi! 👋🏽 I might know a gal like that. 😊 Feel free to DM me!

That is an interesting and tempting offer. Might be a bit, as you are on the higher range of my entertainment budget.

Red flags:

"husband is aware of her profession, he dislikes the concept of regulars." And "husband becomes upset if time exceeds an hour as he feels that means their os more intentions than just the service"

Walk away. Just walk away.

Agree.  
In her recent ad posts, she has moved to mainly preferring outcalls, but also mentions she would perform in exchange for a room.  
Amazing fuck. Definitely not stable.

So, I finally got things to align and catch her again when she was hosting. Her husband was not an issue this time because he did something dumb.

To respond to Bia's mark so long ago. When she opened the door she remembered me, and that she allowed me to do a little more. That was still on the table + BBFS. I was the one that initiated the end of our session. She was ready to keep riding. She was pregnant (by her husband). She will be adorable with a babay bump. So maybe there are a few other fetishes that might be in the future if she keeps hosting.