What makes a provider "hot" is her ability to make the client feel special. Most men crave to be important in someone's life; to be wanted. In most marriages today, the husband no longer feels wanted by his wife or that he is special to her, so he goes looking for that desire elsewhere. If a provider can make the client believe he is truly someone special to that provider, he will be hooked and on the line for a long time. A client realizes there are other men in his ATF's life but if she allows him to believe he is more than just another client with money in his hand then that client will be a repeat customer for a long time. This hobby is based on fantasy and we all want to be loved and to be thought of as special. My hottest snapshot of a session is my favorite provider cuddles naked beside me and is interested in what I say. She says I am a kind and gentle person and she has been thinking about me all week. She takes control of the session and ravishes me like a sex-starved teenager. In the afterglow, she says "I love your thrusting motion." I feel special and I feel I mean more to her than her other clients. Even if it is just my fantasy, I leave the session with a smile on my face, a song in my heart, and a promise to see her again.