Hello gentlemen,

Its me... Bella. Going on a yr of service ( 6 months as just a massager- 6 months full- ) - I know many of you remember my first post. Thank you for your patience , And help along the way of finding my self in this little world called a hobby. I have meet great people along the way, And for my one year- I have a rant.

I have a rant about arizona. .. Wanna hear it, hear it goes.

I love arizona, And Love the gentlemen who I have had the pleasure to meet and make contact with- Thank you from my heart past present & future. But it seems we have a problem in arizona.

The ladies here, In arizona are great providers.. Speaking about the ones whom are verified , Whom work there butts off to take care of the gents, And who work hard to get and keep a great rep. But I have noticed that the gents in az dont appreciate us. We get the emails about Being to high- and becky on cl will do it for this ( Name made up ) and why arent you able to work a special for me. And then there is  the ISO lower 80 dollar rates etc. ( which brings up the bad reviews... that you men post, and wonder why)

BUT - I recently Started to travel and I am noticing, Its not that way every where else. The gentlemen else where are VERY ecstatic when they get to see a quality provider, And dont blink a eye at the rates posted.  

Please keep in mind that the rates we post are there for a reason. There is much more that goes into our -profession- than just coming over and looking good. There is maintenance of our self's, websites, upkeep, posting ads, and we have bills as well. The providers whom are a bit higher are that way for a reason. We are not cash and dashers- people who will upsale- and We dont see 10 gents a night. We are an elite class of women who are happy doing what we love, and want to be the women you love to be with.

I know we providers amongst or selfs talk about it, But dont say anything because we dont want to be the "bad apple". And I know I will not make some people happy.. BUT so be it . I feel it needs to be said.

So , to end my rant.. Please take care of your providers whom go out on a limb to make each of you happy and provide a service ten to none. And in return we will continue to do our best to take care of you !

I believe a provider day is in order.. All in favor say I.

Bella.

The ending where i say a provider day is in order, Is just the end of the post. The real meaning is that we should be appreciated !

Thanks

but it doesn't matter what business you're in or what service you provide, there are always going to be hagglers. In my store I call them freeloaders or scumbags. Either way, the laws of supply and demand should determine the going rate. And there will be luxury, mid range and economy price points in your field as well.

I'm still fairly new to this hobby, but it amazes me that people would try to haggle over posted rates.  I research in depth on TER and on the provider's website before making initial contact.  If what I find seems worth the donation, I make contact.  Maybe I'm shy, but I just can't imagine trying to haggle over something like this.

If I was CL shopping, I know I'm taking a risk of the various scams, and would have to factor that into the final amount.  Not worth it, IMHO.

Concur.

Based on remarks I've seen posted on various client boards, there does appear to be an unusually large sized group who, apparently, consider grinding away at price for it's own sake to be a virtue. And if this is how a man chooses to measure accomplishment, well, whatever; playing the role of tedious bore in any form of relationship will produce a comensurate result. The fact that this is not self evident to some is cognitive deficiency beyond the scope of this reply

The troubling issue is the reports of coercion-through bad reviews-when a provider is unwilling to accept such outrageous proposals. On more than one occasion, lady friends who I know to be exceptional in all regards have complained about this. Perhaps a site where providers rate clients is in order?

Big picture, economic health is the single determining factor in setting the price of luxury services. After 30 years of horrendous abuse, our national economy is in a state of ruin, with Arizona being the poster boy of idiotic policy. The real estate credit that financed the girls and the Escalades is gone and it's not coming back; it would be odd if the fair market price of any number of services didn't collapse, or be priced lower than other city specific markets. But employing stupid negotiation tactics is, well, still stupid.

Treating a lady well over the long term will produce astonishing results in reaching a mutually acceptable accomodation; not exactly rocket science. But a guy who is being a whiney, petty little bitch? I've yet to meet any woman who finds this compelling.

E.

The funniest thing I had to deal with was a provider who I offered a free photo shoot to... she at first wanted it cheaper. Then when I explained that I was doing for her for FREE.. she said that it was impossible for me to do it free, so could I lower my price by another 20% so she could afford it as her business was slow...

I laughed and hung up the phone.. Geez... some peoples children...

BOOOOO HOOOOO

How about a hobbiest day. Free sessions for us guys. oooops that was a stupid question

You really have NO IDEA what we sometimes go through. We can rant sometimes and ought to not be judged for that...

My wise grandfather used to say: "If you have not walked a mile in the moccasins of whom you judge, perhaps it is best to keep your own stuffed in your mouth." lol