It is not a gripe. It is a sincere question. Why do so very many providers have 'S&M' listed and then wdeeper in the profile it says 'don't know' or 'no'

Gee ladies, it's just a little leather, bondage and discipline.

Because it is not us the ladies that write the initial profile when it is set up. It is done by the first reviewer (who probably doesn't know the answer to that question or didn't receive that service), however it can easily be changed by request from the lady herself to the TER staff.

xoxo
Swedish Anna

I feel your pain! LOL

I've been into BDSM for years and years and yet on my profile next to S&M it says "no". Go figure!