I've noticed quite a few brave peckers in threads admitting to looking on Bp without using an alias, I know there's more active board posters and lurkers on here who look there as well. My curiosity with human behavior begs to know why, what is your reasoning?

I've pretty much been surrounded mostly by men very few women my whole life, so I ensue a lot of male behavior, which I'm not afraid to admit.
There's days when I want to throw caution to the wind, throw an ad on Bp under a different name not showing my face just to get a wham bam thank you sir, because we all know masturbation just isn't the same as the real thing.  
We all have rough days boss bitching at you, your woman nagging you, assholes in traffic, on those days I want raw animalistic sex from you, then I want you to leave immediately.


I also have days where I want strange cock, where I don't have to pull my hair out during screening.  I'm not in the mood for the whole "GFE" thing where we conversate about worldly things, and make passionate love, on those days the only things I want to discuss is how you're going to fuck me.

When moments like these strike you where do you turn to? You know you want strange pussy, you don't want your usual ladies, you don't have time to verify with someone new. How many of  you take the gamble that comes with sites like bp, will it be the girl in the picture, will she rip you off, does the excitement, the thrill of the unknown play a part of the allure for you to look at sites like that?

I want some honest raw feedback with this, so use an alias if you feel more comfortable. I don't want to see negative lashing out comments either, go to the main board for that where it's accepted or at least tolerated please, everyone is different and entitled to their own thoughts and opinions, without the fear of being ridiculed or slammed.

First of all Ms. B, let me just say..........."I bought the Batmobile!!!" So you owe me....lol
But really, love your posts....always. We met back in the day, more than once and you're great. As I recall, you dropped out for awhile, then when you came back, you are so far north, it was like you were in Utah to me. Still miss ya tho.
As to BP. Damn right I've been there, and as some of my reviews show, I've met some wonderful people. Some are newbies, and everybody has to start somewhere. A few rules I follow: Anyone younger than my daughter, looks or sounds cracked out is a no-go. If the first words I hear, after I politely introduce myself with name, age and ethnicity, are "So ya wanna make an appointment?", vs. "HI...how are you today"? I say thanks and hang up. If I hear too much noise in the background, or get a whiff of someone being worked by a pimp, I don't even say Hi...I just hang up. But, if the body-type is what I like, if the age bracket I prefer (mature like you!) is there, and if they can carry on a decent if brief, conversation, why not? If it isn't a great experience, I figure I own 50% of that.....maybe I'm not her cup of tea.....can't blame her for that.
As to pricing, I must agree with an earlier response. At my age, a one and done orgasm isn't worth 500 to me. 200, 250 or even 300..well that's a different story.
There Bailey, I admitted it and I'm proud of it!! BTW...let me know when you want that ride in the Batmobile!!

Usually the only time i take the gamble with a BP girl, and i still do a little research, is when i have had a no call no show and i really want some that night. And the other thing about GFE or just the wham bam thank mam, i prefer the GFE because i'm not getting it as often. But i know what you mean sometimes you just want to bend her over the kitchen table, finish your business and go back to watching tv.

I use BP all the time. I'm from Iowa and hobby in Minnesota/Minneapolis and soon to be visiting
Phoenix. I can't usually give a lot of notice so there's not a lot of time for references to be checked and schedules to work out. What a pain that can be!

If you use BP enough, you find there are a lot of regular girls that you have a pretty good feel for. Many well known gals have gotten their start there and continue to advertise there as well.

Also the cost is generally lower. It doesn't have to be about what the girl is worth, it can be about what my experience is worth to me. In other words, I don't have a $400 or even a $300 orgasm anymore. Don't get me wrong, I still love a good GFE but then the happy ending comes too soon and well, it just ain't what it used to be!

I often wonder if I should change my MO. I guess I just have a hard time spending the money sometimes. Last year I had made up my mind to see your own Krista, only to change my mind. I pretty much regretted my decision after having a bad experience or two. I also had a couple of pretty good experiences.

Yeah I was there to witness who bought the batmobile first hand nice try Richrass, I shall seek out that man for my request once the hype settles down. Must you say Utah, can't you say Sedona?? Utah is a bad four letter word with me

I'm loving the honest nice responses from you guys, I'm hoping to see more when I return from training I'm looking to change my MO in this business, since I'm sexually and professionally frustrated at this point.

milfs that are trying the biz for the first time.  In this economy there are a lot of them.  If a gal piques my interest, I try to get a better picture right away as the ones on BP don't show everything very clearly.  If after talking with them and I decide to try them out, I usually try a half hour session if available.  This way there isn't alot lost if not a good experience.  Another thing I watch for is if the incall is at a house rather than an apartment.  I try to get the major crossroads so I have a feeling for the neighborhood.

Since I live in Flagstaff, sometimes my little head forces me chose someone from BP (like I did this afternoon. Fuck I was horney). Although many ladies have graciously agreed to come up, it takes lots of planning and time which I don't always have. Usually BP girls in Flagstaff are about wham bam thank you that will be additional $100, but it is what it is.

On a side note: I really doubt that majority of men in Phoenix (whom you have previously screened) would have any issue breaking down your door and fucking your brains out (as long as you can get over the fact that it isn't a strange cock). Shit, simply put an add out on TER: previously screened gentlemen - the door is open. come in. place the donation on the table. don't fucking say aword. fuck me hard. satisfy me. Wham Bam now get the fuck out. See you next time, love Bailey

Damn that got sidetracked fast, apparently I should not have even mentioned booty call. I just wanted to know where guys turn to when they have the sudden urge for real flesh other than their own hand for pleasure, or just want a quickie instead of a long drawn out session.

Thank you guys, just as I assumed everyone still goes on Bp

In the beginning yes I took a chance but I didn't know about sites like this then either.  I do at times get the temptation because I like variety and it can be difficult to find someone new constantly. I will check back page fairly often but before pulling the trigger I will need to find some confirmation from one of the many sites I use that she has been seen before by someone I feel comfortable is legit and that the review sounds like someone I would have interest in.  It's not full prof I know but it's not just throwing a dart at the page and calling some complete unknown either.  

I will often be one of the first if not the first to review someone here but that is normally because they are traveling from a area that does not use TER as a major review board.  I have also met a few through another provider who recommended her to me or happen to join us in a duo.  

I do still have my favorites that I will see many times or like every time they visit the valley. Sometimes I will also get a flavor of the month I may see 5 or 6 times in a month or two and get my fill.

I checkout BP almost daily but seldom choose a provider from there unless she is established on another board. There are many, many boards in which to go to and get a quick fix. If thats what ya want. If your a guy thats already verified on a few sites you can most always hookup pretty quickly. Plus as a couple other guys stated. I have a few ladies that I really love to see and if I need some quick pussy.  (Which is rare because I enjoy the excitement of the anticipated meeting).One of them will most assuredly be available.

....they use it like any other website.  I use it to advertise (albeit rarely) as one of many advertising venues....i'm a BP advertiser not a BP girl like many like to refer to ladies they find on BP as.  I would hope they'd do their research on anyone they want to see regardless of where they find her.  They admit to using BP and why not if they know how to research them (hopefully)? I don't stop screening because a guy says he saw me on BP (8 times out of 10 they admit to seeing me elsewhere also like TER or Eros or something because like I said use A LOT of different websites when I advertise, especially when I tour).  I can't really be anti-BP if I wanted to since it plus+CL is how I got started and i'm neither a b&s,rip-off or gamble with the wallet.

quick validation without the hoopla. Also some guys like sleeping with a dirty "slutty girl" its true. Not a bad thing, but I have meet many men whom do not want to sleep with a lady who has her stuff togather, rather someone who is "needy" makes them feel needed.

Who would have thought a woman could thaw my heart lol.


Seriously though you nailed it, I wanted to know where the men look who aren't needy, who don't have a problem giving  provider references because they're good boys with gleaming praises  not listed on a blacklist somewhere.
Who isn't intimidated by  women who for the most part have their shit together, let's face it we all have some shit we have to deal with and who prefers a woman who acts like a lady, but is a full blown slut behind closed doors.


I didn't think that was to much to ask for, apparently it is...... my bad. This year of  2013 is my last year in this business before I turn pro, I want to leave it with fun, fond memories and a few more friends for life, not helmet hair from always banging my head against the wall and therapy for life

While the urge might be there , i still think with my head between my shoulders ! Besides you usually get what you pay for , guys thats just how life is ! Now on the issue of being a bit older and perhaps not as many pops as we once had , My tongue has actually improved with age !!

The original question is a very good one. Ever since the events of 4 summers ago I venture carefully in the valley. Even though BP has been tempting I steer clear. I do my homework with TER and have done well. In the Valley there are several agencies that are trustworthy...enough said there. In a pinch P411 is very helpful. If you have previous Okay's then references are not needed. Date check and RS2000 are also good to use. Lastly LE stats show that more arrests are made from an incall location vs outcall....thusly I avoid incall altogether.

Due diligence my friend due diligence. I'm by no way perfect and I'm sure I've pissed off a few ladies in the past. Bailey for one and I'm crying and kicking myself for getting on her bad side. Because I'm a big dummy. Due to my circumstance and current situation student/unemployed fat slob. I have plenty of time to create my wish list and to be honest my reality list. Now that I am in my mid forties, I get the hankering for something new and strange on occasion. I mainly use TER to check for reviews, I also have a few mentors I hit up for advice and recommendations. Lurking, reading many, many, many, many reviews before making my calls. I only get to play on a very limited basis I definitely do lots and lots of homework. BP has been very interesting. Discovered some true gems under that huge boulder or rock that we call Back Page.  Some have made it to the top of TER's list here in the Valley of the Sun Sheridan,Gianna Phoenix, Savanah, Kristina k all were on BP when they launched onto the scene. At least in my world. Krista another one that I waited to long dropped the ball and she truly rose to Rock stardom now she is completely off the charts for this self loathing bastard. I have recently been to a few get togethers and have met some fabulous Ladies who are mature and in my league. $$dollarwise. Some have become regulars and I can call with short to no notice some with just minimal lead time. I usually try to apply my skill set to get on their good side, I have a massage table at my place and some ladies will indulge me and take the time to get a incredible massage. TOOT TOOT that's me tootin my own horn  and I wrap thins up with my version of a Happy Ending/Start cause I luv me some finger licking pussy being a pleaser I giver her all she has Scotty.... Nothing better then be squeezed by the thighs of a convulsing orgasm. Winning....... that's my world in a nut shell. Tahks for indulging me I've bee told by family and friends that I just don't shut up...... Simply I luv to share my thoughts and wisdom..