Don't forget the thought that, since she's retiring, there's no incentive to not rip off a few on the way out the door. With no reputation to protect, the possibility of getting ripped by a previously great provider is more than possible.

If I enjoy a ladies company and we have a good time together then I almost always will see her again. I wouldn't want to see her once have a great time and not be able to see her again. Because I know that if the first time with her is that good that it will only get better as we become more comfortable with each other.

If it were someone I had been really wanting to see I would probably try getting over before she was gone.  If not I would just write off getting to meet her.  But then I do enjoy seeing visitors don't get me wrong I have my few regulars I like to see but I also really enjoy the feeling the nerves of meeting someone the first time.  I do agree with the liking to see them more than once normally if I really enjoy the time I have I will go back for seconds and sometimes thirds. Most of the women I see that visit come fairly regular so it may be a few months before our second meet but that next visit normally goes smoother.

Either way if I know them or not I wish them the best and hope they enjoyed the run they had.  If I did know them and see them regular (only happened once so far) I do miss her and still think about the times we had.  Could say happened twice but the second missed it and cme back after about a year and a half only sees her old regulars now but that must be enough to fill her fix? LOL

I noticed recently that your website was no longer up, so assumed you had left. Now that I know you're still around, I'll have to cirvle back. I hope to find some time to meet you in the near future.

You can keep doing "Farewell Tours" like Cher

Oh wait... I'm back again!

Posted By: Holly Berry

No, no, no... I may not be retiring yet (even though theres been some speculation!) Gentlemen, I have been pondering this & I thought it would be interesting to gather opinions & varying perspectives. If you are aware of a Providers (let's say) career length , would that put the rush on wanting to see her? Or would it put the breaks on your desire for a date?


I can see both sides of the coin - on one hand, maybe you'd like to "catch her while you can", but on the flip side maybe your desire is driven by wanting a steady companion. Thoughts? Opinions?


xo.

When looking for a regular companion, if things go well on the first date , that will lead to many more hourly adventures and multi hour dates. I have a few reasons for crossing a provider off my list 1. the "come and see me before I retire" especially if I havent seen her.. what is my incentive? . 2 Doesnt reply to emails, phone calls or texts.