My definition of GFE is affectionate-intimacy, & the touching of certain areas other than our private parts...a difficult emotion to fulfill if one is unstable...

Provider's consider themselves GFE when they provide DFK, BBBJ, DATY, CIM, etc. all done w/o any emotions involved!

Providers': Why practice the GFE method if your providing it w/o affectionate-intimacy & touching, not knowing where to touch, & your like a mechanical robot?

In my years of Hobbying I've encountered true GFE only 2x from sex industry workers & both were inadvertent situations on my job:
One was from a hottie stripper who told me she is an entertainer at The Bourbon Street Circus. I can't reveal her name but when she came on to me not only did she touch me in a certain area (not my gentiles) to the point I became aroused, she also unzipped me & made me a pleasant BBBJ.
The other was from a mature N.Scottsdale masseuse who drives a gray Porsche 911. This lady made the most affectionate/intimate-touch like pass at me in such a "frank" manner...the only reason why I remained professional (on the job) was she was with another guy (he may have cared less what she did) but I didn't want to take any chances & possible ruin a business deal worth $$$.  
I'm not a stalker, but I wish I could meet up w/these two ladies again.

My question is can I find true GFE in some of the more experienced, emotionally stable Providers' available, or are they just a bunch of high-maintenance ladies looking to gold-dig me & drain my bank account?          

you need to find a real girlfriend.

You should rather be cultivating emotional detachment.
Get in, get off, get out, and dont see anyone so often you remember their dogs birthday. That is the key to a happy hobbying career.

I would have to disagree Moebius. I used to think the same way, I only saw a lady once maybe twice. "In and out" as you said. But now I've seen a couple of the ladies on a regular basis. And each time it gets better and better. Some started out as basic service, but now range from GFE to PSE.

That my friend is the key to a happy hobbying carrer.

Vampy

i always feel like im in a rut if a repeat too often. thats just me though

Vintage Mo B.S.!
Always wants people to live like he does.

By the way Mo B.S.  My real name is not Eric, so this is an alias!

you probably have white knight fantasies too.

me im a little more realistic about what im paying for.
people like yourself are the reason ive stopped doing reviews. i get tired of listening to the ladies tell me about the idiots who are out to save them.

only other post was your whine about what an alias is.
guess ill stop feeding the troll good luck to you.

You hit on what is my main interest in sexwork.

I have no interest in just raw sex but the more intimate quality touch as well as more intimate sexuality.  

Besides lower costs and no legal issues, that is why I go to Canada so often because they have options I enjoy more than just escorts.

In Canada there are zillions of European women which after 10 years of experience are so much more naturally intimate than U.S. or even native Canadian women. There are exceptions of course with wonderfully intimate U.S. gals but it is rare and expensive. My non escort options that I enjoy even more, are simply are not available in the U.S.

I  was one of the first to coin and use the phrase GFE way back before there were websites - just the alt.sex.prostitution newsgroup which we read by packet readers at the amazing speed of 120 cps (without a k) and it took many minutes to download a single message.

Then there was the old Prodigy boards on those very slow dial ups long before websites.  

Yes I am ancient,  but also have decades of social experimentation on intimacy first with swinging/poly with the libchrist.com Phoenix couples group with 350 folks and than about 10 year ago moving to my sexwork interests.

Back in those days we respected providers and would never think of having unhealthy bareback oral or any kind of unhealthy sex. And this was before the HIV scares (which isn't really much risk in heterosexual sexwork, but lots of other nasty STD's are). Many of us seek the GFE experience which means a real relationship for the moment with a sincere women who enjoys the experience, not just mechanical sex.

Than it seems young on's come along and expect to totally change the definition for one's own selfish, unsafe, ...pardon the expression moronic attitudes.  

Over the last decade, more on the Canadian boards - than U.S. - I have seen a  change and zillions of men  being more in tune with their more intimate side and find they enjoy it far more than being the big macho sex stud.

10 years ago I was attacked for my "intimacy crap" in my reviews and expressions of my interests.  But that has dramatically changed over the years. That change was the basis for trying to share ideas at www.lovetouch.info but I have never found the right partner to develop the ideas with or had the time.  

Girl Friend Experience - Short definition
What it means to each person is a little different, but to most guys it means a provider that makes the experience seem unrushed, enjoyable, fun, relaxing and more like a real date than a quick commercial encounter. In practice, though, it seems to depend on chemistry, personality and mutual expectations, as YMMV ("your mileage may vary") for both the provider and client.

A general description might be: a session that facilitates the experience, mutual cuddling/foreplay, often mutual kissing in an more intimate way not just hard sexual kissing and involves either the illusion or reality of passion on the part of the provider.  Most of all its about being a sincere mutually desired human interaction.  It is the opposite of the women being treated like a sex toy and the man an ATM machine.

Old Dave in Phoenix who enjoys intimacy more than hot sex.

To me GFE means kissing with some light nagging afterwards....

eom

" i get tired of listening to the ladies tell me about the idiots who are out to save them."

No doubt about that Mo B.S.  Your post do show a lack of intellect.  I can only imagine how obtuse you are in person.

Sad that a paid companion will talk about other clients when you pay her to be with you.

"people like yourself are the reason ive stopped doing reviews"
This makes no sense, what so ever.

I have fixed sinks.  Given rides. Bailed out of jail.  Took to dinner.

Not always rewarded but when I am man oh man.  It is like going to pie heaven.

White knight?  In a way but the ones I want to quit are the ones who are not nymphs and just like the money.

The nymphs need us just like we need them.

the thing i like about the hobby is not having to do much of anything but spend money

i always ask if they would like a review since it is the nice thing to do. however i usually am told specifically not to review them since they dont like the attention they get.

I always thought "girlfriends" whined and bitched, almost like a wife... I have never been able to grasp that whole "GFE" thing. I try to be the opposite of what ever the negative connotation IS! lol

Cheyenna

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Thank you
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